When you're with your girl, how often do you get aroused? Girls, how often does your guy?

[thesedeadorchids]

Sorry if this sounds like a dumb question. I'm curious to know how often you get hard when you're just sleeping next to your girlfriend, or cuddling or spooning. Is there like a constant feeling of arousal so you end up with an erection easily at the slightest thought or movement? Or are you used to being so close to her so you only really get hard when she's responding? My boyfriend will start feeling my body and kissing me during the night and press his erection into my back until I respond. (I love that he does this and am allowed to turn him down, don't get the wrong idea! He's not like, demanding sex or anything.) So for example he'll get an erection when we're cuddling, then when we have sex, and again later when we're watching a film, and then when we're snuggling in bed and I help him out, and then in the early hours of the morning he'll wake me up with one. Is this normal? :)

[Anonymous]

Great question and yes it's normal. For me when I'm anywhere near my girlfriend I feel like I could get an erection at any time. One time I got one just from her getting in my car and talking to me and I wasn't thinking about sex at all lol. If I'm laying in bed with her next to me I feel turned on just knowing she is next to me in her underwear so yeah any thought or anything she does will cause an instant erection lol. I really don't know how often it happens because it happens so much I can't keep track of it so I'll just say it happens a lot!

[shawnzyp]

it really depends, and your question isn't dumb... me and my fiancée have a very sexual relationship so I am always ready to go, just like you said at the slightest touch... and ill start to feel her up and kiss her at just about any appropriate time, even some inappropriate times... its completely normal for a guy whose physically and mentally attracted to his girlfriend, fiancée, wife or partner to be like this, in fact I bet if you were to ask your female friends they would probably envious.

[Ad90x]

This is totally normal. Cuddling, spooning etc will give me an instant erection every single time

[beastman88]

totally normal, I know when I was with a girl I was turned on all the time by her, but I never begged for sex, I was happy whenever I got it.

[scoot]

Totally normal!

[jaybeight]

Totally normal. I get hard all the time around girls that I date. None right now, but its happened with every one that I've dated.