What do girls think about a guy that uses a penis pump?

I have been using a penis pump in Secret for a year now and have been with 3 girls. I use it cause of past experiences. I am currently in a great relationship with a girl that is getting serious fast. So on the day of sex I will use the pump for 10 minutes but sometimes my penis gets really red and bigger and she asks if I'm OK and looks at it in a negative way. She still makes love to me but she is really getting suspicious at this point and I am lost on what to do ? I don't know if she will think I'm crazy, weird or pathetic or even if she will be happy or impressed ? Girls I need your advice what should I do ? This is a serious question please don't make fun of me in your responses. What do you girls think of a man that uses a penis pump ?
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  • I dated a guy who had a penis pump and once we played with it: he used it in front of me and then we had really good sex, seeing his penis growing inside the pump made me really hot. So, I'm not weirded out by a pump, but if you have become dependent and do it in secret it cannot be good. The bottom line is: do you use the pump because you think your penis is too small or you won't be able to have an erection if you don't? If that's the case, remember that girls are not that demanding about a man's penis (it's not the center of the world, as long as you're average-sized and you can get it up, you'll be fine).

    • Well I think my penis is normal size but it does not matter to me what I think cause I have had girls say that my penis is big, small, weird looking, girthy etc etc I have heard it all. So that's why I have just kept using it over time.

    • What kind of girls are you dating? My policy is: if I don't have anything good to say about a guy's penis, don't say anything. I wouldn't want to make him feel bad. If a girl says your penis is "weird looking", she doesn't deserve your attention.

    • Well your policy is a good one moon-dance. you are a nice woman. I am currently dating a eastern European girl and she never complains , she's low maintainance and not as judgmental as canadian girls that I have dated in my past.

  • My only advice is to stop using it. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to use one. I think it's unnecessary, a little weird, and probably not good for you (physically or emotionally). What happened to make you start using one?

    • Thanks for your advice miss Saphirasilverwings. An older girl that I dated for a while bought me one cause I will admit sex was not good at all for either of us. We since then broke up and then I just kept using it because I thought all girls like it.

    • I seriously doubt that using it is having any positive affect on your sex life or happiness. If you've been using it for a long time it might be hard to get used to not using it, but that's all the more reason to break the habit now before you get even more dependent on it.

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  • Who cares as long as he's healthy and happy. But I've said it before and I'll say it again, I truly don't think that size is that important. I think function, hygiene and technique do way more for satisfaction than dick size. Would try out a penis health creme to keep that hygiene up! Good luck.

  • have you seen any gains from using it?

  • ok what does the penis pump do exactly? I don't know

    • It promotes erections and makes a man penis a little bigger.

    • oh.. I can understand you wanting to be bigger but if it makes it really red to the point it dosen't look right I would stop