my boyfriend (Robert) of 6 1/2 years broke up with me about 2 or 3 months ago, and I still want to be with him. Well he went to a strip club last night, so to avoid staying home and being depressed because he was going to a strip club I went out to the bar with a life time friend (Bobby). Not only is he my friend, but he was also my frist boyfriend as well. But we never even kissed. Well I got very drunk and at one point I was drunk enough to send Robert a pic of me and Bobby at the bar together. Robert didn't relize who it was and when he replyed he said "I got the pic, and if the guy does anything to you I will kick his ass" That was just a whatever because Bobby is just a friend. Well I kept drinking and I bought some drinks for him as well. I spent well over 100 dollars on drinks, so needless to say I was really messed up. Me and Bobby ended up dancing together, and I tend to be the kind of girl who gets really touchy feely when she is drunk, and I was rubbing my butt on his junk. and I put his hands on my breast as well and he held them as we danced.. one thing led to another and we started making out on the dance floor, and he was even kissing my neck. This is not something that is normal for me. Because I have only kissed one guy my whole life and that was Robert. Later on, I was drunk to the point where I was kicked out of the bar. We walked to his house and went to his bedroom. And then I ended up giving him head... He even took off my shirt and bra. I am not sure how to handle this because I have never done anything like that before in my life. He was my frist boyfriend so there is always going to be a place in my heart for him, but I am still very much in love with Robert and want to be with him very much. I know I am going to end up telling Robert that this happened because I do not want to lie to him. But I won't know how to handle it when me and him do get back together and me and Bobby are still friends and hang out, Robert may not be able to trust me... And on top of that Bobby has not even tryed to get ahold of me today, granted we don't hang out all the time and we don't talk on a day to day basis, but I would think that that would be a good reason for him to try and get ahold of me... right? I just don't know what to do.