Guys & Girls Idea of getting pregnant a turn on?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so I hear and read a lot about how for many guys the thought of getting a girl pregnant is a huge turn on, and I have even spoken to guys who have confirmed this with me, including my partner! lol But, are the girls out there that find it a turn on too? I do! I mean with my fiance, not any random man! I'm on the pill because we aren't ready for the responsibilty of kids yet, but still the thought of him getting me pregnant is just such a turn on! So what are the opinions of people here? Guys: Do you find the idea of impregnating a women sexy? Girls: Do you find the notion of getting pregnant a turn on? Let me clarify, it may just be fantasy and you don't want kids yet, but its the idea of it.

[Razer]

I'm sure at some point in a relationship this is true. I would think it stems from our primal urge to "spread the seed". If society didn't get in the way guys would probably attempt to impregnate many woman. But that just can't happen these days as everyone is held responsible and men are expected to provide for their children. The only other thing I can think of is that for most guys it more of a turn on to come inside her. It's more of a natural release and maybe that translates into the thought of impregnation? Even though society has a huge impact on our behavior these days the primal urge in both sexes remains unchainged and is really the things we tap into when we look at things like attraction and security. Society has a lot of us thinking smart and controlling these urges, which is fine. But I think we loose some of the basics when over analyzing a situation or someone. Your urge might tell you I want this but society tells you to analyze it. Going off topic here but this probably some of the reason there are more divorces and less people falling in love.

[Asker]

that is an interesting thought!

[Razer]

I ment to add that too. If your not in a serious relationship it is almost def a nightmare unless it's good kinky to you lol

[Asker]

i think there is just something fundamentally sexy about knowing a guy wants to get you pregnant... possibly its another way of say he thinks you're beautiful, sexy, great.. to the extent he'd have your kid. I probably am I little bit kinky too! lol

[Razer]

I can't disagree cause there is a turn on aspect to it. But I am almost positive that if I told my girlfriend of 7 months I'm gonna come inside her and asked her if she wanted my baby she would jump off me and I would have to explain myself. Was curious if coming inside her/you is part of the fantasy or is a must to fullfil the fantasie. As I and she prefer to pull out to reduce the risk I find the thought of getting her pregnant a slite turn off cause I can't come in her anyways. But if I'm beating off than it would be a turn on. Do you see my dilema?

[Asker]

well like I said above I'm using contraceptive pill which is my own choice and preference because I prefer him to come inside me. it was something we talked about together. actually the very first time he did just surprise me and whisper something to me about how id look great pregnant and I was a little shocked, because id never thought of it like that before, but it wasn't bad shock, and I did find it a turn on, and this was like only a few months into us going out!

[Razer]

Ya she was on the patch also but I myself didn't want to take the chance. Getting pregnant is serious and means more than just a good turn on. If everyone starts acting this way we will have more unwanted pregnancies. If you want to take the chance that's up to you, but you should be ready if something does happen. It's like doing something bad and never thinking your gonna be caught, then you are and now you can't leave the country or do the things you want

[Asker]

im not condoning that everyone take chances because its a turn on. but I don't consider being on the pill and letting him come inside me taking a big chance. the chance that I will get pregnant is small by statistics. and also we are in a stable relationship, we have talked about the reality of having children together, which we plan in a few more years yet. so if something did go wrong with the contraception and I did get pregnant, it would be sooner that we planned but not a total nightmare.

[Razer]

Sorry didn't mean to make you think I thought you were condoning it. I guess I'm just old fashioned and the way to get someone prego is unloading in her. Pills and patches aside it's still a drastic change in your life even if you think you can handle it. I kinda have the feeling that it people are using contraceptives they may not be ready for a kid. I can't say pulling out even with a patch is 100% but it's 1000 times safer that filling her up. This is all a bit off topic though. It is def a tur

[blahblahblah12]

Lmao! This happened to me on New Years actually. I was having sex with one of my friends (we're not going out but we have a physical attraction that kind of developed into a physical relationship), and I guess out of the heat of the moment, we had sex again without a condom, and he came in me (no I didn't get pregnant). He kept on asking me if I wanted his baby and him saying that turned me on a lot, I just kept saying Yeah, that I did. He couldn't stop cumming inside of me though, I guess the whole procreating thing set us both off lmao! And yes, we've been tested, by no way am I promoting unsafe sex, but sometimes things like these do happen, just make sure they don't happen with everyone you're with O__O

But yeah, I find it a complete turn on, especially when a guy finds it a turn off as well!

[blahblahblah12]

^^ OOPS! I meant when a guy finds it a turn ON as well lmfao xD

[Asker]

i find it such a huge turn on knowing that he wants to get me pregnant! knowing he feels that way is just like: wow... hot... great sex... I love you! lmao I can't explain it, it just is to me!

[blufrenzy93]

Big turn off. I don't find the idea of getting bigger for nine months with all the hard parts of carrying a child in your stomach attractive.

[Asker]

i think its more about the idea of it than the actual. although I would not feel unattractive if I was pregnant. it is something I look forward to in the future.

[blufrenzy93]

That's where you and I differ. I don't wanna have kids.

[Asker]

thats fair enough. I never used to either but I suddenly just did this total switch and really kept thinking about it. I think for me personally, I thought I never wanted kids, but I got to an age where I realized I did, I just hadn't found anyone I wanted to have them with and so couldn't ever imagine wanting it. Like with my ex boyfriends id never wanted to have kids with them, so when I found this guy I knew it was totally different and was right for me.

[blufrenzy93]

oh no...don't scare me >_< lol

[Asker]

lol sorry if I have. that's just what happened to me

[Guytalks]

huge turn on for me, the possibility of impregnating the girl I'm with is very exciting and makes me feel very masculine and in control. That has lead to some of the hottest sex ever for me.

[Asker]

I agree with the hot sex! lol

[Guytalks]

do you guys talk about it during sex?

[Asker]

yeah. can be different whether we making love or being rougher. but he might whisper stuff like how id look so perfect pregnant, or how he wants me to make his baby.. or if its not so romantic he might just tell me to get on my knees and tell me what he's going to do to me. (sorry if t.m.i! lol) I find it so hot but I get why others don't I suppose. like I said if I actually got pregnant at this point in time it wouldn't be ideal, but its the thought that one day its going to happen, its intimate

[Guytalks]

yes what you describe is very much what I experience, I have a lot more to say about it but not here! lol

[Asker]

lol

[Rizzle]

If I'm married or planning to get married it would definitely be a turn on.

If it's with a typical girlfriend/partner... it's more like a nightmare.

[Asker]

yeah I think that does make a difference. we know we are going to get married, and though its not the fact of marriage itself, it is knowing we absolutely love and want each other that makes it a turn on maybe. I don't think the effect would be so good with a casual sex partner lol

[Katelyn1214]

I will agree with you on the married part...a few months ago before my fiancee proposed to me...even just using a condom...i always feared it would break and I would get pregnant. Yet, now that we are engaged and getting married in a few years...it's a big turn on...and I actually fantasize about him cumming inside me and me getting pregnant. So yea...turn on.

[Phoma21]

Kinda I guess. I guess you think of what you had to do to get pregnant and that's hot so I guess.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

It's not a turn on nor is it a turn off O.o It's just.. what it is. I'd rather not get any girl pregnant now. I'm sure she isn't ready for it and I know I'm not.

[diamond3]

not for me it isn't

[ZoeAdams]

The possibility of me getting pregnant - on my first time - was a HUGE turn on that I could not resist.

[bunny420]

Yeah, it's one of those power things with me. Pretty much all my turn ons are... lol