Have you ever come in your pants from a lap dance because I was told that?

I and other girls would like to know is it true that you guys come in your pants from a lap dance? Not in private while getting a lap dance from your girl I mean in public at a strip club? If you ever have were you surprised or is it common? Also, is this common knowledge for all guys that stripper lap dances will make you cum? Also, what was so special to make that happen- just rubbing and grinding. My girlfriends and I talked about it and only think that would be possible if a guy hasn't had sex in a long time. Please Tell us. Thanks
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Thanks for your honesty. I love it. So many come close then? Better facing towards you or away?
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  • Hahahaha, no I doubt most guys have done this. I have not, but id kill to see my pals do it. Be so f***ing funny.

    Also just because a guy hasn't had sex in a long time doesn't affect his stamina. How turned on and how much he can control himself effects his stamina.

  • Yes. She had my cawk perfectly positioned between her ass cheeks and she grinded on me hard and fast until my eyes rolled back in my head and I started to drool. she saw my "O" face

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  • Hasn't happened yet for me, but if it does, she's getting a serious tip.

  • As one who previously had an involvement with a strip club , and an array exotics dancers , I can assure you it happens regularly. Now people saying " he hasn't had sex in a long time " can be part of it but not always , guys will generally try not to ejaculate , and will do thing like move , talk or fidget to try and hold on to NOT cross the line to climax , now sure the " bucks night " cop out scenario , he is not going to ejaculate , thats not sexy , its just crude.
    We had one particular dancer , you loved making the right guy shoot his load , she explained to me , what she looked for , so generally it was the guy who had been around for a while , or a guy she knew , she had noted that he had had numerous erections and had participated in his night selectively , hence say a particular dancer etc , she would make sure he was already hard , prior to the personal beginning , she would sit on his lap , stoke him gently underneath , making sure the breasts were planted firmly , yet gently directly into his face , then as the dance did begin she would make sure he couldnt talk , jumping firmly onto the knees while grinding slowly up and down on the erect member , she would tell me , you would feel the muscles tense as he tried so hard to hold onto his load , of course the harder he tried the less he could control , guys gain control when having sex by changing the trust , this ability is simply removed , she would tell me , she could pretty much always if using this criteria , get them to blow , if she didn't get them on first , shed hit them up for a second , they would explode , she would try and then get some extra $$$ s , and make a clear comment that she knew what had happened " How are you feeling Steve? , umm a little " wet " " , that way they felt obligated to give a little more , this was just one dancer , there were a few like her. There were other bitches , who just got pissed off , but these girls just complained about everything , a really just resented their customers.
    So , to guys who really want to enjoy themselves ( whether that means ejaculation or not ) Id advise the following , never attend with groups of guys , solo is best , under the radar , never wear jeans , be cautious of underwear selection , dont drink too much , be clean , and smell your absolute best , be extremely selective with regard the dancer , extremely cautious , watch how she is working the room " Churn and burn " is always sht ( always ) , never go straight in , talk first , get the vibe , be prepared to say No , get the vibe for the room , think about where you will position yourself , dont big note , nor be too generous initially.
    Believe me , it makes a massive difference , groups of loud idiots , big noting , they get treated as ATM machines , be sensible , think it though , always " under the radar ' will achieve a better outcome.
    Think it all though , dont be an amateur , think it all though , never get overcome by the first pretty face , those girls who jump in quickly are rarely the performers you are looking for.

  • One time, a stripper in VIP got me off with her hand, reaching inside my pants but outside my boxers. She was also an escort and it was her way of letting me know that she was interested in meeting outside the club, if I was interested.

  • well to me, when i use to go to a strip club and gotten lap dances, i never cummed. the only times i actually did cum, was when i asked the stripper to just be rubbing her private part against mines. i only had one time (literally) when the stripper cummed on me, but from what she said, doing that (just straight rubbing her private part against mines) was the fastest way that made her cum as well. but my question to you is that if that is true that a girl can cum by rubbing on a guy like that?

  • ive not had one, but I can see how it could easily happen.

  • well it's kind of a fetish of mine, even though it's never happened to me. Whenever I've got a lap dance I've asked the stripper if guys ever come in their pants, they have all said yes, none of them seemed to really enjoy that happening very much LOL.

  • almost every time

  • It has never happened to me but it did happen to a friend of mine once. Pretty funny I think but yeah, it happens

  • Was close once.

  • I've made guys cum from it.

  • I usually don’t but I have a couple of times. And you are right I had not had sex in a long time. The girl was straddling me and breathing heavy and slightly moaning in my ear. Grinding hard I had on nylon gym pants with no underwear and she just bikini bottom. I was right up against her pussy lips. And felt so good.

  • I’ve cum in my pants many times from lap dances. It was a surprise the first time I got one, since then I’m hoping to cum when I get them.

  • I could never cum during a lap dance with regular clothes on. It was very frustrating, so I put on a loose fitting condom that was lubricated on the inside. I held it in place with a rubber band twisted into a figure 8 and looped under the balls. With that device I have cum during a lap dance, but the dancer must do a grinding motion for it to work. It doesn't matter whether she is facing forward or backward if her technique is right, but I get better results if she is facing me.

  • Away. Give me that ass

  • No, it was too brash and public. Plenty hard, though.

  • I blew an oyster in my pants from an over the pants hand job, but never a lap dance.

    • out of curiosity, how old were you?

    • 21