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Girlfriend wants a 2 guy threesome?

So the other night we're both in bed and discussing fantasies and she says she'd love a threesome with another guy. I was quite surprised but actually more surprisingly I was surprised that it quite turned me on! I think we may do it, so I asked her to pick one of my friends and she gave me a choice of two she'd prefer. We're not sure if we'll ever do it but we may and either way the fantasy and dirty talk is great for her and me. My question is though, aren't women usually more emotionally connected to sex than men are? Do women usually want sex with someone just for the sex and nothing more? And should I be worried that she wouldn't mind doing it with two of my friends?!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • YES YES YES you should be worried and not just for her but for you. Threesomes lead to the end or difficulty in a relationship. How would you feel seeing you friend actually having sex with her, try to picture that in your head? What if she sexually responds better to one of your friends than you? What if she continues a relationship with one of your friends? Wouldn't it bother you that if you stay with this girl then 5 years from now your friend knows what your girl looks like naked and feels like? How often are you going to do this because what if she really likes it and wants to do it again? What if you do this but then she says NO when you want to have a 3some with 2 women (dont do this cause you think its an in to you getting the same in return) especially if you name one of her friends? You need to keep this a fantasy and maybe try it another way and find out what it is about having another man that turns her on, maybe it can be duplicated without an actual other man. If you care about your relationship and see this woman as your future wife then you should stay away. This advice is coming from a freak lol, I just suggest doing all this before a serious relationship or not at all.

  • I have done 3 somes in the past (both with my guy and another guy and with another girl and him) and they can be fun. You need to have a strong relationship and I think it is only fair that if I get to have 2 guys at once he gets to have another girl to play with. You can do this with friends but it can be strange after, but you want someone you can trust. Best to talk about 3 some first with all 3 people involved of what you will do (ie here the most common thing to talk about if if you will do DP or not) and what will not happen.

    • You are crazy girl !

  • idk about other girls but if it was like a guy I actually had a realationship with and actually liked I wouldn't have sex with him just to have sex but I would never want a 3some I don't think that's right or sexy or any thing and wouldn't that mean the 2 guys are also doing each other? I don't know but that's just me

    • hahahaha it so doesn't mean the 2guys are doing eachother! hahaha if that's what you think no wonder you would never do a 3sm! it just means the 2 guys are doing YOU at the same time. Unless they do do each other which ofcourse is optional... just not for me..

Most Helpful Guys

  • Dude, your girl just said she'd love a threesome, and you're hot for it. Why would you even *dream* of blowing this? Just "yes" to everything, alright?

    But if you need reasons:

    The whole "women blah emotional blah connection blah sex blah blah blah"? Stereotypes. Flush it, and listen to your woman; she knows what she wants--she just told you. In fact, once you flush stereotypes *generally* and start listening to your woman *generally*, the world starts making way more sense.

    Should you be worried that she'd do two of your friends? No, you should be *relieved*. It means that she doesn't want to roll around with strangers (a sign of good judgement) and she approves of your choice of friends (a sign of *your* good judgement).

    The lights are all green, all systems are go. If you don't pull this off, I will personally go upside your head.

    • Exactly.

  • For me as a guy i would have never been into a 2 guy 1 girl threesome. UNTILL i met the girl i am with now... there is nothing that turns me on more than having one of my dude bestfriends help assist me in pleasing my girlfriend in a complete all out DP sesion giving my girl what she can't get from 1 real dick... sigh i love having my girlfriend happy and completely satisfied. (i make sure she gives it to him like she does me and getting off showing off her amazing skills. HA i get to have 2 girls looking up at me while making sure to mouth to my girlfriend how awesome she is and how badass we are as a couple knowing at the end of the day we are each others best fucking friends. TRUST. LOVE.

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  • I dunno, that's pretty awesome.

  • Don't worry about it. But if you have qualms with it maybe instead of a friend, find someone you don't know very well? Someone that you both know, but don't really have to see all the time might make it more erotic but less emotional later.

    And I have had sex just to have sex and nothing more. It's not all for emotion, sometimes we just want to get off.

  • thats hot but I wouldn't be able to kiss this other guy on the mouth. I don't know it would be weird to kiss someone other than my bf

    • You'd be able to let him f*ck you but not kiss you?

    • ye I know that's weird especialy because at some point id have his d!k in my mouth but I just don't think I could kiss someone else!

    • You no I have an idea or scenario for this

  • If you have a strong relationship it may work out, you would have to be 100% sure it was good for you.

    Talking about fantasies is a great turn on as you say and a lot of the time harmless and fun to try. Bringing someone else into the mix is a big step though and needs a serious non-sex talk laying down ground rules were it to happen. I would probably be disconcerted about the friend thing but at least you will know them and know a bit about their sexual history/health/

  • I wouldn't be doing this. Your last question is the key here. Fun maybe, but what happens when one of them starts f***ing her? Are you going to like that when they talk again?

  • Welllll if you ever brought up a threesome with 2 girls she will react the same way so 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • Word of advice if your going to participate in a threesome make sure that it is not a good(close) friend.

  • that is a myth that all women have sex out of love or feelings.. Yes we do just like to f*** with no emotion! I think women are a lot more OK saying they just want sex and nothing more. so no we aren't all emotionally conected to sex like you think...

    • lies.

    • are you a female? then stfu! how would you know how we feel?

  • Where do I sign up for a 3 way?

  • I really want a threesome.. I don't care if its two guys or one guy and a girl. Just give it to me!

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