My boyfriend wants to take a shower with me? Why Please?

[Anonymous]

why? I'm not quite ready to have sex with him and its not like we did oral yet?so?whats the deal?why does my guy want a shower with me?hes obsessed:| sexual reasons?

[Anonymous]

Well, he wants to see you naked (if he hasn't already) and the whole experience is very sensual (slightly different than sexual but close). Seeing the water drip down your body. The hot steam. The sensations. The sounds. Watching you rub soap against your body...

I think you get the idea. Plus, it's very intimate, because taking a shower is normally something that's rather personal and you do it alone, and now you're doing it together.

Also, kissing in the shower is rather hot.

It doesn't have to be very sexual or lead to sex. It could just be a hands-off experience, you two taking a shower together...no more complicated than it sounds. But you should let him know beforehand what your expectations are, in case he's secretly hoping for something more sexual.

But either way, it will be a very intimate experience, so you have to decide if you're ready for that kind of intimacy in your relationship. It's not a sexual milestone like giving up your virginity, and you're comfortable being naked around him, there's no real loss in dignity. There is however no way this won't excite him and turn him on (and make him want to have sex with you more than he already does) unless he's completely gay, and I have no idea how it will make you feel...so, it's not completely innocent either. But it's not sex.

[l-hedoniste]

Because it's so much nicer to have someone else do your back for a change.

[rachiee]

Its a sensual thing to do with someone. You see each other naked. If you're not ready to have sex then definitely don't push yourself. Wait until you're ready. I highly suggest you don't take a shower with him either. If you aren't ready for sex then I'm sure you'll feel very uncomfortable being naked in the shower with him and he'll probably expect things to happen. I don't think he's obsessed, he's a guy and a human. He wants to have sex with you and there's nothing wrong with him wanting to do that especially since you guys are dating. But don't push yourself to do something you don't want to do. If he can't understand that no means no then he obviously doesn't care about you as much as you think.

[Anonymous]

FYI shower sex can be semi dangerous...I've done it before but usually when I shower with my guy we limit it to hand/oral stuff. I don't think him wanting to shower with you is his way to have sex with you...well maybe it is! But not in the shower...once you're done.

[beckamazara]

Don't worry about showering with a guy . It doesn't HAVE to lead to anything sexual. But it is a good way to get comfortable around each other.

And , It is very hot showering with a guy.

[rosekitten]

Hinting he wants to see the goods, and possibly get it on. He likes what you've got, and he's picturing what you have.

[MikeK]

Exactly. If you don't want to have sex, seeing you naked is the next best thing!

[Anonymous]

You kidding? A shower with a girl is awesome. Men are visual creatures. In a shower, with the lights on, he can see you completely naked. And since you are completely naked, there is more of a chance you will be turned on and willing to fool around.