Fell asleep during sex!!

omg I feel so bad! last night me and the boyfriend were at it and at some point I nodded off, when I woke up he was laying next to me. I don't know if he finished/if he noticed? How badly would this offend you!? or is it not that big of a deal?
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  • LOL!

    Don't worry. I wouldn't be bothered by it or anything - I actually love fooling around when one of us is tired, cos falling asleep that way feels great and getting to fiddle with someone who's sleeping is amazing. I'd be real turned on about that, actually, I have a thing about sleeping girls.

    I'd totes ask you if I was boring you, though. But I know that that's unlikely. If your a little bit tired, and having really good sex, falling asleep means its rhythmic, which is a good thing. Its like, catatonic. You know, like you can fall asleep to really mantratic music, because its on the beat and all, polaritive and stuff. Catatonia contributes a lot of that.

  • Well, it's not the best thing to do during sex. However, if the girl and I have been dating for some time (Not our first few times), then I would totally understand. Plus, I would like it if the girl mentions it the next day, just to show me that she's regretful and that she did it unintentionally.

    Anyway, don't make a big deal out of it, people do crazier stuff. Best wishes :D

    • thank you! and yes we've been together for 2 months but sleeping together for 1 month, almost everyday/every other day so it's not new. I will try and mention it without hurting him :)

    • Good luck :D

    • Hehe, thank you lady. :)

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  • I think it's understandable since you were really tired lol. I can't imagine that a guy could actually fall asleep during sex if he's the one doing the work, but as the girl when you're laying down and really tired, it happens lol. I've almost done that once because I was tired AND drunk, and those don't mix well hah. I don't think it's a big deal, at least it wasn't because you were bored.

    • haha true I'd be really worried if it was him falling asleep instead of me. and I don't think he'll see it as too big of a deal after reading some of these responses. once my head hit the pillow, sleep was too hard to resist!

  • I would be offended. How do you fall asleep when some guy is putting his penis in your vagina no matter how tired you are? This is pretty funny.

    Also, you said you don't think he noticed. How do you NOT notice that your partner has fallen asleep though?

    This makes me giggle.

    • lol I'm glad you find it amusing :) like I said before he was going really gently because I told to and he was kissing my neck/chest the whole time in this light feathery way which was sort of ticklish. anyway all of that combined with my tiredness just made it seem more like a massage I guess ha ha idk

    • Yea thanks for the laugh! Well that makes sense if he was being really sweet and gentle and it was more of a massage feeling. But how does he not know you have fallen asleep?

    • well if he paid more attention to my face instead of my boobs I think he would have known instantly lol

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  • Whoa...well if I were him,i would be a tad offended.BUT,then I would have to chuckle because you did say that you were tired.I think expressing how tired you were again should be enough. You at least did try.:)

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  • ha ha seriously the sex must have been great if you nodded off, sorry, if he did notice I think he will be upset, did he not say anything about it ?

    • lol no he hasn't! I don't know if he noticed..

    • I am pretty sure he would have mentioned it or acted strangely, by acted strange I mean like did he seem normal or a little pissed ? I wouldn't say a thing about it because if he is unaware and you tell him then he might be offended and pissed at you, just get more sleep from now on lol

    • yeah he seemed a bit edgy in the morning but I think you're right in that I shouldn't bring it up.

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  • I never got that how can anyone fall asleep during sex. and yesh if that happened to me id be so offended and never forgive him.

    • Never forgive him? Wow, so sad.

    • no not sad at all. just don't f*** up and no worries. life is tough and hard and not always fair get over it

  • did you have a reason to be super tierd?

    • yeah it was a looong day, I was running around everywhere trying to make appointments. and I didn't get enough sleep the night before

    • Well I'm sure if you explain that and make it up ;) he will be fine

  • I find that endearing

  • lool I find funny.

    Out if interest was it really bad and why did ou have sex if our were so tired...

    • O.o

    • lol it wasn't bad just not the right timing. I told him I was dead tired and that I wasn't going to participate too much but I guess I overdid the whole "passive thing"

    • lol I'm sure you did.. oh well try to bea little more active in the next time please.

  • you better compensate for that next round girl cause if he noticed he must have been feeling pretty weird!

  • Wow, that must have been some terrible sex. Lol I know I would be offended and very upset if that happened to me..,

  • A friend did that to his Girlfriend (drug induced) & she just laughed. I don't THINK I'd be offended. I'd just be like, oh you poor baby, you're really tired. It's kinda cute that a girl would be that sleepy & try to work through it just to please me...

    • lol I think this was his reaction, he said it didn't bother him. he DID notice after all, I'm glad he wasn't pissed

    • Aww, good. I didn't think he would be. It sounds like he loves you...

  • I hear this happens a lot in marriage.. LOL but yea I wouldn't trip when I go boom I get instantaneously sleepy too.

  • I think I'd be pretty hurt. I mean, that would be a major shot to my pride that a girl couldn't even stay awake while we were having sex. If sex made you tired (like, that is the expected result) then it would feel great to pound a girl into unconsciousness. But having a girl fall asleep right in the middle of it would instantly kill any libido I had going.

  • My boyfriend has done that to me but he was drunk.. he was going at it then all of a sudden he was snoring. At first I thought he was joking... nope he passed it it was funny. If someone is really tired its understandable. It can happen to anyone.

  • hahaha congrats!

    you just hurt his male ego. can't get much worse than that.

  • It happens! Just enjoy!

  • Personally I wouldn't like it. I'd be offended and my pride would probably be hurt.

  • wow he really must suck at it lol

    but yeah I'd be kinda offended, like I'm trying to please you and you're dozing off on me? ha ha I guess just make up for it the next time around

  • Wow, that must have been bad sex, there. Umm, I think I would be offended. But if he had a legitimate excuse (I can't think of any because most guys are more than awake during sex), I wouldn't me too mad.

  • i think that was cute. if I was your boyfriend, I would like rape you up LOL!

  • i know I would be hurt, not offended

  • Aw cute, it wouldn't offend me and it's not that big of a deal

    • lol I didn't know it could be cute but I'm glad it's not always that big of a deal

  • I'd be pretty offended if a girl did that to me.

    • i didn't do it on purpose! but I understand, how could the girl redeem herself if this did happen?

    • I guess just explain to him that you were really tired that day and hadn't even planned on having sex because you knew you were too tired, but you decided to do it anyway to make him happy.Telling it that way it makes you look like you went out of your way to do him a favor, but your exhaustion got the best of you. He can't really be mad at you for trying.

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