Do you ever experience "blue balls" (or a female equivalent, if you're female)?

"Blue balls" refers to physical pain or discomfort caused by unfulfilled sexual arousal.
Do you ever experience
Yes and it's very painful
Vote A
Yes and it's painful
Vote B
Yes and it's physically uncomfortable
Vote C
Yes but it's only a little physically uncomfortable
Vote D
No I don't experience any pain or discomfort when I experience unfulfilled sexual arousal. I only experience mental distress.
Vote E
No. Even when I experience unfulfilled sexual arousal, I don't experience any pain, discomfort, OR mental distress
Vote F
I don't experience unfulfilled sexual arousal
Vote G
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  • I really don't think there is an equivalent...
    This guy I used to see (not anymore after this 😏) ditched me for some model job from his London agency after he told me he was gonna come over on a Friday a few weeks ago, and he literally only told me it wasn't happening like the day prior when he obviously must have known it way earlier. That was mildly frustrating, I got back by cutting him off completely though - good riddance.

    • i can help pm me ;)

    • @manmeat lol I’m good

    • I've seen women go insane without sex. They can get it so easy though.

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  • I get “Blue Boobs”
    My lady bags start tingling and aching when they haven’t been sucked and bit on in long while. This is not an exaggeration.

    • i can help pm me ;)

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, actual blue balls is very rare.
    It would require a lot of effort and weeks of getting a male close to orgasm and stopping, he would have to stop masturbating.

    Most people on here seem to equate blue balls with sexual frustration.
    It is NOT the same.

  • I can’t stand to not finish haha I personally think it’s very selfish if a girl doesn’t let the guy finish lol just throwing that out there

    • If that is true, then it's also very selfish if the guy doesn't let the girl finish.

    • It is selfish and that’s why I make damn sure I get her off because that’s my only goal in bed it’s such a turn on when I can make the girl cum. If your guy doesn’t do that than your guy just doesn’t care simple as that but I do haha if she wants me to go down on her because it will get her off I will go down and stay down there for hours and break out all the tricks haha but she will cum

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  • Not painful but frustrated definitely!

    • i can help pm me ;)

    • @manmeat lol I have felt frustrated not I am But thanks anyway

    • ;) ;)

  • No physical pain I just get all pissy lol

    • hate when a girl gets pissy its worse than having cat piss everywhere lol i can help pm me ;)

  • Just very frustrated really... 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • i can help pm me ;)

    • r/creepypms

  • It's more the excruciating sexual frustration that's so difficult to take.

  • I have done, sure. No big deal though.

  • Never have.

  • I had a blue ball thrown at me in the ball pit when I was five.

  • If i go too long without sex or masturbating the blue balls can be painful when I finally do orgasm. If I go more than a like three days with sex OR masturbation... there is serious pain.

    I am very horny. I cum a long time. And i have sex for hours. My libido is much higher than average. So itd be a problem if I didn't orgasm.

  • I have! It's actually pretty painful, for a bit, then it subsides. 😂

  • I’m gonna say it’s just guys in their period lol

  • It's more psychological than physical for me

  • Yes, but is hasn't been super painful before.

  • Yes and it's frustrating and annoying.

    • i can help pm me ;)

    • @manmeat nah I'm good

  • Depends on the situation.
    On the intensity of the arousal and how long it lasts.
    I've had some extremely painful blue balls before and I don't let it get that bad anymore.

  • G - I don't experience unfulfilled sexual arousal.

  • If it is real I have never experienced it.

  • Its that called edging?

  • its like getting kicked in the balls lol

    • What is that like? :p

    • well from i understand for girls its like a guy with a really huge cock going balls deep and fucking you super hard and hitting your cervix lol

  • I'd say it's noticable discomfort for about 10 mins as a guy. I usually either fully commit to doing it or not at all to prevent that problem.

  • Very minimal. Sometimes my dreams are controlled by me. Very few can master their dreams.

    Sometimes vile dreams happen that I know are of Satan and I pray to Jesus that I do not have these.

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