I’m afraid to have sex due to my foreskin?

Question

I’m not circumcised so I have foreskin.

Due to not having too much experience with sex, I’ve watched a lot of porn where the men are all circumcised so I never properly learned about having non-circumcised genitals.

I’m mainly worried because I cannot pull the foreskin past halfway of the head of the penis and it is connected to something called a “banjo string” which I read can snap so I’m afraid to pull it down past the head.

What should I do since I don’t want to go to a doctor and I’m under 18 so they wouldn’t do much about it anyway.

I can masturbate and I can pee, it’s just that I’m afraid of sex because it might tear the skin attached to it (banjo string) and I’m afraid of pulling the skin all the way down so I won’t tear that too.

Boromir · Accepted Answer

Like really? Millions of people had sex for thousands of years with uncircumcised penises, until some fanatics decided that it was cool to circumsize men to proof their clan adherence?

Two thing:

What you call the banjo string is officially called the frenulum and it’s a normal part of your penis. It will not break at first insertion if that’s what you’re afraid of.

It’s important that you can keep your penis clean, for this it’s needed that you can clean behind your glans. You need to practice slowly, day by day, pulling your foreskin back behind your glans, first in flaccid situation, then in erect.

Once you can do that your penis is in perfect condition to enter a vagina. With a condom ideally if you’re new partners and are not busy with trying to make babies.

SkipStop · Accepted Answer

Dude, the best thing to do is get information from a doctor. It is embarrassing but they are not gonna judge or spread any rumors. Your health is your #1 concern. I'm not circumcised and that's great. So what if 99% of male pornstars are circumcised. Watch homemade non-American porn instead if you're curious to see how natural penises function. And I doubt anything will tear unless you totally lose control and go really rough on the girl. Even then the chances are very slim.

PetiteLiLCurious545 · Accepted Answer

Don't worry most girls don't care i care more about pubes than skins

goaded · Answer

You'll be fine, it should slide in smoothly, you're not hammering a nail into a piece of wood.

maadison · Answer

Go to the doctor? Your age doesn't matter.

Kwikkwekkwak · Answer

I am not curcumsized either thank god. But my mom learned me when i was young to always pull the skin back to wash it properly. As for now i dont have any troubles getting my skin back.
Maybe try to play more with the skin to get it back.
Search the limit to stretch that "banjo string".
I dont think it wil snap. Because I've never had that

outside_Toronto · Answer

This is an irrational fear Why don't you try watching porn with guys that are uncut? You'll see the friction alone makes your worry a non issue.

jbskhan · Answer

I don't think it would harm you.. if you don't go for a virgin.. go for some whore or someone who has pretty wide pussy.. you can enjoy a lot without having any problem