Why does he close his eyes when I look at him while giving him a bj?

[Anonymous]

I got intimate with my new friend for the first time last night. I surprised him with a bj and I know he was enjoying it. Without bragging: I know I'm good at doing it, because I enjoy the crap out of giving a bj, it's a major turn on for me. And I'm used to men looking at me while doing it. He did watch me but every time I looked up at him while at it, he'd close his eyes. I know he finds me attractive and he does look at me a lot and holds my look at any other given time. I'm trying to understand why he stops watching me when I look at him. ...mmmh... It doesn't give me sleepless nights, but I'm curious. :-)

[islands7]

Personally, the eyes to eyes method is a turn on from a guy's perspective. This can affect him in real world, real time ways or even in fantasy ways, e.g. I am controlling you to do this, etc. role play.

Sometimes when it's really good, the guy feels like he's leaving the real world behind and closing his eyes allows him to slip more easily into fantasyland and feel your magic more intensely - a swoon, if you can imagine.

If you want bragging rights, someday he'll say - I can feel my teeth tingle! That's as good as it gets.

[Asker]

LOL - teeth tingle huh? I'll remember that!

[Lupianwolf]

Some guys get shy if you look at them during oral just as females do, maybe your just really good at giving head he just closes his eyes because of how intense it is, I know I sometimes do

[Loveatfirstsite]

I love it when my boyfriend looks at me when I give him head. He used to keep his eyes closed until I asked why and he said it's just something he does without realizing it. Now that we talked about it he looks at me more :)

[Asker]

Thanks, it's not that he didn't look, he just wouldn't me in the eyes when I looked at him. But I think after talking last night that won't be an issue anymore! ;-)

[Loveatfirstsite]

Aww that's good. My boyfriend would sometimes open his eyes but still not look me in my eyes. He said it's something he does in pure ecstasy lol but it's so much hotter when we keep our eyes locked- I lobe it and he does now too. Have fun!

[IdLikeToBuyAClue]

Let him know it turns you on to have him look at you while you are "busy". See what happens.

[Asker]

I was planning on doing that - thank you and everyone else! :-)

[Coopherst91]

He could be closing his eyes because it feels so good some guys just have different reactions to pleasure.

[xperience]

he probably just nervous lol. seeing such an amazing girl giving him head lol.

and wow your #1 in my book for sure.

[biffyprime]

Don't complain, I want to look at my wife doing it, but she makes me put a pillow over my face. She is pretty self conscience and hates it if I watch her.

[Asker]

LOL - so you have the opposite problem I do. Btw: I'm not complaining, just being curious. :-)

[c7777]

he was just in ectasy don't worry he was probably just thinking he hit a jackpot

[Anonymous]

best answer?

[Asker]

I like and appreciate all answers I've gotten, can't really pinpoint it. :-)