Sometimes it just makes me feel used ! :( I know he's not using me, we've been dating just over a year, but it's something that makes me a bit upset at times. Girls, do you feel this way also? Does your boyfriend also do this? I don't know if its selfish of me to say that I just want all his attention on me when I am pleasuring him or when we are having s**! I find it makes me less horny too, seeing his eyes tuned on the tv. And I know I give good s** too !