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Enough with the penis questions.

So obviously a lot of guys are self-conscious about their penis size, so I want to clear the air here about what's normal, what girls like, and what they don't give a sh*t about (which is basically everything except for how good he is with it). Onward~ The average erect penis length is between 5 and 6 inches. ANYWHERE BETWEEN 4 to 7 IS COMPLETELY 100% NORMAL. "Small" is considered anything under 4 inches; "large" is anything over 7.5 inches. Flaccid, 3 to 4 inches is the norm and average girth is between 4 and 5 inches around. Before I see another "length or girth?" question, I'm going to tell you now: girth > length. Vaginas, just like penises, vary in length. Usually they're only about 3-4 inches until aroused, where they can stretch to be anywhere between 4 and 7 inches (some girls may vary). Do these measurements sound familiar? They should. (read the second paragraph again if you don't remember) Are you telling me that the average vagina is only gets about as long as the average penis? Yes, yes I am. Girls in real life do not want guys with p*rn star penises. That 9-incher you wish you had? Yeah, that thing. It would HURT a girl. Going too deep can hit a woman's cervix and it hurts like a bitch. It's not pleasant and it's not something to aim for, guys. Women like thickness; they want to feel full. A thicker penis means you are hitting more nerve endings in the vagina and it feels so much better than a nine-inch noodle banging your cervix. Now sit down and drop your rulers guys, because you may not believe what I'm about to tell you: Girls don't really care about penis size. (*cue gasp*) Girls care much more what you can DO with that piece of meat. A guy with a 5-inch penis that knows just how to use it will always be preferable over a guy with an 8-inch penis that doesn't know the difference between a g-spot and a g-string. The moral here? Learn how to use your meat. Best thing I can tell you is that girls don't care NEARLY as much as you do about the size of your sword. Learn how to wield it, and you will be treasured. All of the ads trying to tell you you're not big enough are LYING to you. The marketers know just how sensitive a guy is about that. It's their JOB to know that. Your insecurity means money in their pocket. Do YOU know what 6.5 inches looks like just by looking? Well even if you're a smart-ass who said, "Why, yes. Yes, I CAN measure exactly 6.5 inches just by looking," odds are, the person you're with can't. And if you're deep in the moment and all they can think about is measuring your penis, then you've got to get yourself a new f***-buddy because something's wrong with the one you've got. Honestly - and I'm being serious now - no one else scrutinizes it. No one else cares as much as you do. Relax, you're normal. Now, I'll answer the rest of your burning questions about your wang here. Any girls who have read this far, please, help me out. Add anything I missed and answer questions.
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  • Hi and thank you for posting this. But I think its a lie that women just dont care about size. Its the biggest lie a woman can tell.

    The reason why guys are so obsessed about his size is because they can do nothing about their size. We get what we get and we are stuck with it for the rest of our life. So if we are unlucky and have a below average p***s, we are basically screwed for life. And this is why guys are so self-conscious. And it doesn't help that girls nowadays prefer bigger p***s. They say that it doesn't matter, but deep down in our hearts, they will always wish that their guy would be a little bigger. It's like saying beauty is on the inside, but we all know for instance that it's not true. Stuff like these are the ugly truths of this world, these truths that are so conveniently ignored just so to make people feel better.

    Well, I'm not very huge. And I'll be honest here. I am an asian. I'm just 4.5-5 inches down there. And I'm not proud of it. Its not very long and I'm not very thick as well. So life sucks for me. Sometimes I have suicidal feelings just because of my size. And somehow no matter what people tell me size don't matter, I just refuse to believe it.

    I dont know if you will see this, but I just have no one to talk to about this problem.

    • Think suciding for that is a little too much don't you think love yourself before others :) or others thinking

  • I can't thank you enough for posting this

Most Helpful Girls

  • "A thicker penis feels so much better than a nine-inch noodle banging your cervix" PREACH. But I don't totally agree that size doesn't matter. Like you said, how good it feels depends on the thickness of it hitting nerve endings on the vaginal "walls". A thin guy or a guy <4 inches doesn't feel like anything to me even if he's putting in serious work.

    • You may have a slightly longer/wider than average vagina cause the average dick size in certain countries is below 4 in…no way that none of them get laid

  • Thank you! I'm so tired of seeing these dike size question. Just find a woman who likes it okay... gosh lol

  • doesnt matter how small as long as the have the four play involved everything will be perfect ;)

    • Oh, YES! I ran out of room for that; thank you.

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  • as a guy , guys take notes on this because what she's saying is true... nuff said

    thanks to this girl... for saying what you just did here...should help a lot of guys out

    if their paying any attention at all.

  • totally agree with this. who cares about size. it definitely does NOT automatically equate with sexual satisfaction. the most important things are hygiene, function and like, love and respect of your partners body. it is very important to make sure you're respecting each other. and if you want to increase your sexual prowess, you'll use a penis care product like Man1 Man Oil. thank me later.

  • No wonder Girls won't Put Out anymore.
    Thanks for the Peony Posting. xx

  • Ok, but would mine be big enough to satisfy a girl? That's all I want to know.

    Ha just kidding. I agree with you, but it's inevitable when one of a guy's biggest thoughts is sex, meaning his penis is important to him. Too bad this question won't stop those repeat questions though.

    • I know it's inevitable. Honestly, I feel really bad for the ones who are SO self-conscious about it because, when it comes down to it, women don't really care that much. Not that I've never been self-conscious, but it's just a really trivial thing that causes so much stress. And for SO many guys! It's unbelieveable!

  • i agree. stop with the questions about d*** size. really that interested then ask a doctor or google.

    • Google will be more gentle but lie more. A doctor will be less gentle but be more honest... I prefer this site...

  • I hate mine, but I appreciate your approach. I am just feeling this insecurity at 30 and I am somewhere between 6-6.5. The stupid thing is not consistent. Genuinely I hate mine and I wish I had my ideal 8.5. Plastic surgery is a thing, so I can save and see what options I have. I live in the US and women here are brutal. I envy bigger guys.

  • Indeed. This site is inundated with people obsessed with their insecurities. Is my penis big enough? Are these boobs too small? Are my labia unattractive? Does my butt look too big in these jeans?
    Pretty sad. That stuff was old and boring 20 years ago (but, as you appropriately stated, the media and advertisers do a pretty damn good job at keeping these ridiculous things alive for the sake of profits. Such is the world we’re in.) I realized a long time ago that my penis is just fine, but we’re raised with those insecurities, so I still sometimes find myself doubting myself, and it makes me angry (moreso angry at myself for buying all that billshit). It makes me equally angry and sad to see so many women concerned about the appearance of their vagina (vulva). Almost makes me want to throw out the tv and computer. Almost.

  • She's right. I don't give a dime how long a guy's dick is. That doesn't make me attracted to him.

  • you're naive if you think this will stop the questions.

    • No need to get rude. I'm completely aware that this'll get pushed pretty far back within a couple of days. I'm just hoping that it'll ease a few minds in the meantime. I see a LOT of questions relating to this topic, so it's apparent to me that guys are really self-conscious about it. Besides, I needed an interesting enough title so that people would actually click and read it. I'm not expecting the questions to ever stop as long as there are still men on the internet.

    • you should write an article on it. itll be easier to find. if you feature it, it will shew up on the front page.

    • Huh. You know, the thought didn't even cross my mind. Thanks! I'll have to look into that.

  • And with girls asking how pretty I am, rate me, how do I look

    • This

  • this is funny, but its so true

  • You go girl, love this totally. Guys should take note of everything that you said.

  • it's about time a girl did this .

    your my new hero .

    to bad your anonymous.

  • Thanks a lot for posting this. Sadly, guys won't stop posting such questions even after this.

  • Thanks for posting. But there will probably be three more posts today by guys about their junk.

    • Haha. I'm sure there will be. I hope I prevented at least one though.

  • Good news for any guys that are 4-7 inches.

    What about the guys that fall below that size?

  • Enough with the penis questions.

    • No Viagra Needed I guess. lolxxoo

    • @Paris13 Indeed never

  • Thanks for posting.

  • Question: What is most common type of a straight penis... A penis that points straight up or straight out? Please pick one. Thanks.

  • Arigato for posting

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