I think it's disgusting... Why do you think that's ok? I mean, I'm not saying you're a bad person. But that's something you should be able to share alone with the one you love, instead of doing it with everyone else, because there's a certain feeling/closeness you should have from being able to share that.. How can you have that if there are so many other people in the picture?!? I'm sorry, but I couldn't do that. It's very weird. Are you not worried that you'll catch something?!?!? Are you afraid that you'll lose him if you didn't say it was ok? You did mention he's the jealous type, so it's almost as if you're doing it just for his sake, to make him happy, instead of yourself... Does it make you happy that you're so open to it and as a result pleases him making you think it's ok?
LMAO calm down Ok, 1) I think it's OK because why not he deserves a treat. 2) We don't need sex to feel close 3)Condoms 4)No, he didn't ask me if he could sleep with other girls, I offered for him to. 5)Yes Anonymous: "You did mention he's the jealous type" Me: "what hurts him doesn't hurt me, it hurts him and I respect that" This is the only unhappy thing about it is having people tell me I SHOULDN'T let him with no reason as to why I shouldn't. thanks for your opinion though appreciate it.
it's funny that you came on here for advice... but when anyone gave you any adivce that you felt was "negative" and going against you're whole situation.. you disliked it... if you really need other peoples opinions on what you'doign, then obviously you lack the confidence... and you wouldnt' ask... you're gross.
Well yeah of course I took it negatively it's like if a fat girl asks "do I look fat in this?" and you reply "yeah you're fat and here's a a treadmill" I can't see her taking that as you just voicing your opinion and seeing it as something positive. I didn't come on here for advice, I came on here to see everyone's opinion and and their take on the situation and plus I am highly confident it's hard for me to get embarrassed and shy away because I'm so proud of myself I love every inch of me.
But if she didn't see a problem with it she wouldn't ask... Or at least if something was out of the ordinary about it and she knew that people would look at her differently. More power to ya! Cofidence is key... And I see you've got that no matter what people think... A rare thing we wish we all had
Thank you.. I thought you were angry at me. She could also be fishing for compliments.
its not really that weird because there are many couples that have an open relationship, however it is weird that he can sleep with people but you can't cause he's the jealous type.
I wouldn't say it's weird, uncommon yes.
I'm amazed at how women already tell you it must be because you don't really love him!
What do they base that on? On their narrow minded little view of the world ! They don't even ask you anything to try to see how you feel really, no, imnediately say your relation with that person is not love! Amazing!
Don't listen to their bs. Listen to how you feel inside. If the way your relation with that man feels right to you right now and you are bith truly happy with the way things are then carry on. If something bothers you or doesn't feel right then be careful.
Thanks, I'm happy with it because he's happy doing and I don't believe that love has anything to do with sex, it's not like he loves his one night stands and he doesn't feel any different about me, he deserves a treat every now and again, its just like if he was out drinking with the guys to me. who sasid guys don't know love, thanks dude
thanks. Yes, some women think they know what love is but all they have in their mind is that prince charming bs they have been force fed since they are young! lol Of course they almost never find anything remotely close to this utopia and they become bitter and very judgmental of men and other women that are happy. They basically need to grow up! lol I'm thrilled to hear you have a happy relationship with your man, I hope you guys live happily ever after ! ;-)
haha that lucky bastard. Weird? for me maybe, bit uncommon but awesome? HELL YES
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!you guys don't love each other if you can share him with the world and he "allows" it. He has the comfort of coming home to you after he f***s someone...that's werid, yes.
It isn't "weird". If you're alright with it, then it's cool.
I don't think that is a good relationship. If you really love someone and want to be with them you should only want to have sex with them.
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