As a girl, how do you feel about guys letting their friends smell their fingers after they've fingered you?

[Anonymous]

Do girls have any idea that some guys actually do this? Do girls do anything similar with their friends, after they've messed around with a guy? I know a lot of guys used to do this in Junior High, and in all honesty, it was amazing to smell the differences between girls. And of course, with all the pheromones present, it was quite arousing.

[CuddlyCarla]

I think a girl would absolutely faint in horror if a woman tried to get her to smell her boyfriend's penis (not to mention, a girl wouldn't want to share that with anyone because it's HER man's!) Vaginas have a more powerful and recognizable scent than men do so I don't think it would work in the same way, anyway. Women wouldn't be turned on by that like many men would be, our senses are different in terms of what generally turns us on). Also, women would mostly find it unhygenic and wouldn't want this. (Note I am not insulting penis at all, it's a wonderful thing. I'm just answering your question.) Also, I think women would find it degrading to know their man was doing this to other guys. I tend to think if a guy is showing off in this manner, it's pretty weak. If he was secure in his manhood, his ability to get sex wouldn't be surprising and he wouldn't have to flaunt it, nonetheless if he was happy with his woman and really cared about her, he'd want to keep her scent on him and not share it. It really is a disrespectful behavior as women would see it, because boasting suggests a lack of confidence and the sharing just sounds like jerk behavior. I do think girls would take offense to it. Not to mention, I'm too old to find this sort of thing cute, there comes an age when you don't have to prove yourself to other people, you are comfortable with yourself and if that was the case, I don't think you'd feel the need to do this. Mature men are hot.

[7gnat]

great answer

[jag420]

I think that is a great response and couldn't agree with you more. I would never do such a thing. I have smelled my own fingers after before, but only because it turned me on so much. But that is really only something that should be between the two people. Its not like a women would ever capture some of the guys cum and go and show her friends lol

[ATadTooNice]

Huh. I always wondered what the hell the guys were up to X3 Most girls do share the tale with their friends, but not anything more physical then helping them do the laundry afterward :P I personally think it's wicked that we have so much, well not control per say, but influence over guys with just our bodies. Just scrolling through the comments here was a pretty cool eye opener. Thanks for asking a question like this, it was an interesting topic to think about ^_^

[Anonymous]

lol I find this funny but totally guyish but I probably wouldn't care no I didn't know that was really happening I've never heard of girls doing any thing after messing with a guy besides telling friend about it

[Asker]

At last, a girl that gets it!

[savagex]

A lot of the people on here are insecure and or teenagers.

I think every guy in this world will understand what you're talking about ; it's not that men sit there with unwashed hands in a dark room smelling their fingers, it's that women have a unique scent which is naturally alluring. I do not run around shoving my fingers into peoples noses, as I'm sure the author does not also. Nor do I go around bragging to my friends because in a world where nothing is special anymore, I would like a few things to remain esoteric and possess some form of sanctity.

Of course, most people esteem themselves to be above animals and are ashamed of of natural behaviors, hence the reason for all of this disgust.

The sense of smell is very powerful; after 2 months at college away from my girlfriend I find myself longing for the smell of her hair, her body, etc. etc., and not some mass produced smelly bottle of crap.

p.s. My argument does not pertain to smells as a result of uncleanliness and std's, this is strictly the naturally occurring pure stuff.

Seacrest out.

[beastman88]

seriously who would do this? did you smell your buddies fingers after he put them up you butthole?

[selfishstars]

That's cool.. if he's like 14. Most guys who have had some experience get over the "heh heh heh smell my fingers!" mentality.

[Asker]

To be clear, the question related back to Junior High, so yeah, we were all about that age. Just reflecting on the past :-)

[sorsapg]

lmao stupid bull sh*t

[lovelylife]

I agree with you. This is hysterical bullsh*t. Hahaha

[Eiffelgirl21]

That's gross. You are immature and gross.

[BunnyToast]

I really had no idea guys did this.

After messing around with a guy, we basically break down how.. good he is. XD

I suppose I would mind, as long as the guys don't know it is me. Something about the smell of me going around everywhere is not comforting. XD

[jap88]

In response to your updated question...

So you don't wash your hands? Gross.

[Asker]

Have you ever performed oral on a girl? Better yet, after you get a blowjob, do you ask the girl to was her mouth out with soap?

[jap88]

I have performed oral on a girl. And I have not asked a girl to wash out her mouth with soap because 1. You clean your mouth by brushing with toothpaste. 2. I expect that she will, in the near future, brush her teeth (probably before bed). However, what you are implying with this is that you do not do anything that would require you to clean your hands before letting other guys smell it. So, you don't use the bathroom, you don't take a shower, etc.

[jap88]

Presumably the action would have occured the night before, which makes it seem extremely unlikely that you would not have to wash your hands in some way before seeing friends the next day since most people shower and go to the bathroom in the morning.

[Asker]

Dude, do you drain and dry out your respective urethra's prior to performing oral? If your not inserting an alcohol soaked cotton swab into those passages, guess what? Your sucking in some pee. Do you find pee drinking to be any more acceptable than finger sniffing? And how is it that the only time people have sex is at night? You're certainly no Sexual CSI. Nonetheless, I have to laugh at your false sense of a clean world. Pee drinker hahahaha :-)

[jap88]

I know. It is logical that sucking in some pee would happen. But guess what? I clean my mouth, much like I wash my hands. The difference between "drinking pee when performing oral" and finger-sniffing is the period of time over which it requires you to not perform some sort of hygenic act. The assumption of time sexual activity was based on societal trends as well as the age group you are talking about. Presumably there would be no time during or before school, thus it would be after.

[Asker]

So you two jump out of bed after performing oral, brush your teeth and mouthwash, all before sharing a passionate kiss? Hmmm. Do you also wash your Willie before you let her go down on you after you've been inside of her? And does she know how gross and dirty you believe her vagina to be, or are you that good at hiding your disgust?

[jap88]

No, because you keep misinterpreting what I say. I'm saying that the time horizon matters. While pee is actually totally clean upon leaving the body, it attracts bacteria and such at an abnormally high rate due to its contents. While it is fine to be in the moment (I'm not like "OMFG THERE IS VAG JUICE IN MY MOUTH!1!1!1!1!1"), that doesn't dismiss you from practicing hygiene later either specifically because of sex or because of part of your daily routine (usually the latter for me).

[Asker]

Oh, I think I understand what you're saying now. While you are rimming your girlfriend and have your tongue deep up her ass, that's OK because it's in the moment. However, if she touched her anus with her finger and asked you to kiss her finger three hours later, her finger would be a biohazard. Yeah, that makes sense now.

[jap88]

I don't do rimming. It's kind of gross imo (maybe I'm biased against sh*t). But seriously, if my girlfriend had her findger up my ass I would expect her to wash her hands after the session. Likewise, if I were rimming her, I would brush afterwards.

[Asker]

One day you'll have to step outside that plastic bubble you've been living in! :-)

[jap88]

Just because I practice normal hygiene I live in a bubble? haha, OK dude.

[jap88]

What, is the friend sitting in the same room? How the hell would you even let your friends smell your fingers before the smell wore off?

Kind of creepy -.-

[Book-Tard]

My thoughts exactly...

[thisGUYknows]

thats some total middle school and HS sh*t dude. hahahahaha

[xxxmegan]

What...the hell?

[lala-193]

that would be disgusting, boys are so gross sometimes

[FierceMegan]

Guys...they always leave me speechless.

[larry69]

I love the smell of fingers after a woman orgasms on them...but to let your friends smell...shouldnt that maybe private

[SweetestSin_xXx]

i think its lame, disrespectful, and immature

[Anonymous]

I'm dating a college guy. His friends are manwhores to be honest. I've witnessed them smelling eat others fingers after a rough night of partying and hook-ups. It's a true, sad reality.

[Anonymous]

eurgh I would feel violated!

[Anonymous]

I honestly think it's a HUGE invasion of privacy. It's like, we do this for the guy, not for the guy, and all his friends' satisfaction.

[Asker]

Wait, you let a guy finger you for HIS benefit? Isn't he trying to give YOU an orgasm?

[Opinion Owner]

Okay well, you're right. But still, It's not like we want them to do it for their friends

[Asker]

Given all the pheromones in your scent, males exposed to it will desire you. Isn't that a good thing? Beats wearing expensive makeup, and delivers better results. I wish girls understood the power over men, that Mother Nature gave them.

[Opinion Owner]

Is it a good thing? I always get a little self conscious as to how I smell of taste. My boyfriend loves it but I think he's just being sweet.

[Asker]

It's absolutely a good thing. Your scent is unique. Why women wear perfumes etc. I could never understand. There is nothing that will turn on a man more than the natural scent of a woman. Why when we're being truthful with women, and tell them how much we love the taste and smell of their vaginas, do they still not believe us. Yet there we are, licking & sniffing it up, every chance we get. There's no other place we'd rather be, then propped between your knees. Wow, this is making me hungry :-)

[Opinion Owner]

But why do guys want to share that with their friends? I would want that to be something personal and only between us..

[Anonymous]

That is disgusting. Leaving your hands unwashed after fingering a girl and then smelling it on your own later on is disgusting in itself, but sharing this scent with your friends? wow. messed up.

also, you replied to someone's answer with "Have you ever performed oral on a girl? Better yet, after you get a blowjob, do you ask the girl to was her mouth out with soap?"

hi, hello. The hands touch WAY more things everyday than what a mouth would touch. Also, saliva is constantly being produced in the mouth which would eventually wash away the residue. Your hands though? NO, you need to wash them.

[Asker]

Why are you so hostile towards your vagina? Your secretions are all natural. Why do you find them gross?

[Opinion Owner]

my god. pee, snot, feces, saliva, vomit - it's all natural but hygienic people wash their hands if any one of those gets on them. you should keep your friggin hands clean. like I said, you touch many things every single day. it's not that the actual vaginal secretion is gross, its the fact that you leave it on your hands and then smell it afterward AND share that with people. maybe you were never taught to wash your hands regularly?

[Opinion Owner]

how would you feel if you touched chewed gum on the underside of a table - gross right? yes, because that's been in someones mouth and can have lord knows what kind of germs. what if you were to see someone picking their nose and then wipe their snot on their hands and resume to read a magazine, then they put it down for the next person to read? pretty gross huh? yeah. and its still "natural".

[Asker]

That's kind of extreme. I wrote about something that kids used to do in high school, and you question my hygiene now? Yeesh. Seriously though, after a guy cums in your mouth, what do you do to sterilize it? And after you get fingered, do you drag the guy by his ear to the sink and make him scrub his hands? Do you douche after a guy cums inside you? Do you fart into charcoal lined panties?

[Opinion Owner]

well if you're not doing it anymore...bravo. the secretion is still on your fingers. thus why scent is left behind. and so you should wash your hands before spreading this on everything you touch. its just common sense. i already talked about oral sex. saliva is constantly produced. plus, you eat and drink afterward. the vagina cleans itself. farts are just gas. not much else to say here.

[Asker]

Seriously, after you masturbate, do you jump out of bed and scrub your hands? Do you touch anything along the way, like sheets, blankets, lightswitch, faucet handles, soap etc.? Perhaps the same things other members of your family have touched after they've masturbated, or after they've had sex? Hmmm, ever climb into your parents bed to cuddle? Were you laying on a dried out wet spot?

[Opinion Owner]

hmmm see those things aren't possible as that's not how my family is. just me an my other living in this house. and yes, if I were to masturbate I would wash my hands after. trying to gross me out? yeaaah not working. what exactly are you trying to justify at this point - sharing some woman's scent with your friends or just simply not washing your hands?

[Opinion Owner]

*mother

[Asker]

Not trying to justify anything in all honesty, but just poking holes in all these "more hygienic than thou" comments. Also trying hard to understand why you are so grossed out by your vagina. If I had just pulled my fingers out of you, I'd want to cherish the memory of being with you. Scent evokes memories, and I might end up touching myself while thinking of the time we spent together. You would find that disgusting, while in all honesty, there is something romantic about it. Can you see that?

[Opinion Owner]

I already said I'm not grossed out by my vagina. I already explained about why you should wash your hands. I'm not a hygiene freak but I think its just common sense. but in the end,i don't know you, probably never will, so I don't really care. i think I'm just going to end this here.

[Anonymous]

eww gross

[Anonymous]

i wasn't getting fingered in jr high so nobody did this to me. I'm 22 so I'm pretty sure grown ass man don't go around smelling each others fingers, they're past that stage. I think it's very immature and sophomorish and I feel bad for the girls that are getting fingered. I usually think guys like that would just tell everyone what they did in bed and not really respect her

[jag420]

Whats the difference between the girls who were saying they break down how a guy was in bed with their friends. I find this just as immature and am kinda shocked at both

[Anonymous]

That's the most f*cked up thing I've ever heard! Not only is it disrespectful, tasteless, rude and immature, but I'm shocked and disgusted that people have actually done this.

Get some class...and wash your damn hands.

[Asker]

Hmmm, there's a lot worse in this world than sticky smelly fingers, dontchya think?

[Opinion Owner]

Indeed there are, but clearly you're missing my point, so I'll repeat it: it's "disrespectful, tasteless, rude and immature." I'm going to guess you're about 13 and have recently discovered what a vagina is. If not, then grow the hell up.

[Asker]

Grown ups have the ability to respect and appreciate diverse opinions, which you clearly fail to do. Forget about World Hunger, World Peace, and Freedom for the Masses. In your world banning finger smelling trumps all. Hahahaha.

[Opinion Owner]

AGAIN, maybe you missed what I said: "Indeed there are."

[Asker]

Again, read the first sentence of your original response ... "That's the most f*cked up thing I ever heard!". Your words, not mine. However, I'm sure you've done some things in your life, alone or with others, that some might find repugnant. However, most people have the courtesy not to begin a conversation with the opening line you chose. If we were going out, now would be the time for makeup sex :-)

[Anonymous]

What the heck?! How demeaning!

Remember the old line, "Don't kiss and tell"? Well, that's crossing the line big time.

I've never heard or experienced this, so I think I'm safe to assume most girls don't do that.

Plus... that would mean you wouldn't have washed your hand in awhile. 'Cause really, who fingers a girl during school hours and then hurries to find their buddies to let them smell his fingers?

That's... kinda creepy...

[Opinion Owner]

In answer to your update: it appears not to be as common as you think, so maybe it's just a creepy activity that you and your friends only indulge in. And again, that' just shows you don't wash your hands often enough.

[Asker]

Please. When an international brand makes a parody commercial about this activity, it's probably not limited to a few friends. Reach out to some of the boys who knew you in junior high, and ask them straight up if they shared your scent.

[Opinion Owner]

I wasn't doing that kind of crap back in junior high! I'm a senior in high school now, and it's taken me close to a YEAR to let my boyfriend finger me... so I know for a fact no one has "shared my scent".

[Asker]

hmmm...you know that for a fact, how? Do you hover over your boyfriend after he's fingered you and watch him scrub his fingers? If he's waited nearly a year to finger you, he's surely had to find a way to release the pressure, and the scent of a woman, yours or another girls, has surely entered his nostrils at some point in time. Go ahead, ask him if he's ever taken a sniff. If he says no, he's probably lying or getting some somewhere else. Nearly a year? Yeesh!

[Opinion Owner]

I really shouldn't have to explain this to you... it's a personal matter. But if it gets you off my back and proves my point then I will. He only fingers me at night, and afterward he goes home. He showers every morning, so I know he can't share it with anybody. He is a private, conservative person like me and I know him well enough to know that he would be appalled at the idea of sharing my scent with others. Not all guys are douches. Sure, maybe he's "released the pressure" himself...

[Opinion Owner]

...but I have too. He's a respectable man with standards, and wouldn't find another outlet (woman) to fulfill his scent-type fantasies. His friends are mature as well, I would find it it overwhelmingly difficult to believe they would share their girlfriend's scents with him... let alone him actually smelling another guy's fingers. Who does that?! And you know what? Don't judge my standards for waiting a year. By doing so at least I can weed out the weak, immature, unhygienic sort like yourself.

[Asker]

OMG do you ever have a holier than thou attitude. Mr. Perfect I assure you is a deviant in his own right, as are you, and every other human that walks this planet. When it comes to sex, there is no normal, no matter how hard you thump the bible. For all you profess about knowing the character of him and his friends, I'd still challenge you to look each of them in the eye and ask them yourself -- before answering on their behalf. Waiting 1, 5, 10 years to be fingered will give you no real...

[Asker]

...insight into the inner character and quality of a man. Ask him what he fantasizes about when he masturbates. Who's he thinking about? You? Not! Another guy lie. He's not fantasizing about taking your virginity in the missionary position. And I'm sure if we scraped your Sunday school veneer, there's a kinky girl inside of you too Miss Virginity. What would your parents think if they knew you were getting fingered? Would they make you wash your hands and go to your room with no Angel Food...

[Asker]

...Angel Food Cake for Dessert? So, out of curiosity, what have you done for him after a year? Hand jobs? Blowjobs? Have you had sex with him or are you waiting for marriage? Has he ever given you an orgasm? Do you have a lot of guilt issues related to sex? How do you feel about yourself and your body? I'm just trying to understand where you're coming from. Oh yeah, did you know Jesus once made it a point not to wash his hands? :-)

[Opinion Owner]

I love that because I have standards you automatically assume I'm religious. I don't believe in god, I've never read the bible, and I've never been to church. So stop making half-hazard assumptions and stereotypes. I may not be able to tell the full quality of a man by waiting to be fingered, I admit that, but it sure narrows some things down. Neither you, nor I, know what my boyfriend fantasizes about while he masturbates. I don't care to know. That is his personal and private action...

[Opinion Owner]

It is none of your business as to what I have done for him. Coming from your point of view, he must be content or else he wouldn't have stayed around for a year. I am waiting until we are at least engaged to have sex. Yes, I've had an orgasm. I am proud of my body, and feel no resentment or urge to change it in any way. I have no reason to, and have no guilt issues regarding sex. As I've said before, I'm not religious.