I dominate and humiliate guys in front of sexy girls. Do girls find this hot? Are they impressed?

[Anonymous]

I beat them up/make them beg for mercy once they're on the ground. I once forced a guy to kiss my feet while his girlfriend watched. It was so hot to show her who's boss. Do girls find this hot? Are they impressed?

[cranberrysweets]

yeah it's human nature. All other animals get aroused by this so there's no reason why men and women don't too. I'm in high school and can say that it gets me and a lot of other girls very turned on. But the example you used was too extreme. That's just too much. But strong, dominant aggressive alpha male guys that dominate other guys are a huge turn on for most girls whether they want to admit it or not. Why do you think all the aggressive cocky, tall and built jocks always get all the hottest girls? There is a line though, and you crossed it with what you did. I don't know how many times at my school a girl stopped seeing a guy after he lost badly in a fight.

And there's no way this just happens at my high school. I know I got super turned on when I saw a really hot, built guy, physically dominate another kid who wronged him. So in general yeah, it's REALLY hot when a hot strong alpha guy establishes his dominance and shows who's boss. The fact that he can get whatever girl he wants, do what he wants and nobody dares to stop him cause they're so intimidated by his power and dominance is so hot...for me and a lot of other girls I know at least. If it's some fat ugly guy then of course not...but if it's a sexy built bad boy that shows that he's the one in charge and he has the power, he takes what he wants... if a girl says they don't like that they're probably lying.

The only time it's not hot is if you take it too far like you did. That's not cool. But other than that it's going to turn on most girls whether they know it or not. When I was at a house party not too long ago one of these strong hot alpha type guys got in an altercation with one of the guys who came with a girl that the alpha guy was talking to. He pretty much punked him off with everyone watching when the guy kept interrupting the conversation with his friend (the girl) who he was trying to hit on. He didn't actually physically hurt him but he showed his dominance and let it be known that if he said one more word he was going to get the crap kicked out of him. It was so intimidating, aggressive and sexy and I saw a bunch of the other girls also watching it all go down with a look of dangerous attraction. The other kid backed down and was apologizing over and over and was in such a state of fear while the jock type put him in his place and showed everyone who was in charge.

Later that night at the party he ended up taking that girl to a room and they had sex and everyone could hear cause it was so loud. I was turned on and I know some of my other girlfriends were too. Right when he eventually just took her and basically shoved her in one of the rooms in the basement all the girls at the party were saying how she's so lucky and that she's going to get the best and hardest pounding of her life.. and honestly we all thought it was so sexy.

Do you think the guy that got put in his place got laid? heck no. None of the girls at school want him sexually.

[Nicola85]

can i write you on private? i like your opinion and i would like to discuss with you about this..

[FitGirlMia]

Yeah... I've been in similar situations... It's honestly super sexy when a hot guy dominate and humiliating other guys

[viva_glow]

I'm never impressed. I find a brutal nature implies a weakness of the mind. I like strong minds.

Violence is never attractive, and if a girl sees you being violent, it is safe for her to assume you would treat her like that. And girls don't choose domestic violence.

If you want to REALLY impress a girl, large acts of humility will do the job. I'm quite serious. You'll stand apart as a loving human being and she could grow to love you. At least that's what will be going through her head.

Why the violence anyway? You can only gain negative things from that. Choose Love.

[Asker]

i was a nice guy before (treated everyone with respect) and girls ignored me. ever since I treat others like sh*t, they are attracted to me. unfortunately girls assume nice guys are unable to dominate/are weak. it's sad I need to bully others to make sure they don't think I'm weak, but it's not my fault. girls force me to be like that. I wasn't born this way...

[viva_glow]

Girls like a man who's assertive and takes charge, but you don't need to dominate others in that manner to prove it. No one's forcing you to be like that. You can be a nice guy without being "the nice guy" and attract plenty of girls. Have you tried other techniques? Are the girls you're attracting with violence really the ones you want? Is that what you want? Try to think about what lasts in this world... Maybe violent domination gets the girl's attention, but can it keep it long term?

[Asker]

look, the problem is that girls mistake nice for being weak. even non-shallow girls think nice guys are weak/less manly. this is obviously not true, cause nice guys simpy don't feel the need to put others down. just because I don't have the desire to dominate others, it doesn't mean I'm unable to dominate others. I decided to dominate guys this way because pysical domination is the most effective way to show girls who's boss/alpha. I don't think it would be hotter if I dominated guys verbally...

[viva_glow]

Ok, I'm obviously not making this clear. You don't need to put down anyone verbally or physically to prove your worth to women. It's about how you treat the woman. Not how you treat other men. And that's where the "nice" guy thing doesn't work, because "nice" guys follow women like lapdogs and can never say "no" to anything. They're there for the girl all the time, give her too much attention, and get put in a friend zone. If you want a girl's attention, it's about HOW you give it. (cont'd...)

[viva_glow]

It's about going up to her and showing interest without giving too much away; you can't praise her to much or give her too much attention. It's about playing it hot/cold with a girl (in terms of how much attention you give her, not how nice you are). You give her mystery and you stay busy with different things and don't always have time for her to keep her missing you. This changes when a relationship starts, but it's that advice that hooks a girl in. Other people's involvement = irrelevant.

[viva_glow]

When girls say they want a dominant man, they mean a man who takes charge in a relationship. They want someone with a spine, who's not a pushover. You don't need to prove you have a spine with fighting. In fact, I'll be honest with you for a moment here, and ask that you not be offended, because I don't mean disrespect. When I see men who fight, I more often associate them with spineless cowards who need to "prove" something because there's nothing actually there. (cont'd again haha)

[viva_glow]

When I see a man who refuses to fight because he thinks it's wrong, that's a strong man right there, and he definitely has a spine. If he were to be hit, self-defense is important. But not unless it's necessary. It becomes overkill and disgusting when a guy overdoes it. Making someone kiss your feet? That's pretty low. If you don't want my advice, don't take it. But there's more to life than belittling a guy to catch a girl's attention and get turned on. Surely you want more sustenance than that

[viva_glow]

There. I've said all I have to say.

[Asker]

why do you assume I give girls too much attention? not every nice guy is clingy and emotional needy. I actually ignored them (in my nice guy days). I just treated everyone with respect. that's what made me look weak I guess. by the way, I really think a girl thinks differently of a man after witnessing how he interacts with other men. you'd be less attracted to a man if he got dominated (verbally or physically). you'd be more attracted if he dominated another man.

[Asker]

it's easy to dominate a girl, but it's much more difficult to dominate a guy. every time I dominate a strong guy, girls give me attention. my ex told me she got wet when I made that guy beg for mercy. since she told me this, the dominance thing turns me on (even though I know a brutal nature implies a weakness of the mind, but most girls don't notice this). I also think it's a sign of weakness when a guy dominates a girl (pick on the weak), but most girls don't see it as weakness.

[Asker]

i realize I'm getting on your nerves lol but I want you to know that I appreciate you trying to help me.

[viva_glow]

I'm not assuming, I was just pointing out that that's the nice guy that fails. Respect doesn't make anyone look weak... Are you sure this wasn't all in your head? I doubt it was as hard as you're letting on... And that's why a guy should be assertive and stand up for himself like I mentioned. It doesn't mean he needs to be violent.

[viva_glow]

To avoid getting dominated, it's a matter of standing up, not necessarily fighting back. That's what I've been trying to say. It's not about dominating as much as it is not getting dominated. I wouldn't count on the fact that most girls don't notice that... I don't know your ex, but she's probably someone I wouldn't agree with anyways.

[viva_glow]

I guess everyone handles things differently, and maybe you're just a different person than I am. Maybe your crowd is just different than mine and that's how things work in your crowd. It's just never been my case or that of those I've known growing up. And dominating a girl isn't something that should be taken literally... I'm not talking about dominating with girls, but taking charge. It's not a sort of getting on my nerves, I guess I want to try and make you understand. But we're different.

[viva_glow]

I can't judge you because I don't know you. I guess it's just that violence has never been right to me, and I believe you can find fulfillment in love much more than hate/acts of hate. Try to consider what's worth it next time you're ready to hurt a guy. It's a matter of ethical standing - you can humiliate and hurt him and get a kick out of it, but that's a little superficial. It's a lot more rewarding to the heart and soul if you embrace love for fellow man instead, and pick him off the ground

[Asailum]

nice answer... The question asker is probably full of sh*t to an extent. Girls do at some level feel attracted to the alpha/boss of the group, but most guys misinterpret this to be the most mean asshole. Dogs will actually kill a leader who bullies and dominates everyone else unfairly, much like human "packs" will put a guy down whose being a domineering asshole to everyone else. People listen to you as the leader when you know what your talking about, don't take sh*t from anybody, and treat p

[Asailum]

eople with kindness and respect(NOT undeserving).

[moviedude714]

i'd like to become like that

[Rickie55]

I hate to admit but some girls are impressed by this, but hopefully not too many. A guy did similar to me, dominated / humiliated me publically, made me beg him and had me on my stomach licking his shoes in front of my girlfriend. He made me call him Sir. Whilst this was happening he had his arm around my girlfriend and was kissing her. He used to dunk me in a local muddy pond, right up to my neck in front of her and make me cruel through thick mud on my stomach. I was mortified but my girlfriend not only invited him over but slept with him on several occasions. He even made me wash his car whilst he slept with my girlfriend and made me wear one of those orange community payback jumpsuits that he got from somewhere. They are still together and occasionally he still texts me. I now work in a restaurant and he brings her in for dates so I have to serve them as customers, they kept complaining and I ended up getting disciplined by my boss because they complained so much. So, some like it!

[Mohammed2001]

Are u the same guy who said he likes to dominate guys in front of their girlfriends?

[ShootingStar5]

P.S. Blaming your behavior on girls is not acceptable. Unless one actually held a gun to your head and told you to act like an asshole. But that's obviously not the case here. Sure your behavior might be attracting more girls now... but are they the right kind of girls? I've never seen my boyfriend act like this and that's one of the reasons I like him to much. Please do us all a favor and go back to the nice guy routine. At least when you do attract a girl like that you'll know she's probably a decent human being who appreciates a nice guy!

[Asailum]

I agree and disagree with you so bear with me.

One, I don't think you actually do this, but who knows its the internet.

When it comes to being the most dominant alpha guy in the group, its definitly true that women all want to be with the guy who is respected and the "coolest" in the group. That CAN be a domineering asshole in rare cases, but usually its the guy who is tough but treats people well.

Treating people well doesn't mean your nice to everybody, and if some f***er insults you there's no reason to hold back smashing him and his arrogance into the ground. However going out of your way to PROVE your the dominant guy in the group is going too far. Sure you might think your the boss, but girls are going to be more frightened and creeped out.

Dominant does not mean domineering. It means, the BEST leader in the group. Like I mentioned in the other answer, men are similar to dogs (like girls to cats), and dogs will naturally select the best leader for the group by a pecking order. The pecking order is not determined primarily by physical strength though, because just because your strong doesn't mean your smart. Being that "pack leader" as a human means your mentally and physically strong. Mentally strong is actually a LOT more important than your physical dominance, because being the best leader (alpha) means you gotta know how to treat people well AND be respected by everybody. That's not an easy task for anyone and I'm definitely no expert on it.

[matty1]

your an idiot number 1... number 2, you may think this is cool right now but, things come back and catch up to you later in life. I know a guy who grew up with me who was humilliated in front of all of us 17 years ago. he saw that same guy at a store with his kid one day about a year ago and he hit him with his car almost killing him! I asked him why he did that and that was the reply I got! he said" remember 17 years ago what that fcuk did to me" and then I said to myself wow...there really are people out there like this. he has anoher 5 years left and for what? but that is the whole problem with people now a days! you just never know who you are screwing with! my advice? stop before you too become an example some day! seriously.

[ActingOnInstinct]

When my ex and I were still together, this guy walking past us made an inappropriate comment about me. My ex was furious, turned around, and said, "What did you say?" I knew my ex wouldn't take it any further (only wanted to defend me) - but the guy turned around, walked back, and smashed my ex's head into a nearby car. He said, "I'll say what I want to say," and walked away. I had never been so disgusted and enraged in my entire life. I think about it and to this day I still want to hurt this man. It anything it made me love my ex even more. Guys like you disgust me.

[Asker]

i bet if he beat up this guy, he would still be your boyfriend. you say you love him even more, so why did you break up? you think less of him. I 'm pretty sure your ex was embarrassed. "what did you say"... seriously, he was being too nice/lame comeback. why didn't he take revenge on this guy? by the way, was the guy physically superior to your bf? it seems like he just sucker punched him/smashed from behind. that's just a p**** move and shows the guy was a weak coward/was afraid to fight fair.

[Asker]

you don't answer? this means you dumped your boyfriend because he got beat up. lmao, you are so shallow. I love it...

[DebiPie]

You definitely have mental health issues that you haven't dealt with. Aggression, fighting & who has the biggest d*ck doesn't make you a strong man or superior. You have much to learn. I think someone like you will not be "able" to learn much.

[ActingOnInstinct]

^ I agree with the mental health issues comment.

[scar1]

I'm not defending the guy but your ex is a victum of his own stupidity if didn't want to fight he shouldn't have tried to intmidate the other guy

[Asker]

lol he obviously didn't intimidate the guy. he only said "what did you say"? that was a lame/nice comeback. he should have prepared himself for a fight. if he won the fight, she'd still be his gf.

[scar1]

yeah he obviously failed that's why I said "he tried to intimidate the guy"

[ActingOnInstinct]

You're both wrong. If he had wanted to initiate a fight, I would've been instantly unattracted and that would've been the end. We are not Neanderthals, women are not turned on by the ancient caveman instincts of men: "Me strong. Me bang you on head - me take woomun". It honestly just looks stupid when two men start to fight in this context, as it is our intellect and our ability to make rational decisions that differientiates us from animals.

[ActingOnInstinct]

And any women who actually are turned on by such demonstrations are not very smart/classy. Any quality women will walk away from both men.

[islands7]

A really nice guy & his buddy had a few too many beers in a burger drivein years ago when a 20-something couple walked by to dine inside. Nice guy said something aloud about how hot she looked, which eventually turned into his death by knife.

[Asailum]

"And any women who actually are turned on by such demonstrations are not very smart/classy. Any quality women will walk away from both men." <-- although you think that its unclassy and stupid, its actually animal instinct for girls to be attracted to the strongest guy, even when they are fighting for her. So many girls try to deny this because girls think that they can "decide" who they are attracted to based on how smart he is... Its bullsh*t, attraction is a reaction, not a choice.

[selfishstars]

Not in the slightest. It probably has the opposite effect and makes them see you as repulsive.

[Asker]

why do you lie? girls love dominant guys.

[selfishstars]

There's a difference between being dominant, and being a bully.

[ShootingStar5]

I don't think this is hot at all. When I see guys take things over the top like that I think their jackasses who like to show off. And I don't think that's attractive at all. Guys who show me their masculinity in more subtle ways are waaaay hotter IMO. No offense...

[bestill]

what's so impressive about beating up weaker men...I would love to run into you while out with my girl, and for you to attempt ANYTHING...

[CuddlyCarla]

Why would a girl be impressed with this? Any girl who sees you humiliate other people is a moron if she gets turned on by that. Assertiveness is sexy. Aggressiveness and being mean aren't. Know the difference. Treating people with respect is far sexier. I wouldn't even consider going for a violent person or a bully under any circumstances, and nor would any girl with a brain on her shoulders.

[layla223]

this kind of dominance thing really depends on the girl.

if you tried to humiliate my boyfriend or a friend of mine though and I was there, you'd get a slap from me. I'm not impressed whatsoever. you're either into that kind of thing or not, I'm not

[Asker]

don't worry, I won't humiliate your grandpa boyfriend. I respect old people. lol

[layla223]

oh real mature of you

[marshmallowqn321]

It's a HUGE turn off to see a guy try that hard...

[ilovedinosaurs]

No, that would p*ss me the f*** off and probably make me lose respect for you

[Eiffelgirl21]

ummm not really..depends...if yu were play fighting or somethng and if it want that brutal...like the kiss my feet thing is a little much...but the play fighting and you winning could maybe be a little impressive..but it has to be playful...not brutal and it can't look like your being obvious...just my opinion ;-)

[islands7]

My wife dated someone like this back in HS.

She didn't understand the what nor why of it ... nor extent.

One night he was making the rounds in a park, giving this one guy the build up before the beating. The guy had seen this pattern before, was so afraid of a beating he saw other get, that he pulled out a gun and shot him point blank - dead.

[lace1228]

I just pictured the jungle where the males fight for the females, attention lol

[dryad]

LOH! (Laughing Out Hysterically)

[DebiPie]

Not at all. I would find you a total ass. I would know that you had mental problems and need help. Plain and simple.

[SloSupra]

In short, everyone seems to agree your just a bully douche. Good job.

[Yukey]

YEah, id definently be impressed by the idiocricy behind such stupid actions

PFFF

girls like cute things

Defenseless = cute

in need of protection=cute

violent idiot=disturbing and scary

Get the math? =D

And the girl with the alpha male theory

Sure that works on animals

Animals don't think too much they act on instinct

So as long as your going after a girl with no brain I'm sure ull get her

Good luck

Try not to catch any diseases

[Brando]

I bet you're a p**** in real life.

[Dom163]

Pfft if he was a p**** in real life would he use the anon feature? ... Wait

[Brando]

I blame it on ALL the women...they are wimps and cowards

[Dom163]

Should I eat them? I am a bear after all

[Brando]

But don't you have a very limited diet? Or is there something more rabid we don't know about you?

[Dom163]

Well I wouldn't eat them all at once

[Brando]

Gotcha. Well eat away! Put your dishes in the kitchen when you're done.

[KarKingJack]

LOL

[l-hedoniste]

The girls have spoken. Fix up that game, alright?

[miki94]

No I would think you are an asshole who tortures people for no reason and who will eventually try to do the same thing to me.

It is true we are attracted to strength, but if the strength is only in your muscles and not in your heart and brain... We stay the hell away from you!

[gummybear888]

i find that full of douchbagery actually, it's like charlie sheen on 'charlie sheen' x 1 000 000 which means no it doesn't impress me.

[Asker]

it doesn't impress you but I bet it turns you on. the dominant guy makes the weak guy his bitch. if I were a girl I'd find it very hot...

[KarKingJack]

F***ing LOL'd. Your a total lej.

Anyway no, it doesn't work. You can actually do well picking up girls when you get beaten up - girls have a 'mothering instinct' and all that, you know? You might impress some butch gays, though.