2 months pregnant?! I hope its your baby!
I think she is lying to you, which is unacceptable in her situation. Also, the fact that she does not want to have sex with you probably has nothing to do with a pregnancy, she has probably had sex with that other guy and she can't get it out of her head. The thing with women they usually can't make peace with cheating, so sooner or later she will tell you the truth or give you subtle cues that she is cheating.0 1 0 0Well she's definitely pregnant, she hasn't had her period in 2 months, and I was there for it 3 months ago. She's getting an abortion, has a check up in 45 minutes as a matter of fact. And it's not like we don't have sex at all. It's just cut down from every night to every other night. Had sex last night. So what will make her tell me, and what are these subtle clues?
By the way, we basically live together. I have enough clothes for the week and weekend at her house and sleep there every night. We have tried talking about it but she says she doesn't know why she has less sex drive. She said last night that she doesn't want to talk about it anymore because we never come to any conclusion except that she wants to wait until after the procedure to see how she feels about her sex drive.
Oh... Now it makes more sense. 1) She does not want to sleep with you because she has to go through abortion. I think its a subconscious thinking that sex can harm her again. 2) When you live together, whether you like it or not, the excitement of having sex slightly disappears. You can be there for her, but if you want to keep your relationship alive and exciting, move out and see her less. Focus on your life and all those times that you will see each other -you will have a great time.
That's some pretty suspicious behavior... is she ever chatting on her phone and when you want to look she hides it? She could have easily deleted other emails, or have another email account? Also, you should be familiar with her friends - always ask her friends' names. I would be very suspicious here...
0 1 0 0She gets texts sometimes but never really hides anything. Though her phone hardly has any texts unless they are from me or if she got them and I was physically with her. She says she deletes them to prevent clutter, but ALL of mine are still there? Also, I was on her shoulder when she checker email last week, and noticed her status was invisible. My logs say she hasn't been online in 12 days. Its gmail and we USED to talk all the time on it...
if she is hiding her logs she is doing something she doesn't want you seeing... trust me, I've been there... she probably deletes her texts as soon as she gets them from other guys. You should talk to her about it... it could be just something inappropriate, might not be all-out cheating - like she could be hanging out with a guy a lot and she knows you'd disapprove. So... tell her it concerns you, and keep closer track of where she goes with whom.
I feel like asking more questions will create a conflict. And if it doesn't, it'll just push her further away. I keep thinking about the 2 instances mentioned in the original post and try to tell myself "maybe she recently realized what she has with me and doesn't want to throw it away." But really, she lied about going out and on top of that she was talking to another guy that she "says" she didn't end up meeting. I feel like I will never let go of that...
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