Girlfriend wants me to wrestle other guys (in front of her), cause it turns her on. WTF?! Should I do it?

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i told her I don't like to show off for no reason. she then called me a coward. if I don't have the balls to wrestle another man, she won't f*** me. what the f*** is wrong with her? I thought about breaking up with this childish girl, but she's just too hot. I told her I can kick a guy's ass if she's in danger, but I don't like to wrestle other guys just because it turns her on. she often points at random guys and tells me she'd love to watch me wrestle them. it's getting on my nerves. why would a girl want to watch her boyfriend wrestle another guy? why does it turn her on? should I wrestle or should I ignore her?

cocaine_socialist · Accepted Answer

It seems like she just enjoys watching two guys get naked and handsy with each other, in the way a lot of guys like to see two women getting naked and handsy with each other. This fantasy is more common than you think amongst women, but it's less socially acceptable to admit it in public. Her calling you a coward, and saying she won't have sex with you if you don't, sounds like she's just trying to prod you into actually doing it.

If you're comfortable with it, you should maybe consider making her fantasy come true; and the person who said you should ask her to do something that turns you on in return has the right idea.

If you aren't comfortable with it at all, yet she still tries to get you to do it anyway, isn't cool tho. At that point you need to tell her to step off, because that's no respect for your boundaries.

Clockworklion · Accepted Answer

If there’s was a guy that i admire and that was his girlfriend, and he hasn’t broken up with her, he would lose his charm. I think its just plain old stupid. I think she should walk around knowing that you could beat any guy and that should be sufficient, i also think you should break up with her and tell her that is the reason. Otherwise it feels like you’re supporting her behavior...

I dont think she wants you to show off. I think she wants to show off herself to the other guy. Something like, “my boyfriend beat you, so you could never get me”( 😆 im sorry that its how it feels). She is turned on by looking down at the other guy. Not you...
by the way, im just another opinion

Olya363 · Accepted Answer

the girls that are answering here are bitches and I completely understand your girlfriend. she can't help what turns her on. if its more than just her sex appeal that you like about her (which I sense is not the case here lol as you said yourself) than just wrestle the guy? IFFFF you wanna make her happy :P whaaaaaaaats the big deal? maybe you are just paranoid you will get your butt kicked? its not that I get turned on by guys fighting its just entertaining to me and it displays a great amount of masculinity (physically, superficially). I guess for your gf's case its more than that :P

i get her!

BlackBear18 · Accepted Answer

Here's my advice for you. If you wrestling with another guy turns her on then go ahead and do it. However, tell her that she has to do something that will turn you on. If she does do what you want, then say that you won't have sex with her. Remember, both sides have to compromise something if they want the relationship between them to work. I hope my advice helps you somehow and best of luck!

PS: If you do choose to wrestle another guy, don't be on the bottom or rather be in a position of control.

BlackBear18 · Accepted Answer

Thanks for giving me the best answer! Really appreciate it! However, if you really don't want to wrestle another guy then don't do it, even if she does withhold sex. You two can really get hurt and that is worse than not having sex! I have to agree with what Olya363's, Butterfly Kisses09's, Georgia-kay's and slipsender's advice as well. Hope my advice as well as the advice of the other people here can help  you and best of luck with your situation.

MlleCake · Answer

How insane. If you're not into it, tell her to can it.

Butterfly_kisses09 · Answer

She's immature and stupid. You can find another hot girl that has more brains than her. I say end it, I mean seriously, she won't f*** you unless you wrestle another guy? She just doesn't even sound worth it.

CuriousEddie · Answer

Maybe she's interested in guy-on-guy, and this is all she feels comfortable asking about. It can't be that unusual -- many guys like to see girl-on-girl p*rn.

Killfest400 · Answer

Doesn't matter how hot she is.  Your girlfriend is a bitch, and she's emotionally abusive too.  Prove your masculinity to her by dumping her and finding someone better.

TheGodEmperorLeto · Answer

Tell her you wanna wrestle other girls in front of her and then with her.

slipslender · Answer

lmfao. she's just too hot to break up with? well...she's also a psychotic mofo. decisions, decisions.

jamesmitchell29486 · Answer

why don't you wrestle HER it'll likely turn you both on and if you do it naked you can go strait to the sex.

georgia-kay · Answer

tell her that you don't want to, and ask her if she would still like you if something went wrong and you got your face smashed in. or maybe there's other ways you could turn her on.xx