I've been with this girl for almost 3 months. About a month after we decided to commit to each other (which was about 12 days after meeting through a friend and on vacation), I caught her lying about going out one night. The only thing I can tell that she lied about though was the fact that she knew about it a week earlier and didn't tell me until the day of and said it just came up. This started a big fight since I had know a week before she told me about it, thanks Facebook events! She offered to show me her email and chat logs and I accepted. I had noticed in a chat that the day after she told me she wanted to commit, a guy asked her out for drinks. She replied to him "my friend is having some trouble and I told him I would go shopping with him, how about next Saturday?" There was no further chat after that but since it was GTalk, I assume she just went off the record at that point. So I noted the date of that Saturday and went back through my text logs. That saturday, she told me "my friend is having some trouble and I told him I would go shopping with him". At that point I didn't know about the other guy, but I did have a funny feeling about it so I replied "my friend is having a poker night and I said we would go". She quickly agreed to the poker night but said that she needed to be home from 10am-4pm because the cleaning lady was scheduled. I don't know nor would I ever be able to prove if they met that day. We used to have sex every night but now it's every other night, sometimes we go two days without. I still try almost every night, but I'm rejected and it's taking a toll on my confidence. But always make love on weekends. It might be because she is about 2 moths pregnant but she said she isn't sure why her sex drive is gone. I also know that she is friends with someone she once slept with, as well as a guy that she "almost" cheated on her ex with. She is not an open person and she is also very private. I have noticed she is more interested in losing weight, she did her nails for the first time since we've been together, bought new lip gloss and mentioned buying new underwear. If I was the adviser, I would say to someone in my position "You've been had, run bro"
So is it just me?
So is it just me?