Virginity is a physical and a psychological state.
Loss of virginity requires penetrative sexual intercourse. Dry humping in street clothes doesn't qualify, but grinding in thin underwear can result in fairly deep penetration and, since cloth is quite porous, pregnancy as well.
If you are vowing to remain a virgin until marriage, which is certainly a worthy pursuit, better you avoid simulating intercourse and develop your intimacy with mutual oral sex.
he wasn't wearing any clothes because I already gave him the BJ that time, but I'm still fully clothed so it's just my underwear that is between us. I don't want to receive any oral sex from him because I'm afraid that once I do, I would continue to do it and might eventually lead up to intercourse.
i consider giving a blow job losing your virginity a d*** went in your body so no longer a virgin
how come?
Yeah you're definitely not innocent, even if your hymen is still intact
i told you a penis was inserted into your body so I no longer consider you a virgin you never had vaginal sex but you did have a penis in your body
Your still a virgin physically though if you look at from a religions point of view a virgin is someone who never done anything sexually ...So it depends what side your looking at it from.
It's possible that he broke your hymen, but you could as well have broke it doing sport, or you might even been born without one.
by definetion, you are still a virign though.
thanks :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Not even close. Don't worry ha ha if there wasn't a good bit of penetration you are still holding on to your virginity.
he's d*** was rock hard and it's just my underwear that's between us because he is naked already. so I can feel a little bit of his.. on my..
I understand but just because a.. got close to your.. doesn't mean it went in. In most peoples mind losing virginity is synonymous with breaking your hymen or going past where the hymen should be if it broke during other activities (flexibility can do it, but you can google that yourself.). If you are so worried about your virginity I would suggest no more "sexual" activities with clothes off. My opinion and what should be most peoples, is you still have your virginity intact.
i know that I've already broken my hymen because of the activities that I do, I rode a bike and a horse already which I think could easily break my hymen. Thank you so much for you opinion, I just wanted to hear about a guy's view about this :)
In order to be a virgin you must have been penetrated. If you get penetrated, you and he will both know. It wouldn't be a question.
You are still a virgin. Don't listen to the people telling you otherwise.
she was penetrated
Tell me where in her question or any responses you have seen does it say she was penetrated. Do you even know what dry humping is?
No he didn't break your virginity.
I agree with "dudeman" and "lovemntwins".Virginity is the purity and chastity of body and mind,and according to me,u are in no way a virgin.
So you can give all the BJs you want and still call yourself a virgin? how deceiving is that?.
youre not virgin because you did a bj already!
virgin= person who never ever did anything sexual with another person.
Alright you aren't that bright either. You too should look up the definition of a virgin and reconsider your post
i think whatever I want. my definition of a virgin person is exacly what I said... for me, she isn't a virgin! if a slut never got penetred but she did bjs for a lot of guys, is she a virgin? NOP she's not!
as I've said, everyone is entitiled to his/her opinion so there's nothing I can do about it. that's how you think and I respect that. Thanks
lol how old are you?
and yea I guess you are still a virgin but seems like you're pretty immature and more wrapped up on labels that the significance of those labels
23
of course not
my definition of a female virgin: a girl who's never had a penis in her vagina
you're still a virgin
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