It’s okay to be an adult Virgin, right?

[Anonymous]

People get surprised that I tell them I’m a Virgin reaching 30. But I just never found the right person to let in, and I’m still living my life.

[ConnieS]

It most certainly is ok. Good for you, hon, that you're waiting for the right person. 💓 Sex, especially making love, is a pretty big deal (especially for a lot of us ladies) and the first time is even more special.
Personally, I never could understand how some people can have one-night stands and casual affairs - sharing something so intense, so intimate, so personal.
And it's worth the wait - quality is more important than quantity, especially regarding sex. There's no comparison between having sex and making love.
We can still have a rich, rewarding, fulfilling life - even if we're not currently having sex. 😊

[Denz1510]

Yes it's fine, much better than rushing into something or doing it just for the sake of it and regretting it later.

[Larkyy]

Why would it not be okay?

[Pamina]

If you feel fine with it, it's okay. If you feel unhappy because of it, it's not okay.

[Phanta]

Your situation is better than having seen prostitutes. Don't waste your money on those rotten crooks.

[IlyaTheImpaler]

It totally is okay. I usually think of them as Paladins. by the way are you Asian?

[bailey11]

What does it matter if she's Asian?

[Esmée_]

Yes it's okay

[Americanteengirl]

Only if you are a virgin by choice.

[AD240pCharlie]

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age. You do what you want.

[Random_Guy_Online]

I feel like it's shamed upon to some extent in society, especially with males. But there's really nothing wrong with it unless you feel depressed or upset about it. Like this guy obviously is depressed and needs to get his crap together.

[Scarecrow13]

Yes, virgin shaming is extremely bad. The pressure to have sex is so strong you are shamed if you haven't.

[AngryNoctis]

I was a virgin by choice until I was 18 then I met my first super serious girlfriend and she pressured me into lots of things including me taking her v-card and mines in the process.

[Anonymous]

It's of course up to you but it is weird, it's also likely to make people wary of you when dating.

[Asker]

Why ‘weird’ and ‘wary’? Please elaborate and explain with a complete detailed sentence

[Opinion Owner]

First off if you're going to demand explanations don't be so rude. Secondly it's weird that you're 30 and still a virgin, there isn't more explanation needed there, and because it is weird and abnormal a lot of people will be wary when dating you.

[Asker]

Excuse you? I was not being Rude. You are the one who used the word ‘weird’ and ‘wary’ in the first place. I said ‘please elaborate and explain’. Not only did you throw insults and judged me, you also got defensive when there was no attack, when all I asked was to explain in detail sentence for you back up those words. You didn’t do that, you became defensive and threw an attack as a defense mechanism cause of your perception thinking I was demanding and being rude when that was not the case.

[Opinion Owner]

I was never rude, my description is fact if it offends you that's not my problem. I did explain you just don't like my explanation, I certainly wasn't defensive or on the attack lmao.

[Asker]

You were defensive “First off if you're going to demand explanations don't be so rude”. And you didn’t explain anything just judgement “Secondly it's weird that you're 30 and still a virgin, there isn't more explanation needed there,”

[Opinion Owner]

That wasn't defensive that was me calling you out, don't try and project and that wasn't judgement it's literally the definition of weird, there is no more explanation needed there.

[Asker]

You don’t know what you’re talking about. I’m done

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever hun, don't ask if you can't handle the answers.

[Anonymous]

Fuck we only live once, just go out there and have some fun

[Anonymous]

Not for men. Women really hate virgin males, especially if that male suffers with depression and other mental illnesses

[ConnieS]

Are you kidding? First of all: "women"? Generalizing. Second of all 😄: all the women I know love male virgins! It's more appealing than being with players/guys who "sleep around". It's possibly a sign of self-control, self-respect, etc. 😊 If a man suffers from depression and other mental illnesses and hurts the woman, it doesn't matter whether he's a virgin or not.