Please Explain The Naughty Police Officer to Me, Need a handbook

I'm the shy quiet type. I can get freaky in the bed room but if put into a position where I have to talk, be coordinated, dominant, I stiffen up and start to panic. And sex or fantasies are hard to enjoy in that state. Its stage fright. My boyfriend wants the Naughty police officer fantasy and he did do one for me so I guess I can return the favor. I have the costume but the script and the fact that I have to lead has got my stomach all tied up in knots. Can someone please explain the NAUGHTY POLICE OFFICER for a dummy. WHY ISN'T THERE A HAND BOOK FOR THIS!
0 0

Most Helpful Girl

  • Inside every shy quiet type is a saber toothed cat waiting to pounce.

    I used to act (I did theater for a long time, used to be terrified of stages, did mostly tech but on the few occasions they needed a part in a production...) so I can drop a few tips.

    The script is just the words, what you have to do is sit there and look at it and go "who is this character", what do they want, what are their goals, what's their life like, what do they like and dislike, where'd they go to school, do they have an accent? Think of the script as a guide to developing a personality, get as detailed or not as you want on it. Hell, give her a name!

    A good exercise to get stage fright out is just to jump around and shake yourself loose with as much energy as as noisy or quiet as you like (it helps if you vocalize), it'll get you pumped instead of freaked out. Lastly, really develop the character.

    Truth is, whoever this character is, is actually an aspect of yourself. We all have them. Secret hidden parts of us, people we want to be, people we're afraid to be, etc etc.

    If it helps, take an acting class (they have them at most community colleges/night classes).

    There's an inner predator in you, you just have to find her and let her out.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think you might consider link

    a sort of handbook for this.

    You can search these stories to find what you'd like to do, then simply read it over enough times to get the idea & concepts. Take a rest and imagine what portions you would like to do and imagine how you would get him to do this & that in your mind. Put him off until you are completely focused, ready and replaced butterflies with "can do" & "yipppeee - what fun I'll have with this!"

    • THIS IS PERFECT!

    • best answer? Best of luck - care to report back to us?

  • "WHY ISN'T THERE A HAND BOOK FOR THIS!" Because they're fantasies. We make them up.

    You know the basics; you're the cop, he's the suspect, and this involves "punishment" of some sexual sort. It's a domination roleplay, if that helps any.

    From there, wing it, mess around. This isn't supposed to be serious, there's no being "good" at it. It's just a fun, creative way of getting in each others' pants.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 0