Would you date someone with braces who can't give blow jobs?

Why are blow jobs so important? A lot of guys have said they are a deal breaker :( I don't expect oral sex in a relationship, I've never even received it before! So why do I have to give blow jobs in order to have a boyfriend? Because I can't! so I guess I'm doomed to be single :(
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  • Sure, are you a nice girl? I would love date you. I fact, I would love to give your precious gift a taste. I'm sure I would enjoy it so much and you would too after a while as you see how much enjoyment we share by being so intimate. It would be quite a long time before I would even think of sliding my delicious, hot(you can feel how nice I feel in your hands), subject of your question inside your beautiful body.

    When a girl sucks my cock, it is usually because she wants to. I never ask. I'm too busy licking and tasting and feeling and playing with your wonderful p**** that, unless you interrupted me, the next step would then be both of us so worked up that it would feel like our bodies were two magnets - just rushing together automatically. Some couples have that comfortable "fit". Many variables like height , weight, shape, Q-angle (angle of women's hips), pelvic tilt, etc.. Just lying together sometimes I find my **** "magoically" finds it's way inside your hungry pussy. When you get really excited and super wet, and you have your legs wrapped around me, that yummy wet p**** of yours becomes very inviting and opens up to let me and my super stiff **** slide inside you without any awkward actions that most hurried and inexperienced couples do experience. A lot of those teen movies make fun of first times with the famous "ooopppss, wrong hole!" scene.

    After all that, I'm sure your curiousity along with a little guidence and I bet you would be showing me one of the best blowjobs I ever had. Part of the secret, actualy it's no secret at all - you should be in love. It's more than casual sex. I can't really have sex - good sex, I mean really wet, hot super lovemaking where I am making love to each and every part of you and your body. That's when it feels like you know each other inside and out. Everything feels great and nobody can do no wrong. There no embarrassing moments. At that point, you could sh*t the bed and no one would notice. It's a mind-body experience and it will work if you have a lot of time (the whole weekend) with no distractions - phone calls, visitors. Anything that you have to stop and get back to reality sometimes will allow you to view yourself from a third person objective. Then you would have to start all over again - most likely on another day.

    But, if you do have that magic weekend and then have to talk to someone else, you will not have those self concious feelings of guilt or inadequency because you have just experienced fully the most wonderful feelings of love and confidence, maturity. All those things we are not supposed to feel as children but we are never taught when and how to cross that boundary.

    That is why most people - especially girls have a first time and even a 2nd, 3rd, and 4th time experience that makes then not want to do it again or worse, they will use sex for all the wrong reasons. Instead of being well adjusted they will be labeled.

  • Aw, hell no! As far as braces go, they're temporary & they don't take away from a girl's looks, they're adding to it. As far as blow jobs go, I try to put myself in the girl's place & I think, EW, GROSS! (LOL) I don't think I could ever have the heart to ask for one, (my only one was an unexpected, unprompted surprise) so if a girl can't do it, NO PROBLEM! Her pleasure is more imoportant to me than my own...

Most Helpful Girls

  • I just wouldn't present it as unable to give a blowjob. I'd be like...I think I can give blowjobs, but I'm not sure because of my braces, because I haven't tried it since I got them. Want to take a chance ;) ? and then see what happens. actually think braces would affect blowjobs unless he has a lot of skin just hanging around for some reason...which would be odd. also you would just need to not push your teeth over his head to open your mouth...ouch! tell him you want full control of the bj (dont push my head dwn plz) because of your braces and he should be fine!

    Bjs are fun..give pleasure to your partner and they shall feel good and eventually who knows, good karma of oral matters may come back to you ;)

    honestly, don't worry about sex. don't do it, and ull have no problems, because guys who need it are douches. also stds suck..i know. eventually a guy who likes you will come along because ull be such a good person. you can just be a good person whos friendly and outgoing and I bet your pretty and guys will love you for your personality...not for your additional notch in their belt!

  • I have braces and I give blowjobs just fine. Since the braces are on the FRONT of your teeth, and not the bottom, then you should be fine. How I got good, was asking my boyfriend what he likes, and I also googled blowjob tips. They're are also YouTube videos out there too. But, the number one thing to giving good blowjobs is BEING CONFIDENT. Trust me, it's not that hard. There really isn't a way to give a bad blowjob, unless you're using you're teeth a lot. (: Hope I helped!

  • You shouldn't have to give oral to have a boyfriend! My first time of giving oral sex ever I had braces. they aren't hard to work with just move your lips over them and start enjoying him. I still have my braces and I'm still with my first he doesn't mind my braces because he can't even feel them while I'm going down on him.

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  • Girls with braces can give oral sex...I know plenty who do.

    And most guys expect blowjobs...

    • Well I can't, I even tryed before I got braces and I did a horrible job. It will be worse with braces on.

    • As for before, it takes practice and time.Practice makes perfect and braces aren't what they were 10 years ago(big clanky sharp things)

    • No it's the way my mouth is, I can't do it! I'm having jaw surgery to fix my small lower jaw. So I will be able to in a few years. I take it you haven't had braces then? I'm always getting cuts on my cheeks.

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  • They aren't to all guys. Plenty will be happy with you if you are happy doing other things that they like. I don't see that braces would stop you, but you shouldn't have to if it is something you don't like doing anyway.

  • It's not about the blowjob--I'm indifferent on them--it's about how she copes with what I enjoy sexually. Braces, I get, but if she just doesn't feel like giving blowjobs, then I just don't feel like dating her.

  • You need to find some guys with better standards than 'give me a bj or I'm off'. It is a massively personal act to take someone into your mouth that should be appreciated by someone who has feelings for you or an ounce of maturity!

  • What? You shouldn't be dating guys who view it as a 'deal breaker'! Surely you can find much guys with more depth to them than that.

  • You don't ever have to give oral sex to someone if you don't want to and there are guys who don't expect it. There is hope.

  • A great hand job is way, way underrated. Get creative with flavored oils and such. MAKE him love it. You won't have braces forever, right? But if you develop great HJ skills, they last a lifetime. Also, think about developing anal skills. If you are like, no bjs, but I do take anal, WOW, lot of guys would take that deal. Good luck!

  • well in exchange for no oral you'd have to be willing to do anal and gang bangs.

  • Braces won’t prevent you from giving blowjobs. My girlfriend in high school gave them to me all the time and she had braces for two years while we went out.

  • It doesn't matter that much and you can still have oral sex with braces just be careful

  • I dated a guy for a two years and never gave him one. The next guy I dated for three years, he never asked me to do give him one. I just told him I didn't like doing that. We were engaged for a while.

    I think with the right guy it won't matter.

  • as long as you do anal.

    • eww never. Anal is very unhealthy, you can get so many problems from it. The anus is suposed to be for body waste, not a penis.

    • the same can be said about oral watch: Oral is very unhealthy, you can get so many problems from it. The mouth is supposed to be for food, not the penis. Your guy is going to ask for it eventually, trust me, (you know it's 2011 right?) . Nothings wrong it. But as far as braces I'm really attracted to chics with braces, in fact they make them cuter to me.

  • theyr'e not. who told you they were?