Is it normal to be sore/hurting after being touched down there?

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My boyfriend somewhat fingered me yesterday and he was pretty rough and I feel like I'm bruised down there. The problem is the middle part of my "hooha". If I sit down or somehow touch that part it kinda hurts. I looked up situations like these but the difference is that its not really my hole that hurts, its the middle part of my "hooha". I'm sure girls understand where I'm talking about...im just concerned if its normal for it to hurt on that specific part. I'm still a virgin and barely exploring these things so any info will be great! thanks:)

sikoo31 · Accepted Answer

yeah I was gonna tell you its only normal if you're a virgin or he was too rough.

the reason that the pain is somewhere else might be that its the most sensitive parts of the body.

sensitive parts have a lot of nerves, and they're all connected, so pain and pleasure can spread through a wide range in your body.

for EX, when we guys get hit on the balls, the pain can spread up to our sides and stomachs and even make us throw up.

so yeah, you shouldn't worry, just tell him to be gentle with you.

debsman · Accepted Answer

His being too rough while fingering you probably resulted in a slight abrasion in that area. If you were to roughly rub your arm for long enough time it would get sore too. You need to tell your boyfriend not to be so rough when fingering you. Most young guys think that just jamming fingers in and out of a vagina is pleasurable. As you found out it isn't. You should teach him how to use his fingers down there.

toosexualcat · Accepted Answer

It's normal if you weren't that wet and he was too rough. However, don't let him do it again. It's not supposed to hurt! Either get lube or have him wait til you're really ready, ie pretty wet down there. Have him get wetness from your hole to lubricate the upper part... if it's all wet it won't hurt. You should also tell him to be gentler...that will also help.

Remember, he can't tell what he's doing.. ie if it hurts. So if it feels rough or hurts, tell him to slow down or lighten up or whatever.

purple12345 · Accepted Answer

its completley normal for your "hooha" LOLZ to hurt after being roughly fingered. Next you should tell him to do it how you like it and keep nice and slow and feeling good. I suggest you sit on ice or a bag of peas until the swelling or pain goes down!

ohsosad · Accepted Answer

He may have scratched you or something too..  tell him to check his nails lol

G-day-Bruce · Answer

What's a hooha. Is it like a didgeridooda of a guy? Just when I thought I knew everything, dam what is it?Gspot? Clitoris? Pee hole? Skeens ducts? I give up.