Unsure about reviving oral?

[Anonymous]

A guy who I've been having a relation with has a fetish for giving oral sex. I always turn him down because its something I have never experienced and something that I am very embarrassed about. I've noticed he gets a little upset each time I tell him no. Its something he's always wanted to do with me. But I'm embarrassed about how fuzzy I am down there. Its not a jungle, but it is a pretty cushy bush. Anyone have any tips on how to trim my bush down without it looking horrible? Guys: Do you mind a more natural girl when it comes to eating out as long as she's clean? Girls : Any advice to get comfortable with receiving oral sex?

[ak2020]

I would ask him what he likes down there. Every guy has their own opion. Some like bush, some like it trimmed, some like it bare. Ask him and it will save you a lot of time and worry about whether he'll like it or not. Odds are trimmed will be fine, it will be easier for him and he won't get any hairs in his mouth.

To trim you could just take a pair of (sharp) scissors and snip away. Just stop when it's managable and more 'flat' I'll say. So it covers but doesn't take up any excess volume. You can snip around down below too, just be careful. Washing and conditioning down there helps a little too ~ just so the hair doesn't become too coarse.

As for receiving - Enjoy! It's lovely :) Just relax. If you're nervous start with a little fore play. The more relaxed you get (or into it) the better it is for you and the more of a thrill he'll get. Don't worry about making noises, if anything that's better so he knows he's doing it right.

It's wonderful that your guy wants to do that to you ~ more men should! It's the best way to start and end a night ;)

[phenixblack]

I am all for the last part It's wonderful that your guy wants to do that to you ~ more men should! It's the best way to start and end a night ;) and ya they need to be trimmed at least I don't suggest snipping away =)

[msjay]

u should considere shaving is easier for a guy,cause if you have a bush down there usually guys don't like that because of hair going in their mouth

[darlanoy0510]

Why don't you shave it first and if you still don't like it then you can start waxing. Just enjoy it.

[tom-tom-traveler]

My wife had never had anyone do oral sex on her until she met me. All I did was ask her to trust me and a very short time later she was a definite fan of the practice. :)

You have to be willing to trust your partner in order for oral sex to work. If he says he likes it the way it is, then throw caution to the wind and let him at it. As long as he's not being rough and you're enjoying the sensation, that is...

Do you ever climax when he does go down on you? My wife had never had an "O" until the first time I went down on her, and afterward she would always encourage me to explore and have fun. Oh, that reminds me... Don't be afraid to guide him. Tell him what feels good and what doesn't i.e. A firmer touch, or a lighter one. Touch this area more (or less). It's supposed to be a fun experience, so make the most of it.

[KERMlT]

Cunnilingus is not a fetish. A fetish is something that is out of the ordinary like wanting to have sex while wearing pantyhose.

Trim up the area a day or so prior to him coming over. Just before he gets there, run a comb or lightly pull on the hairs. This will allow him to continue without stopping due to a hair in his mouth. Then take a shower either before he gets there or while he is there. When you are fresh out of the shower, tell him that dessert is served (preferably while you are still nude or just wearing a towel/robe).

[CuriousEddie]

To be blunt, guys have been eating p**** for a long time before shaving become so popular... you spread the hair, spread the labia, and dive in. It isn't a barrier; public hair is *not* going to stop a horny guy from going down on you.

So no, I don't mind it at all.

[Repoman]

I for one think a little hair is nice, a tip would be use a smaller pair of scissors (like kiddy)cut and wait two or three days so it looks natural. You should just let him go down on you, just sit back an RELAX. Other than myself I don't any guys would ask if they could go down on a girl.

[taster]

I love going down on females and I don't care whether they are shaved or not. There would be problems if I were not allowed to and I have quit seeing a couple of girls over this. by the way, I like my females to smell and taste like females so, while 5-day old is not good, I don't like them fresh out of the shower either.

[John83]

Just trim using scissors so it's shorter all around. I don't mind eating out a girl who's natural, but trimmed is better than full bush. If he's already seen your bush, you probably don't need to do much as far as trimming since he's asking you to let him eat you out.

I think another reason a lot of girls worry about letting a guy eat them out is concern about how their p**** will taste or smell. As a guy who loves giving oral sex, I love the taste and smell and get really turned-on by both. Since it sounds like he really likes giving oral, I don't think you need to worry much about that either.

[mischiefmouth69]

Newsflash: eating out is not a "fetish" -- it's a very normal part of sex and nothing to be embarrassed about. Accordingly, you should groom enough that he won't be picking your pubes out of his mouth later, but anything more is up to you.

[larry69]

I love giving oral to a woman.

[Anonymous]

I don't know if he has seen your bush or not but if he has and he is the one asking to go down on you that means you don't need to worry about anything. I've never "gone down" but I do fantasize about doing it to women I like and it would be very disappointing if I had a sexual relationship with a woman and she denied both of us the pleasure of letting me lick her. I think you should just go for it and let him do it (a lot of guys like it) and if either of you doesn't like it then you don't have to do it again. If you're both mature it won't be a relationship ending event if one of you doesn't like it.