Masturbating won't make you loose. From what I've read (not sure how true mind you), it's a muscle after all, and more you work it out (play with it or do Kegel exercises or both) the strong/tighter it'll be. The only thing that'll really make it looser is if you put things in there that are gigantic or when a baby comes out :P but babies tend to wreak a lot of havoc on a woman for awhile. But not enough to not keep em attractive to a guy usually.
Keep playing though, it's good to do so. Gets you to know your body and what you like which will help in relationships. And if it's THAT tight, you might need to get used to having a bigger thing in there than a finger... cause, well... many of us guys don't have finger (specially lady finger) sized penises.0 0 0 0My opinion, the only way you going to get loose from masturbating is if you use a big dildo or try to shove something quite large up there.. even if you get like two fingers in, you're not going to be 'Loose'.
And even ladies that are loose, it's not like there isn't any feeling. it's just the feeling of tightness is gone. Think of it like a rubber band. use it a whole lot and it's going to loose it's elasticity, but it's not going to not work. Unless is one of those really small cheap ones. Sometimes they just plain break. lol0 0 0 0
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I wouldn't be too worried about being loose from masturbating - I mostly rubbed the outside, but pretty vigorously and regularly for years before I actually had sex and my first time I was still so tiny it was difficult to get my boyfriend in >_<
The "loose" bit you seem to be more worried about is your vagina - a lot of things can stretch or tear your hymen. which is at the entrance of your vagina, before you have sex, such as horseback riding or gymnastics, any kind of exercise with a lot of stretching. It could also stretch or tear if you started using toys for masturbation, but it takes a lot of regular sex with a penis or penis-sized object to actually stretch your VAGINA, which is honestly the only part that a guy needs to be tight.2 0 0 0The vagina doesn't even "need" to be tight. It still feels fantastic if the woman has a bigger vagina or is supposedly loose.
Frankly speaking... imma virgin and i broke my hymen whike masturbating with a marker.. and now i use a dildo... Not daily but i do masturbate... My hole has frankly gotten big...+i squirt and orgasm a lot.. Due to which m more aroused and my self sex goes on for an hour... i haven't have had sex with any guy... but my hole can now take a 6inch dick..
0 0 0 0I don't even like fingering myself or playing with toys. My thing is rubbing the clit. ha. But I don't think you would get loose from a finger well unless you put 4 of them in there. But still, if it can handle a penis, it can handle a finger.
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1 3The way you are m masturbating now won't affect your vagina at all.
It's just my opinion, but I think it would be helpful to get to where you can handle 3 of your fingers (whole fingers), at the least. You'd then be able to avoid the pain and work of accommodating the penis the first time. You could have a more physically comfortable first time.
I know of women on some exotic dildo forums that can accommodate largish dildos easily, but haven't had sex with a guy yet. I'd be like them if I were a girl and know that I could take a penis more easily.
It's actually really a lot of work and time time to keep the vagina stretched and "loose" from dildos. People that want to do it sometimes don't every get truly loose. The vagina goes back to its base size as the weeks go by and stetching with a gradually bigger toy takes a lot of time. So, just masturbating with an ample dildo or all four fingers can't make you loose.0 0 0 0Are you a dirty? Why are you messing with yourself down there? It will make you loose. If you use your hands a lot on it, it will stretch the outside layers out and make them look like an old woman's wrinkly forehead. Is that what you want a guy to see down there? A guy will see that and take off running and tell his friends.
0 0 0 1It can also cause tears
0 0 0 0Masturbating will stretch and tear your hymen, making the entrance to your Vag looser. Your Vag itself is capable of expanding to accept wider or narrower c0cks, but won't permanently become loose. If you were with a ".44 magnum", did without for a while and went to a .22 short, you would be able to hug down to fit it, even it it were a less satisfying.
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