How do I stop sleeping around?

Yes, I know, just stop right? But, I really need help with this. I sleep around a lot, and my standards are all right, they're not super high or super low. It ends up I go for a lot of the average guys, I guess. Which is fine with me, but there are a lot of them, and I want to stop sleeping around like this, I just don't know how to. Any tips on how to control myself, literally?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • 1-acquire steak knife

    2-carve out vagina

    3-problem solved

    Seriously, if you expect to be told some secret that will make it easy to quit, you're going to be disappointed. Accept the fact that it won't be easy to stop, and decide whether it's worth it to you or not. Also, I would assume that there is some kind of interaction that happens beforehand with your sexual partners. I would suggest halting such interactions before they escalate into physical intimacy. Remember that most things start in the brain, don't constantly entertain thoughts of sex and sexual encounters, direct your energy elsewhere, get a hobby or something.

  • That is hard issue. It is for week seminar at least. But suggestion. Get friend who will watch you and "slap you" (mybe not litteraly but maybe even that can be necessary) when you get of road.

    And this might seem strange and that it has more or less nothing to do with controlling yourself, but it is so very important: forgive yourself that you are doing that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • umm if you do that after drinking, drinking less wold be a good option.

    Tell yourself you will not sleep with a guy until you've hung out with him 3 times, etc. Make a rule and follow it.

    Its not reasonable for you to say 'i'm not gonna hook up with anyone ever' but you should set a rule that you know you can follow and make sure you keep to it. Maybe get your best friend to stop you. I definitely get my best friends to take my alcohol away if I'm drinking too much, keep tabs on me at bars, etc.

  • For the majority of the average guys, you should be satisfied by just flirting with them rather than jumping into bed. But I would strongly recommend that you seek out a therapist if you're having trouble with promiscuity.

  • Just learn to keep your legs closed. It's not that hard.

    • Ok sorry if I was a bitch above, I'm just not sure how we can help you. Maybe get a boyfriend? Or don't go anywhere alone with guys? Spend more time with your girl friends? Anything like that.

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  • Maybe you should try sex addicts anonymous. That could help. they have a website and they hold meetings in person or you can do it online.

  • If it's having a negative influence on your life see answers which help. If it's just because societies against it then you don't need to stop. That whole girls sleeping around is "wrong" is stupid, if you enjoy it and have no need to stop, then there's no point.

    • It's negatively affecting my life.

    • Go to a doctor and talk about it, they might be able to help.

  • find some good D*CK and stick with it.

    • It's not just about that, but thx

    • actually it is because once you've had the best everything else is a step down so you just stay with the best.