Can't say I've ever done that... gotten off from someone I just met or saw at the store. I know that's more typical of a guy to do... I don't necessarily have to "know" them as in intimately or like friends or anything, but I do have to be more familiar with them than just a one time sight.
Then again, I also watch p*rn so I guess that blows that theory out because you can't even see the guys' faces in those half the time and when you do, they're ugly as sin! Unless I watch gay p*rn, which I do, if I need pretty faces. ;)
Oddly enough I don't get off thinking about the bf... (like that other person who answered.) Not because he's not cute but I guess because I already have him... does that make sense? I mean when we're intimate I don't think of someone else, I just focus on him, but when I'm by myself, it's usually someone else. Assuming I think of anyone at all. Often I focus on the feeling vs. a fantasy line.
For example, in the shower. Can't watch p*rn in there, so I just focus on the feeling...ie getting turned on and getting to the edge and then over. I don't think OMG so and so is f(cking me... I don't really think that way. However, a cute guy can get me to start thinking about a shower, but once I'm there, he's gone... does that make sense?
Yeah, it makes sense. Still, I find it funny, because as a guy, I've tried to get off by NOT thinking about anyone, and it makes the entire process much more difficult and drawn-out. lol I wonder if that's a typical difference between men and women? If so, that is pretty interesting, then! It sure would explain why men often have visual aids to get them off, while women rely more on physical aids (aka, vibrators, etc). Maybe guys are actually focusing more on their partner than girls are?
well, I'm half and half... I like p*rn, whereas a lot of women don't. I do get more turned on with p*rn than by myself, but when I'm actually doing it, I don't really "need" the p*rn, if that makes sense. A lot of women need story lines, I'm told. Guys just need a picture/a face/boobs/whatever. There is no story, I'm told. Sometimes there is, sometimes there isn't but it's not essential. For me, no story is good. But I'm odd, I'm told.
Don't think about people I know, that's kinda creepy to me...Also not my boyfriend, I think it's weird, I just wouldn't be comfortable, kinda like I'm violating him or something (although he'd probably love it) I suppose if I think of people it would be a celebrity (or plural) that I think is hot. generally though just my imagination
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think about a lot of different guys =S Never celebs though because well they just don't do it for me for some reason. Of course I have a favorite guy that I think about (my crush) but I'd be lying if I said he was the only one I fantasized about.
Both.
When taken: almost always about him.
Now single: The foreplay and sex between a guy and I that I know, the delicious nearly naked woman I wanted to let my mouth dance across at the beach the other day, what it'd be like to get her alone, how a striptease and lapdance would go down between him and I, before we had sex (ouh that tension!), What it would be like to let a different, specific man see me barely dressed, to feel him eyefucking me and not being able to stop himself for a good minute or two. Letting a gorgeous woman give me a striptease, then having her give me a lapdance and having it get hotter from there. She would let me react, and some of the hottest sex would occur.
No, I masturbate always about guys I find hot, if I know them well or not, it doesn't matter. I will do it anyway. I know it is not a smart move, because most of the time, I will get pretty embarrassed when seeing someone I know in RL. But somehow, I can't stop, haha.
I don't actually think about people I know at all. Unless I'm dating the person, it makes me feel creepy to think about people I know while masturbating. I mostly get off on the sexual acts themselves, rather than the people doing them.
Actually, that's a far healthier way to be, in my opinion. I think we guys are all in a very unhealthy habit of lusting after people, whether we know them well or not. :( It's a hard habit to break, once you've developed it.
no, for me its always my boyfriend. looks alone don't get me going. its the emotional bond I have with my partner that makes me want him so so much all the time. a stranger does nothing for my arousal
Very commendable! :) I'd like to be more like that.
highly possible that I'd think of that HOT guy I'd met in the club the other night ;)
Oh, good! For a while there, I thought only guys were guilty of that. lol
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