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We're moving slow ... but I want to see him more often ...
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Hey, so I've been dating this guy for a little less than 6 weeks now, both of us are mid 20s. He and I are dating exclusively ... but not boyfriend/girlfriend ... we had a talk about it two weeks into our rel. He wants to take things slow considering his ex girlfriend was major drama and broke his heart about a year ago. So, its understandable, I respect it. He took 3 dates to kiss me. We haven't had sex, only made out and some fondling, oral play. I'm a virgin, so I'm waiting for a while till I am sure of him and he's totally cool with that. I see him about once a week, I'm in grad school and he works. He also texts me every day, mostly he initiates texting. I initiate on occasion, I'm trying to be independent and give him space lol... This past weekend we went to see a movie and he was really romantic. I'm a shy girl so he initiated raising the armrest, holding my hand, kissing me, hugging me, etc during the movie. After a while, I cozied up to him and made sure he knew I liked it. We've seen movies before, but he never touched me lol or held hands all those previous times. I am not sure if this development means he's slowly progressing or opening up with me? I am not the type of girl to let the guy initiate all the time. I have actively suggested our dates and plans before, and he has ALWAYS been up for them. Very respectful and sweet guy ... Despite our daily texting contact I do want to see him more often than 1-2 on the weekend. Maybe once during the week? Is this reasonable of me to ask of him at this point? Would it scare him away? And how do I go about establishing it ...? Thanks!
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