Why does my boyfriend like looking at my face during sex?

He always looks at my face and runs his fingers through my hair and pushes it off my face. He makes eye contact all the time. We mostly are in the missionary position or me on top of him but we are always face to face. What could this mean? We both smile sometimes and sometimes he pulls me down to kiss him. Why does he do this?


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  • lol He REALLY likes you and likes to see how he affects you during sex. He loves your hair and maybe he thinks it looks sexy when you have your hair in your face during sex. My boyfriend is the exact same. He loves to look at my face while we're having sex and he says it is because he loves the faces I make during sex and just makes him want to perform better and better.

    It's the same with my moans/screams; he simply likes to know how much he turns me on. And I'm sure it's the same for you and your boyfriend. Just ask him. But ask him in a nice way, complimenting him on it and what not. I was kind of "teasing" my boyfriend when I asked him and he gladly told me.



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What Guys Said 2

  • This is exactly what you want. Your Boyfriend is making a real connection with you, and cares about you.

    I don't know what you expected, but, say, if you're using p*rn as your standards, keep in mind that those people are PERFORMING, and that in most cases they only met 5 minutes before their scene. It isn't like real life.

    Now, it's perfectly okay if you aren't staring into each others eyes every second you have sex, but doing so whenever it is convenient is both normal and desirable.

  • For me the best part of sex is seeing my partner enjoy it and the best way of doing that is by looking at her face. I am turned on by her facial expressions and like to see how I influence her pleasure. He probably does the same and wants to see you and show that he also cares about you and not just your body and/or only certain part and therefore the face and hair touching too.


What Girls Said 1

  • Wild guess here.. He likes it!

    He wants to know what kind of effect he has on you.. and what better way to know than to look at your face?