if virginity a big deal to you or just something that you can just get rid of
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It's not something I value at all and would happily lose.3
I was keeping it locked away in my pants but 1 night many moons ago I was drunk, wasn't paying attention and it escaped with the virginity of another young girl who was also drunk... we haven't seen them since... but me and the girl have seen each other so it's alright :)
To me my virginity wasn't a big deal for me for losing it, but I think everybody has to determine for them selves if it is. If you don't want to lose you're virginity to some guy in a fling, don't do it. The only thing I can say, don't overrate the first time, it's not that it's going to be the best night in your life and that it's going to be magical and stuff
nope. can't please a girl if you don't know what your doing. that's what I belive whether its true or not.
So many girls think they can be "born again" virgins or that anal sex doesn't really count as sex so that I really don't even trust a girl when she says she's a virgin now anyway.
sex ain't a big deal, get rid of it if you feel like you need or want to, don't thinks its going to be magical and spiritual the fist few times.
sex ain't a big deal, don't rush it if you don't want sex, there will be opportunities and plenty of time
Sure, the fairytale of falling in love and losing my virginity to another virgin sounds great.
But very few people are lucky enough to have that happen.
I do not see my virginity as something that is very valuable. I would be quite content, actually extremely happy to lose it any time soon. Sooner, rather than later.
I am keeping mine because I value it, when I have sex I want it to mean something to both me and my partner. This can't be achieved with multiple partners, if sex is something you have had with many people. It is going to lose the value that I want to have, nowadays this is next to impossible to find. Few people seem to care or want to save themselves for marriage and see a guy who is a virgin as a bad thing which is devestating to me considering I don't want sex with more than one person in my life and that will be my wife.
However, I noticed even girls who are virgins woud actually prefer the guy to have experience, a guy who is saving himself isn't a good thing anymore :( which does kind off make me want to reconsider it.
I always dreamed that my first time to be emotional and romantic, with someone who is also a virgin, someone who hasn't slept around and feels that I am that special person. I guess it was a stupid dream.
Realistically as I'm getting older the more I realize that it's not gonna happen for someone like me. People now days want casual sex not intimate emotional sex, making someone like me who hates hookups highly undesirable. By my age I realize that if a girls found me attractive or interesting I would have gotten at least one date but since I'm now 23 and have never even gotten a date it goes to show that I'm not desirable.
All my friends have had sex, few of them are getting married soon and most of them say I should just go to a prostitute and get it over with because most girls now days don't care and won't be a virgin till my age. So I'm looking lose it to a legalized prostitute either be this year or next year for my birthday present to myself depending if I manage to save up the money for it.
It's not how I dreamed my first time would be but it's what's most likely going to happen I'm having a hard time coming to grips that I am such an undesirable person that the only way that I can lose my virginity a prostitute if I paid them.
I'm not a virgin and I saw no reason to "keep" my virginity. Life is all about experiences, and sexual experiences are part of that.
I am going to keep my virginity until I am married. The reason is because I feel like if I had a bunch of sexual relationships, it would cheapen the one that I will have with my husband. What would be special about that relationship if it was just like every other one?
When I see people going through several different sex partners and having close relationships with them, it makes me sad. What would make their marriage any different than those relationships that failed?
I am sure many of the girls who have sex with these guys assume they will end up together. However, most of them don't. I want to know that I will end up with the guy I have sex with, so I am going to wait until I have ended up with him.
im not a virgin and I wouldn't change it. I didn't just throw away my virginity though, it was with a guy that meant something to me at the time, no regrets. now I'm with someone else and we have a great relationship, neither of us virgins going into the relationship but we can see it lasting a long time and it just wasn't something that mattered to either of us :)
I will have sex with someone I am in love with who is in love with me.
I gave it up to a guy I was dating on and off for about a year. We broke up soon after, permanently that time. I don't regret having sex, but I do wish I would've waited until it was with someone I was at least in a secure relationship with for my first time. Nothing wrong with one night stands, but for your first time I think it's important that you be with someone you love.
Big deal. I don't want to risk having babies before I can support them. I want to give it to the man I know I love and I know loves me. It's the biggest gift I have to offer. Ideally, I'll be losing my virginity on my wedding night to the love of my life and my best friend.
I am one and I'd love to find one! The realistic/ pessimistic side of me is just hoping for a guy without a arms length list of past partners or STD -_- I know when I do get married that I want to give him everything I humanly can and my virginity is def one that I want him to have.
I'm keeping mine until I'm married, it's defiantly not something I would just get rid of.
But there's more to a person than just their virginity though so I don't think it's that big of a deal if someone else is or not
I'm keeping my virginity because my religion calls for it, also, because I'm not at a point in my life that is stable enough to raise a child (I'm still in school, not financially backed for a kid).
My virginity means nothing to me.
Heck yes it's a big deal to me!
It's something that can never be replaced, so I value it dearly.
It's an act involving total intimacy... I want to be able to cherish that moment of release, and not regret it later.
You can't go buy it in a store later, so you might as well savor it while you can...
i can't just give it away to " someone ". your first time should be with someone you like , but what people forget is that the most important thing is to do it with someone you are sure cares about you. in my opinion it is very important .
im keeping it until I get married :)
i lost mine at 12 years old while on my period and it hurt like a mother f***er.
I've kept my virginity and I'm 18. I almost lost it to a guy I thought I was in love with though.. :/
I'm nearly 18 and a virgin. It's not exactly out of choice, I do want to lose it but not for the sake of it. I want it to be with someone special, not just any old guy.
Ive kept mine because I don't want to just throw it away to some random guy I want it to mean something too me I don't think its a huge deal but I think it nice to loose it to someone I love.
IM STILL A VIRGIN, and I don't do it because I think I want it to be magical like some comments say in here.
i do it for self respect and love for myself.
i don't know about all of these peole, but I have had sexual education!
and its completely stupid how people later compplain when they get pregnant or get STD!
ITS LIKE COMPLAINING BECAUSE YOUR DORITOS ARE HOT, WHEN IN THE PACKAGE SAYS THEY HAVE HOT IN THEM!
loosing your virginity is not cool, it only shows the world how little moral you have and how little you love yourself!
so for the confused virgin teenager out there that are being pressured into this:
LET THEM EXPRESS THEIR LACK OF EDUCATION AND COMMON SENSE! they will envy you ten years from now! BELIEVE ME!
i was keeping mine till I meet that special someone and I lost it a month a go to that special someome.
i'm waiting until the right guy
i am 16 and still a virgin..i've kept it even though some guys already offered...one of the reasons is because I want to find a good person to lose it to...well at least be in a good loving relationship then maybe I'll consider it but mostly what I'm looking for to not be pressured in that good loving relationship
Yes it's a big deal! I see it as a gift to my future husband. I just simply cannot see myself being naked around or sharing my body with a perfect stranger. It's disgusting how some people can be so dirty. I have to make sure the person is clean in and out. I have a beautiful body and you best believe my future husband will be one lucky bastard because I'll be his and only his. It's one of the few things we truly own upon birth, so it's very valuable.
Yes :)) So valuable to me that I have to lose it to someone valuable & worth it ;)
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