If he only likes to cum in doggystyle or anal, could that mean that I have a loose vagina?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is 21 and I'm 19. He used to like to cum in missionary and in different positions. But lately, we do all the positions and he always ends up wanting me to be in doggystyle to finish. He also really likes anal. If he only comes in doggystyle now, could that mean my vagina is a little loose? He says it's not, but he knows I'm very insecure of my vagina, so I don't know if he is being truthful.. how do I know if I'm loose?

[MissKittyz]

Honestly, you could only be "loose" if you had a baby and it damaged your vagina muscles but that's extremely rare. In that case, you wouldn't feel anything during sex and would need to see a doctor. So if you do feel pleasure during sex, your vagina is fine. It probably has to do with him just preferring that position or finding it hotter Than any other position. Also, different position means different angles and different speed, different thrust and etc. So could also be part of that.

[Asker]

And I've also read somewhere that guys' dicks twitch after they have a really good orgasm. I used to feel him twitching in my pussy after he came, but here recently I haven't felt him twitching. Could this mean he isn't getting as much pleasure from me, or am I just overthinking?

[MissKittyz]

I feel like you are probably just overthinking it, if he is still able to cum, then he is having pleasure. If he wasn't enjoying sex, he would probably tell you or have less sex with you. Why don't you try to talk to him about it since you are very concerned? I think it is important to share your concern with your partner.

[MatinBrumeux]

He probably just likes that position. Doggy is easier to finish in because of the range of motion.

[Asker]

Sometimes before he starts in missionary, he's rock hard. but once we do missionary and he pulls out, he's less hard and it's not because he came. Could it mean that my vagina feels looser in missionary? What is causing him to go a little soft in missionary? He's not nervous.

[Anonymous]

With my ex, we typically would start out missionary and then finish with anal, especially if I couldn't finish otherwise. This was usually when she wanted to have sex again almost immediately, and it takes more time for guys to "recharge" than girls. Doggy style and anal tend to turn guys on a lot more, mainly due to the more dominant nature of those positions, and also because guys often feel extra lucky and special when their girlfriends let them have anal.

[reptocarl]

No such thing as a loose vagina. He’s probably addicted to porn and it’s the only way he can get off

[Asker]

And I've also read somewhere that guys' dicks twitch after they have a really good orgasm. I used to feel him twitching in my pussy after he came, but here recently I haven't felt him twitching. Could this mean he isn't getting as much pleasure from me, or am I just overthinking?

[reptocarl]

Overthinking

[Buckzor]

Don't fall into the "loose" vagina shit, he cums in that/those positions because they feel the best to him, and is easy for him to thrust and control everything on his end. It's easy for us to cum in that position.

[ItsyBits]

It sounds like he's an ass man so maybe he just needs your ass to take him over the edge.

[Sabretooth]

wish girls were more excepting to this and not be like 'maybe he's gay'' nonsense.

[Asker]

And I've also read somewhere that guys' dicks twitch after they have a really good orgasm. I used to feel him twitching in my pussy after he came, but here recently I haven't felt him twitching. Could this mean he isn't getting as much pleasure from me, or am I just overthinking?

[Sabretooth]

possible-or he's under stress.

[Asker]

@Sabretooth could it be that my pussy has changed and is providing less pleasure? He hasn't complained, but I dont think he would complain because he knows how insecure I am..

[Sabretooth]

or he just likes anal better.

[Asker]

@Sabretooth do guys generally like anal better because its tighter?

[Sabretooth]

it's part of the reason. plus, the thrill of it. also, we see the ass long before we see the pussy-so, we already have an appetite for it.

[Asker]

@Sabretooth okay. So it's normal for guys to prefer anal over vaginal then?

[Sabretooth]

it varies. for me, i'd think i'd enjoy it more.

[bubbakong2006]

No he just has fetish of doing that I’m sure your pussy is fine I have never had any pussy that didn’t make me cum ever

[MLGbreezy]

Nah I think he just really likes those other positions

[toddthemod]

I'm thinking doggystyle and ass insertion are his thing but he was kinda tentative at first. Not all girls are receptive of back door stuff.
As long as you can get your turnons met and he knows variety is desired I'm thinking no worries

[Sabretooth]

I think it's just his favorite

[masterkamasutra]

its nothing to do with your pussy, its all about his mind set and his dick.

[chuck47]

Do kegels regular.

[prc84]

Not at all, many men prefers anal. I'd do only it if I could

[Anonymous]

That's not how it works, and it might also be in his head.

[Anonymous]

Not at all

[Anonymous]

It has nothing to do with your vagina. Guys get off on having us in a sexually submissive position. That’s why they love doggy so much. Trust me, he’s enjoying himself. If it really bothers you, just ask him to switch it up sometimes.

[Anonymous]

Doing you from behind probably just gets him off he like the animalistic side