Wow. This guy seriously can't make up his mind. He is obviously jealous now, but that doesn't have to mean that he cares about you. He could just not someone to have what he doesn't have. People always want what they don't have even if they don't actually want it, they don't want anyone else to have it.
My advice is to be careful with him because I don't trust him. See how he continues to act and if he is still acting suspicious I think you should confront him and ask him exactly what you asked here. Tell him to be completely honest with you. Tell him if he seriously is just messing around to leave you alone for good. People who once considered each other friends shouldn't be like this. It's just wrong.
Make the right choices and avoid getting hurt by him again. Good luck.0 1 1 0Thanx for the reply. Yes he did know how I felt. I made that very clear! I won't do him again unless he approaches me with the I'm ready for a relationship deal.
First it sounds like you still want him. If this is correct you have to make it plain & clear that you will not settle for being his phone a f*&^ friend. Tell him you would love to date and have a relationship but to you that means more then just sex. Take it from me if you do him before you get a firm answer from him he will only do the same thing over again. And you will end up unhappy once again. good luck with this.
0 0 0 0Thanx. I did tell him before very plain. I won't mess with him again and he knows that but it doesn't seem to stop him from trying here and there. He needs to grow up. I did like him very much but I won't be treated like that! He didn't talk to me tonite.
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I don't know that he necessarily meant you as a casual thing at first, but he wasn't tasteful about how he handled things . And the jealousy isn't mature either .
But please don't say that dating a co-worker isn't a good thing . Sometimes it has worked out for people . . This guy would have treated you the same even if he didn't work with you .
Hopefully you have moved on and don't have to tolerate that any longer .0 0 0 0Watch out!! He could say he is ready and not mean it. Take it easy and without doubt if you focus you will know when he is serious.
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