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Boyfriend says he has a small penis?

I've been with my boyfriend for about 9 months. I've had two relationships (he is my second) the first one was very serious and long but we didn't have sex. I'm now 22 and I've been having sex with my boyfriend for about 8 months of our relationship and I honestly think it's great. He ALWAYS makes sure I finish and finish first and he pays so much attention to me in the bedroom to make sure that I'm satisfied. He does have about a 4 inch penis. Now this doesn't really bother me. I know it's below average or a little on the small side but I don't have a ton to compare it to. Bottom line is he pleases me 100% and I finish every single time. He however doesn't really complain about his penis size but he will say occasionally that it is small and not good enough. He did have an ex that cheated on him and said his penis was "small and weird" so maybe this is where it's coming from. I always tell him that it doesn't matter to me, you always make me feel good and it satisfies me just fine etc...How can I make him believe me or how can I help to alleviate some of his insecurities about his size? It really has no effect on our sex life. It's absolutely amazing for both of us. We have it about 8/9 times a week.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I have apparently a slightly above average penis size and I feel insecure about it sometimes (I blame p*rn) even if I am giving a girl multiple orgasms. On the plus side the insecurity lead to me (like him) to actually learn about sex and learn how to read and please my partner.

    But still every once and a while in the back of my head I question if I knew what I know AND had a bigger penis would I be better in bed? So strange...

    The bottom line is there isn't a whole lot you can do to help with this. You could tell him when he doesn't bring it up that you think it is amazing how good he is in bed. Because if he is insecure about it he has read a million times on the internet it isn't the size it's how you use it.

  • There is nothing you can do about this because this is the result of watching p*rn where they show really big penises and the girls always go "ooh" "aah" about the size. Boys grow up thinking that women really want big ones.

    When he says anything about his size, just tell him that you don't know how others are since you don't have much experience and he satisfies you and you can not imagine why anyone would want anything bigger.

Most Helpful Girl

  • just tell him that it really dosen't bother u! and also tell him you haven't had a better lover than him.. he will love that

    • She has only had sex with him... nothing to compare with.

    • my point! so she should tell him that he is her best.. doesn't matter about if she hasn't had any before him

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  • Tell him that his penis is the perfect size for you, like it was made for your vagina and that you think it won't be as good if it was any other size

  • You should just moan more in bed. Act like your loving it, you obviously do love it but make sure to show it.

    • Trust me he knows I like it. I moan like a little slut.

  • Yes far to many men are insecure about this... P*enis size related questions are some of the most asked on this site. Many men don't realize that there are many ways to please a woman and make her happy and satisfied. No matter what you say it won't totally alleviate his fears because for the most part it seems men don't learn from women's answers on this site that it doesn't matter that much.

  • Looks like his ex did a real number on him. It can take a long time to get over something like that. And even then it might come up every once in a while.

    Just keep it positive like you have done. The longer you are together in a good relationship, the more he will realise that he is fine.

  • Unfortunately all you can do is keep telling him how good he makes you feel.

  • There is no fixing this. I know, because I suffer from it. It's God's terrible joke on men. No other species on the planet has the range of variances in penis size, only human males. I can't think of anything more tragic as a man, once you realize it's small.

  • surprise him. When he's not expecting it go down on him. Look into his eyes as he cums in your mouth. Show him his cum on your tongue and swallow it.
    Then tell him "you think a girl who does this for you is going to cheat on you? You give me pleasure in bed I don't need anyone else"

  • you really can't do much. he's got it in his head that it's a problem. just like anorexic girls think they are fat. no one can convince them otherwise

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