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When I got out of the shower I caught my boyfriend looking through my window! I don't know what to do?

a few weeks ago I was looking through my boyfriends phone and I found a video of me changing... and then when I was getting out of the shower I caught him at my bathroom window watching me and he told me " cause I I was worried about you babe and I wanted to see you" WTF is that about! I don't know what to do please help!:(
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we'v been going out for a year. I have a curtains but I fogot to fix them when I had to open my widow cause it was hot. I didn/t think any thing of it because my window is high and hard to get to. ugh! I just don't know anymore he's creeping me the F***out
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  • I can't stress this enough. THAT IS NOT THE BEHAVIOUR OF A SANE INDIVIDUAL.

    Everyone who reads your question, KNOWS this is not normal. You simply don't do something so out-of-bounds of normal human behavior unless there's something seriously wrong with you.

    You don't know if he's video'd you while you're sleeping. You don't know if he's uploading these videos of you to a website somewhere.

    Dump him fast, TELL YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY about him, and have them be on the look out in case he goes seriously psycho when you dump him.

    • we'v been together for a year and he's never acted like this before. and he can't record me sleeping all my widows and doors are locked and I live with my parents.

    • You're a fool. Everyone here can see this guy is not right in the head. And you're still making excuses for him. Why even ask people what you should do, if you already knew you weren't going to dump him?

  • Well , he is a pervert, get his phone , delete ever indecent picture, video of urs and dump him.

    Such act is code RED, be alert and stay away from him!

    • yeah I don't let him take bad pics of me and I don't send any I'm not that kind of girl. I was changing in his room to go to work and he came in with his phone I laughed and said turn it off and he needs to dealte it he laughed and said he did and I trusted it I'm cause he knows I wouldn't trust him if he didn't. and I don't wan't to tell my friends cause what if I don't breakup with him you know... UGH! it's bullsh*t

    • Well, if you can tolerate such act or trust him again then its up to you. Think million times before involving your friends, cause usually people(including friends) are always judging and they tend not to understand emotional reasons ! Good-luck!

Most Helpful Girls

  • well I'd be pretty creeped the f*** out. like legit that is scary. if you guys have been dating for awhile tell him its creepy and that he needs to stop doing it. in the mean time get some blinds for all your windows just to be sure seriously..

  • Pretty much what everyone else said + WTF!?!?!?!?! If I were you I'd dump him at lightspeed... just sayin

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  • there's definitely a problem, don't let him video you of any sort you'll be in trouble regarding your reputation, any decent guy won't do that?! peeping on your Girlfriend WTF! not normal

  • yikes dump him

  • he is perverted.

  • he is weird.

  • I think he is a sex maniac. Do be careful !

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