Why can't I get wet? :(

Question

I having being seeing this guy for a while and every time we hook up and kiss I never want to have sex! This is really getting me down :( we have being seeing each other with 5months.. Any advise?

Answer 1

shocker7689 | 94 opinions shared on Sexual Health topic.

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Do you not want to have sex? Or can you just not get wet? Because if its that just use some lube and that will do the trick. Now as for not wanting to have sex with him you might not be as attracted to him as you first thought.

Answer 2

debsman

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Do you feel excited at all? Are you on a birth control pill? That can sometimes cause this. Maybe this guy just doesn't turn you on. Do you masturbate and get wet then ?

Asker

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I do but then I get turned off when I realize I'm not wet :( yes I am on birth control, but I do find him attractive! He fingered me but that still didn't seem to work, I can't see him sticking around if this continues.. :(
debsman

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Best bet, get some lubricant. Some woemn just don't get wet. KY Mist is good. Always use a water-based lube. Don't let yourself get turned off, use the lube and have fun.

Answer 3

Asker

I do but then I get turned off when I realize I'm not wet :( yes I am on birth control, but I do find him attractive! He fingered me but that still didn't seem to work, I can't see him sticking around if this continues.. :(

Answer 4

debsman

Best bet, get some lubricant. Some woemn just don't get wet. KY Mist is good. Always use a water-based lube. Don't let yourself get turned off, use the lube and have fun.

Why can't I get wet? :(

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