I want to get a boob job because I want to be able to please my future husband!

[Anonymous]

title says all. I have 34A boobs and I am 5'2. I am considered pretty and sometimes called beautiful. I do have a butt so I'm not worried about that. I just want to be perfect for my future husband. :( I am also saving myself for marriage so its a big concern for me if I cannot please him visually. I feel like my small chest is inadequate and I feel like even though he would marry me for me, he would still wish to be with someone who has a more pleasing breast size. :( I know no matter what guys check out other woman, just like girls swoon over celebrities and eye other guys. But I don't want him to be imagining and wishing I had bigger boobs...or leave me because I don't have them, and he finds someone else with larger breast. I wouldn't get huge boobs, I just want to be a full b /small c-cup. Should I do it? Or does it truly not matter to guys once they marry a girl? Am I too small for my height or too small in general?

[Quadrophonic84]

It truly didn't matter to me when 2 of my girlfriends were 5'2" and had A-size chests. I loved their bodies because I loved them. One of them told me once she wanted a boob job and I told her not to do it on my account, that I loved them, I loved kissing them and feeling them and they were perfect on her. She still felt insecure, but you should know that not all guys think it's so important. I've been with girls with big breasts and tiny minds. It gets old. Plus. fake boobs just make me think of my mom's breast cancer since she had a double mastectomy and had fake ones put in. Not a turn on.

[Asker]

oh man. :( I'm sorry about your mom. And I see where your coming from. It was the way those girls carried their small chest and not how big there breast were.

[tigerguy]

dont do it, please trust me, you have a good breast size, its true that guys ogle breasts but its truly doesn't matter, when a guy marries you its because he loves you and wants to be with you and doesn't care what breast size you are, don't do it, your only going to regret it because if your going to do this do it for yourself and not for some guy.

the reason why women do it half the time is to make themselves feel more like a woman and not for anything else, but you sound like you feel comfortable the way you are and your only doing this to please your future guy.

[Asker]

like I said I feel a bit un-feminine. :( not only small chest but also for reasons I wrote in response to an answer. but yes I guess you can say I am indirectly wanting a boob job for a guy. Thank you for your thoughts on this though. :)

[Asker]

uh, no haha. silly

[Anonymous]

Whst do you think about doing it for yourself? If you knew that your future husband loved you the way you are now, would you still want to do it for yourself? If the answer is no and you are only doing it for him then I suggest you not do it. If a man is already going to marry the way that you are really think about where you got the idea that he would like you with bigger breasts...if it ain't broke don't fix it.

[Asker]

Ive wanted one for myself for a long while now. :( I'm just asking because I don't want him grossed out by fake boobs either! lol I just want opinions, because I'm saving money, and I have been thinking about it a long time. I am still on the fence about it though and I won't get it for another three years. I just want to see what others' opinions are on it you know?

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely think you shouldn't.I personally wouldn't do any surgery unless it meant I was prepared to die for it.Sadly that can happen.So unless I would die if I didn't do it then that's the only way I would.I don't have a big butt and they have the implants now but as long as I have to go under,it will never happen lol.Can see the newspaper now, girl dies trying to get bigger butt lol.I'm making light of it but that's the severity of it and if you have a man that loves you the way you are,why risk?

[Asker]

very true. :) It's just that I have this thing about being feminine. I love how being in a dress makes me feel so womanly, and I just can't help but feel sad when my chest disappears under a thick material and such! XD lol but yeah I know what you mean. :( I would be scared to die just because of boobs. (not trying to be funny about it because like you said, it does happen!)

[Opinion Owner]

Wll, this is the same discussion I have with my best friend. She is an A-cup with a big butt and I have DDD's with flat butt. We always want what we don't have lol. We go out and some guys look at her and some guys look at me. You know how badly I wish I could wear a halter top, shirt/dress with no bra, ooh and back in the day I loved the suit jacket with nothing under it with a long necklace. I can't do that lol

[Asker]

aw. :( I can see your argument! It's very true, people always want the opposite of what they are given. It's like my little sis. She has beautiful, movie perfect curls naturally, that I envy a lot because I have wavy/straight hair. haha. But she straightens her hair everyday And I just want to steal her flat iron because her hair is so beautiful with out being altered!

[Opinion Owner]

lol.So you see this is similar.I don't know if you really know what it takes to carry these things lmbo.I have back problems,I am also 5'2 and I don't know your weight but if you are really thin could present an issue.Bras are more expensive cause you need to buy the thicker strap reinforced ones lol.I have to wear a regular bra and 2 sports bras to play tennis lol.The doc is going to try to talk you into a C cup and show you how it doesn't look much different but your body will feel the change !

[Opinion Owner]

Just work what you got and remember that other girls are envious of your butt (I probably would be) and that they are going out getting implants to have what you have and I'm sure in your mind thinking about another woman going to get a butt implant probably sounds ridiculous to you lol cause you have it and saying to yourself that your butts not such a big deal, so why think any diff on the breast. Good Luck !

[peace-love-couture]

Guys have 2 eyes, if they aren't satisfied with how your body looks with clothes and a bra on, you know what you can do? Tell them to walk the opposite way.

If it will make YOU feel better about yourself and raise your self esteem, then I say go for it, but if you're worried about what your future hubby will think, then I say don't. If he's marrying you clearly he'd find you attractive already.

[Smiley10]

you should not get a boob job for other people. or try to change the way you look to please a guy. That's dumb. you should do it for yourself. if you find a guy who will leave you for your boobs than that's not a very good relationship. you should find someone who will like you for what you look like now and than change whatever you want to change or do something for you not them.

[SometimesWonders]

i have a lot of guy friends and almost all of them say "any more then a handful is a waste" and also I've heard most guys go for smaller boobs anyways and wonder why us females think guys only like big boobs, I was a 36A and I'm 5'7 (before I was pregnant =| now a 34B) and most guys told me that was perfect for them so for your siz I think its a pretty good size

[R0ul3tte]

Every time a woman with fake boobs hugs me, it's like smashing into two hard balls. Not sexy.

Fun fact: smaller boobs make women look more youthful for longer.

Alas, the grass is always greener on the other side.

[heartsonfire]

Do you eventually want kids? Would you want to breastfeed? cause I'm pretty sure I remember hearing that you can't breastfeed when you've got implants...

[Asker]

You can breast feed. It dosen't affect that. And yes I do want kids one day. :) I would rather breast feed than just bottle feed. I remeber that in psychology being told that children who are breast fed are actually closer to their parents and are more trusting and confident in their personalities. Its all about contact with the parents that helps them form future emotional bonds with others. Its very intresting!

[heartsonfire]

yep, plus all the health benefits! like lower obesity rates in breast fed babies and lower cancer rates and stuff... dang how does it work then if you've got implants? do they go under the milk ducts? for some reason I've always thought they go just under the skin...

[Asker]

I believe it goes under them. :o I think if they were inserted above them it would cause more health problems then just having the fake boobs alone.

[acubed25]

Actually you may want to do some research on that I knew a woman who had so much damage from a bad boob job that she lost feeling in her breast which sex when you get to have sex and she couldn't breastfeed because scar tissue damaged her milk ducts. She had to have reconstructive surgery and all of that resulted from what the doctor considered a "small" mistake. There are no garuntees especially if you have hormone issues already,.

[bluewingedangel828]

well it don't please a man to f*** a fake blow up doll like person when he could of had somethign real.

[bluewingedangel828]

and if you want bigger boobs take estrogen I went from a B to a C in a snap

[Asker]

that might help. :o ha ha I actually have some hormonal problems though, like I produce a bit too much of a male hormone and I have thyroid issues (hypertyroidism), though it is not to a severe degree, only slight. so I don't know how it would effect me you know?

[bluewingedangel828]

yeah but if you have more male hormone in you that explains the small boobs. so should get it checked out before you consider boob job

[CatholicVirginia]

Do you want to marry a man who only cares about your looks? If not, then the true love of your life will be able to deal with small breasts.

[RavinJade]

This is just something for you to consider. Later in life you won't be sagging from above.

If you want a bigger chest then fine but you've got a good body as you've stated in your question so you really don't need it.

[DaveMicharl69]

My BFF is about your measurements, & I think she's perfect & one of the cutest & most beautiful girls I have ever met. On the other hand, my on/off girlfriend is really big in the chest, taller & fuller figured, & even though I love her & find her beautiful too, she's grown so hard & distant from being hurt so much that she's pushing me away & it sometimes make me feel less attracted to her. A girl's personality DEFINITELY either enhances or takes away from her looks. I think a decent guy who loves you will be happy with you no matter how big or small your boobs are, but if this is something that TRULY bothers you & you feel like you need it for YOU, then you should do it. if not, I wouldn't sweat it...

[DaveMicharl69]

No, I don't think they're too small for your height...

[TC123]

If you want to be a trophy wife a boob job is a good start. If you want to meet someone real then it won't help in that regard.

[myspacemybroke]

Generally for me if I like a girl for her personality her bust size really doesn't make much of a difference. Especially if you're marrying a guy, it shouldn't matter. I'm not saying don't do it, it's obviously up to you, but don't do it because you think someone's not going to love you for not having large breasts. Some people honestly dislike large breasts.

[MandMandM]

Different guys like different female chest sizes. Few prefer implants to natural. I never heard of anyone leaving over boob size, it usually takes something much more important. If he likes you enough to be with you, it just won't matter before or after a guy marries you what your chest size is. As an example I don't think Kiera Knightly is short of admirers.

[KERMlT]

Your future husband should be happy with your body the way it is. We should all accept our loved ones with all the flaws, quirks, perks, that come with that person. If you dislike something about them, think to yourself if you can live with it or not because you shouldn't ask the other person to change. We are who we are, accept us or find someone else that fits what you are looking for.

[anonymous17]

nobody is perfect. I feel inadequate a lot but I just learn to love my body and I really want people to be more attracted to my personality.

[Phoma21]

Do it if you feel that's the thing to do. I mean I've met guys who actually think small breasts are the most attractive so it actually depends on who you're with. don't alter yourself just to please someone else. I think you should find the guy you love and then ask him would he want you to get a boob job. he may love you just the way you are.

[SrSmokesAlot]

nah, stick with what you have. I know I much prefer smaller boobs over fake ones. some guys actually prefer smaller ones overall.

[harland1980]

honey it doesn't matter guys are going to fantasize it is the nature of the beast it wouldn't matter if you had 38D breast, guys always want what they can't have. So be happy that you found a great guy. That accepts you despite your flaws. I have a wife who accepts me and often wonder why.

[Asker]

Oh I'm not talking about fantasizing. lol It would be really dumb if I expected my husband to never fantasize or check out another girl! <_< I have one rule, you can look, but you may not touch or flirt! That's why I put in the post I know that reguardless guys will check out other girls. I guess I'm saying in a sense I want him to at least be sexually satisfied with my looks. Again, I know who ever my husband will be will be marrying me for me (especially since there will be no sex prior...

[Asker]

to the marriage) but I do want him to be satisfied with my body and not thinking, "darn...I expected more and better..." XP

[colexx]

your boobs are not too small for your height...as pink would say: "you're f***ing perfect"! do not change a thing for anyone. be confident for the things you are blessed with...good luck.

[diamond3]

your looks will fade eventually any ways.. I don't think you should be so focused on the looks..

[Asker]

oh, ik! lol Looks aren't everything in life. I would much rather age fast and have a husband who sees my soul, then look young longer and have a husband who loves me only for that. But that why I'm saving myself as well, because if he really loves me for me he will be willing to wait. :)

[rafael0120]

i suggest you don't; well, you might look better, but there's nothing better then natural boobs; if you consider yourself flat; then OK, but let your future husband decide for you on that, but you have a butt; so, t*ts won't matter as much; yet, there are distracting to some of us guys lol; if your pretty and even called beautiful at times; then wow, who wouldn't wanna be your boyfriend or husband; and by the way you sound makes you very interesting; hey, you even got me interested; for reals; I even wanna know your name ha; well, either if you tell me your name or accept me as a friend or not; it sounds that you well be a perfect wife

[Asker]

aw thank you. :) haha

[thoronmegil]

Absolutely not. DO NOT GET IMPLANTS! If a guy really loves you, he'll want you just the way you are!

And actually, there are some plusses, such as getting more stimulation from breast play ;)

Also, just fyi, your breasts will keep growing after the rest of your body stops.

Implants are an abomination.

[sikoo31]

for your size, your boobs are alright I guess.

i just like them big, but there's plenty of guys who like them small.

[sikoo31]

the thing about perfections is... its unobtainable.

[Asker]

im far from perfect. trust me! lol

[sikoo31]

everyone is...