I didn't tell him I was a virgin...

Soo long story short, I met this guy, grew to trust him, slept with him, and didn't tell him I was a virgin. I never really held sex up on a pedestal or anything it just never happened for me. We haven't had the whole "number of previous partners" chat or anything but things are starting to become more serious and I want to be honest. I KNOW I should have told him before... but what's done is done right? So please I don't need anymore criticism about that... (I'm already critical enough of myself). The only part I regret is not telling him, other than that I love sleeping with him. I never "technically" lied but I feel like witholding the truth was just as bad. How can I tell him? Do you think he will forgive me?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • He would be pleased to hear that he was the first. It doesn't matter if you didn't tell him, I'm sure he will be like, why did you not tell me before? but hey once you tell him the truth then he will understand.

  • You slept with him and he can't tell you that you're a virgin? Wow unbelievable why would he be mad I think he would be happy that he is you're first.

  • forgive you for what? I don't get it

    you were a virgin, not a p*rn star...

Most Helpful Guys

  • Why would he be mad? you're freaking out about something hell just shrug off garanteed.. and he's probably happy he took away your virginity don't sweat it

  • Forgive you for what? He should feel honored that you decided to choose him.

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  • If he didn't ask, he didn't care. Awkward as it might be, just say you were.

  • Just tell him. He should, if he didn't ask then that is his problem.

    • From a guys perspective, how would you react if you were in his situation.

    • I would be like, sweet now I can show you some tricks or we can learn together. either way it is a blast. If he acts weird then he has issues.

    • Thanks for the input man!

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