Anal sex without permission?

Girls, if a guy decides to put it in the "other" hole without your consent, how would you handle it? Would you break up with him right then and there? Maybe throw in some physical and verbal violence? Or would you just except it?
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  • If a guy did that intentionally to me, I would take a serious fit! I consider that to be rape.

    Look at it his way, if you had only ever touched your girl, and while fingering her, you just decide to shove your d*** in instead... would that be okay? Of if you were making out with a girl, then you pull away and plunge your crotch to her mouth, would that be okay? Just because you are penetrating in one manner, does not give consent to penetrate in every manner. Lack of prior permission does NOT equal consent.

    I would not just accept it. I would prob hit em, threaten to ram something big up his ass, (along with much else to say to him), then be gone. The trust would be out the window, and I'd be out the door. I couldn't be with some I couldn't trust.

    (if it was a situation where it was "accidental".. lots lube, lotsa passion, and he pushed towards the wrong hole. thatd be different. I'd make it real clear, real fast, what my thought on the topic was, then take it from there)

  • Seriously? I'd help him not be able to put it in any hole again, with a good old fashioned snip. That's so not okay on about 10 different levels, but just to start you would have betrayed my trust, used my body, objectified me, violated my consent and disregarded my input and feelings.

  • If he did it on purpose, break up with him right then and there, that's not even debatable. If it was an accident, which in rare cases appearently happens, I might talk about it, but it's still a big mistake then.

Most Helpful Guys

  • here's my opinion on anal sex. if you anal to your gf/wife. your a damn homo. gay men fk each other in the a-hole. your basicaly doing the exact same thing. plus so you know. there's tons of bacteria crap in assholes. if you want some nasty crap on jack wagon by all means.

    but its definitely a sign of homo phoebe.

    • following that logic.. do you know how much bacteria there is just in your mouth? so oral sex and even kissing is then nasty, too? .. and technically *you* are the homoPHOBE. :)

  • Don't be a douche.

    If you've talked about it before with the girl and she's open to the idea that's one thing, but if you've never talked to her about it or she's opposed to it then don't be an asshole.

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  • I would kill him. Having sex with women without asking is kinda rape.

  • I don't see any problems on that. If a guys is penetrating a girl's asshole "without consent" is because that girl is bot satisfing him enough so I agree take a girl's ass by force.

    So girls must accept it even if is painful

  • id take it! But that's just because I love anal!

  • That's horrible. A few weeks ago, I told my boyfriend ( ex now, but not because of that ) that we could have sex, but only with condoms. Guess what? We started to have sex and turns out it broke about five minutes in, I didn't notice until after we were done. I asked if he knew that it broke, he said yes .. So, anal without permission is the exact same thing, that's kind of like rape. :/

  • I would just take it

  • Without my permission? Guy would get kicked in the nuts, for sure.