On a scale of 1-10, how bad does sex hurt for the first time?

[Anonymous]

^^^^hmmm just wondering

[Twilight_Starstorm]

For me, it was 1 (or 2 at some points). It was hard to make him fit in the first time, and we never got him all the way in anyway, because I was too tight/nervous. There was a little stinging because my skin was getting stretched of course, but we went nice and slow so there was no tearing or anything too bad. When it did hurt, I got him to stop and try going slower. So a word of advice: go slowly if it starts to hurt; don't rush things, and don't be afraid to use lube or spit if you have to, to make sure things go smoothly.

So to repeat: It didn't hurt that much, and the pain stopped as soon as he stopped stretching the skin with his thrusts. So don't worry about it :) As long as you communicate with your partner that first time, there will be hardly, if any, pain.

Hope I helped :)

[Twilight_Starstorm]

Thankyou for best answer! :D I'm glad you liked my answer/found it helpful :)

[abby_DeA]

my boyfriend wants to do it for the first time and i'm scared is there something i should know or something that will help me calm down?

[Anonymous]

For this answer I have to go way back. My first time was sore uncomfortable and hurt. Like a 8 on the pain scale. The first time didn't last long at all. Wasn't good. Loosing my virginity wasn't fun. After the first time we kept trying down the road and I was still sore. Now that I looked back I wish I loss my virginity to someone I loved.

[Justinefoox]

It hurt, it still hurts. I get sore really easily, like in my vag aha. Even after a short fingering, then I'm basically done. I'm really tight, so I guess that's why it gets sore so fast. I can only fit one finger, but first experience hurt more. Probably an eight.

[Anonymous]

depends on the girl. I have slept with two virgins. one didn't seem to have much a problem at all, just discomfort. the other it really hurt for the first several times we did it. that may be cause she was rather small and I am a bit over average, I dunno. but she got used to it eventually. I say just don't worry about it too much, just don't expect your head to be blown away from the amazingness of the experience either

[bprox]

for guy.. id say 1. unless the girl wanted to try an experienced position with a rookie. but for girl it depends on teh guy really

[SuperPerve]

Different for every girl... depending on the girl and the guy involved at the time.

[cyrus7]

eleventy two

[Dr3amboat]

Is this a question for the guys or girls?

[ahinze]

I didn't feel it my first time because I was wasted, but I do have pain every time I have sex but it is because the doctor says I have a small canal, so I am like a virgin every time. It defentally depends on how the person is and it is a different experience for each person.

[Anonymous]

For me, the very first time it started out as 1

Then after a little while I started to feel discomfort

and pain at about a 7 and I had to stop. Same as the

second and third time I had sex only it got easier each

time.