The thing with women is, we aren't just in the mood like guys are (only in the beginning of the relationship, when everything is excited and new). Try to bring some of that excitement into the relationship. Don't expect her to just have sex because you are a couple, make sure she desperately want to.
You said yourself it turns her on when you get upset. It seems to me like, apart from that, you don't really know how to turn her on (and I'm not talking about how to make her come). An entire evening can be foreplay if you take it really slow and DON'T RUSH IT. Don't try to move to the sex part to fast, it's what many guys do. Women really enjoy innocent foreplay most:
kissing, flirting, innocent touching, basically making out like did before you guys had sex. It might trigger some of that early excitement. If you do this without trying to get in her pants, she'll try to get in yours by the end of the evening. Women love the game of seduction.0 0 0 0I should have added this to the question but that is one thing she brought up months ago when we had a talk. She asked me to make out with her more and take it slow. I tried it and now she does this thing where if I try to make a move or kiss her she just says 'I love you.' which is now her code for 'I'm not in the mood'
I remember when I was with my ex for 3 years and aour sex life was so boring after a while. It jsut gets boring same place, same position, same person. IT just get boring that's the only way I knoe how to explain it. Try Getting into a huge fight or something and then have make up sex.
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Well sir, this is exactly why people have affairs. They absolutely love the person they're with, yet aren't, like yourself, satisfied sexually. You could easily get a mistress, or use a prostitute (hey I'm just saying they're options).
Bottom line is bro some women just don't get how sex is so important to men, AND she's got a low sex drive, so there you have it.
Are you gonna stick it out with her the rest of your life?
Maintain something on the side?
Find a new girl?
I shoot for the hip, and this is what it comes down to in my opinion.
BTW, I know 3 years is long investment, but when making this decision, try to keep that out of your mind, trust me.1 4 0 0its only been three years. get married and find out what its like in 15. will she ever want sex? I vote against getting married or engaged. she's got a low sex drive, I'm sure there are meds that can be taken to help out with that but I'm not sure I would want my girl on meds just to have sex with me. seems kinda like... I'm not wanted I guess. you sound like a pretty good guy that lots of women would be happy with. try finding a new one maybe?
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sure that would be nice
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2 1Tell her she's a selfish, self absorbed, one sided lover.
Tell her to try, don't ask, tell.0 1 1 3ya I'm sure insulting her will help lots.
Clearly hints are not working idiot
Dude in my opinion I think you should relax and don't take sex life that much serious. And well, my suggestion for you guys is to stay at one place and not at seperate places. Probably it will make your life more better.
Plus I think you guys should discus this sex stuff and solve it but not bring it up like you are not satisfied but as resolving your problem as mostly couples do, resolve their problems together and sex is also just a normal problem. I hope it will work. Good Luck0 0 0 1Im in the same situation but I live with her and i already told and asked her that it would be nice to try hardwr but nothing has changed
Oh man, if you get this figured out you might be able to save a few relationships out there, honesty is the best policy...
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