How do I give a handjob to my circumcised boyfriend? D:

it's horrible! he gets hard, and when I start giving him a handjob he gets soft :'( I don't know what I'm doing wrong.. all my other boyfriends were non-circumcised...
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Don't give him hj, give him amazing bj: First, get your mind straight. Just because it’s called a “blow job” doesn’t mean you should view it as a job. He can see it on your face if you don’t enjoy sucking on his “friend” – and that’s NOT the attitude you want to convey. You have to love his cock.

    It’s all about preparation. Make every blowjob one of a kind, unique, memorable. How do you prepare? Candles, good lights, music, some wine, fix up the atmosphere, spice it up. Look good. Make it special.

    Throw him in the couch. Seductively, naughtily, with a sexy smile on your face. Look at him with fascination. You slowly get on your knees in front of him, unzip and take his pants off. Make a happy, surprised look – as if you just saw your favorite ice cream, and you are starving to death.

    Men are visual. Pull your hair back, so that he can see you completely and enjoy the view. Massage his legs seductively, get closer to his cock. Before it grows large, put the entire thing in your warm, wet mouth – moan with pleasure. Slowly suck on his **** as it grows large in your dripping wet mouth.

    A few “aaahs” and “mmms” are essential. There’s nothing better than the magic words when giving a blow job. No BJ is perfect without the right words entering his ear. Compliment him, tell him how much you love His **** in your mouth. Use your hands. Combine fast and slow strokes. Be his p*rn star, not a nun.

    When you get tired, rest your mouth, stroke him. Be his “slut”, be dirty, sexual – free. Do whatever you want to do. He won’t think you’re a slut if you swallow, on the contrary – he’ll love you for it. So get dirty and slut it up.

    Speed it up as you come to the finish. Involve his balls in the game. A perfect blowjob isn’t just with your mouth. Use your whole body. Let him see your sexy ass, thongs, a sexy necklace. The way to turn him on is by being turned on by yourself. You have to feel sexy in your body. It’s all about positioning.

    Tickle his balls, lick them and suck on them gently. Use your sexy nails to drive him wild. Hold his shaft, lick it up and down sexily while looking him deep in the eyes.

    Now you start pumping his **** faster. Fast, and short strokes. Pump, pump and pump some more. Moan louder, suck harder, stroke faster. And then – he starts shooting, and screaming, and popping his eyes out of his brain. Pull his **** out and pump it out gently. Open your mouth, show him what he gave you. Giggle. Then swallow all of it. Smile happily, give his **** a few more kisses and sucks – clean it up. ;) Of course – you can always get even better. I recommend you read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons, probably the best book ever written about satisfying your guy sexually, by clicking on the link

    • thats so f***ing hot! ;)

    • f***in pro right here..lol damn

Most Helpful Guys

  • "All my other", at age under 24. Hmmm. But I digress.

    Your problem is irritation from dryness.

    Bring your own supply of discount store "cocoa butter" that you have "decanted" into a sample-size (as in TSA-approved) shampoo bottle and a dry face cloth. When the time comes, lube your hand and his package up liberally, c0ck, sack, taint. Everywhere. And go to work.

    Cocoa butter:

    Has a mild fragrance not perfume-y.

    Stays wet and doesn't "pill".

    Mixes with his fluids which helps in clean-up.

    Seems to enhance sensation rather than blunting it like silicones do.

    When he is soaking wet with cocoa butter, you can be a vigorous as you want and squeeze harder than you need to without irritation. Don't unzip him without it.

  • Depends on how much skin was removed. The head and the skin from the scar to the head are the most sensitive. If he has a lot left, move that over the head, similar, but not as roughly, as you would an uncut guy. If he had a lot cut off, go with the lube advice, it should work well.

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  • same way

  • it feels good being uncut

  • Lube... hand cream.

    • i asked if I should lick my hand to get some saliva on it... he said no o_o