Why guys love to give oral sex?

[Anonymous]

hello guys :) so I'm wondering why guys always offering oral sex to me, I mean, even just for one night stand.? I didn't really enjoy though, there was only 1 guy made me feel good so far. And even more odd, some of the guys don't even want me to to offer blowjob in return (like "no thanks/you don't have to/maybe later" ) My male friends told me that they don't go down on girls for ONS, and they do oral for girls because they want to offer pleasure and of course want blowjob as return! so I kind of confusing! I'm a Asian living in Sweden, I m very insecure Because some of the guys look at me down there with a surprise look. I don't think I look any differently Because I saw naked woman in gym shower / sauna etc. PS. I'm always shaved, everything.

[Anonymous]

I think oral sex has a bad image in some parts of Asia, particularly South Asia.

Incidentally, I take pride in giving my partner oral-sex (it makes ME feel manly, when I pleasure her). But I would definitely not do it in a one-night-stand. Why risk all the infections?

I'd love receiving oral sex; anytime, anywhere. Even in one night stands. (Of course the last comment shows the selfishness in me, and I should be apply common standards to receiving and giving!)

[Asker]

but you can also get std from receiving blowjob in one night stand, ?

[Opinion Owner]

You're right. And this is complex to explain... I love the idea of receiving oral sex. Anywhere. (Including, theoretically, in one-night stands.) But I don't like one-night stands, and don't (probably won't) indulge in them.

[Quadrophonic84]

I've heard similar things from other Asian girls. Some guys, especially white guys, have a very strong attraction to Asian girls, and for me personally when I feel very strongly for a woman physically, I really do want to perform oral on her. With a couple of my girlfriends I craved it actually.

Just as you don't like having it performed on you, some guys don't like it performed on them. Everyone's different.

[peace-love-couture]

If you're in Sweden, you're probably considered exotic. If you're healthy, clean and shaved(as you said) then their surprised looks are not a look of negativity but merely surprised by the difference.

In most countries, especially outside the US, oral sex, in particular going down on girls is considered a normal part of a healthy sex life. Perhaps those guys want to please you or have a fetish for oral sex.

[Anonymous]

It's an ego thing. Guys like pleasing a woman because it makes them feel studly and like they can score with anyone they'd ever want.

[Belgie]

Most guys I know, love to give head. They love making their woman squirm. It's not entirely about swapping it for blowjobs either. That's just a bonus, to be able to make it quid-pro-quo.

It could be that, as an Asian girl in Sweden, you are considered particularly exotic.

[zacattack]

i like to know that I'm really doing a good job providing her pleasure, making a girl go nuts cause your eating p**** well is its own reward. I will go down on a girl for a ONS, getting an infection is very low with oral supposedly. but she would have to have a good p**** and/or be attractive.

i am not nesicarly expecting a BJ in return, but I think if a guy is willing to go down on a girl that the girl should pleasure the guy too.

[cyrus7]

I dunno, I would never go down on a girl for a ONS... too risky with infections and all, no thanks lol

[Asker]

yeah that's wise! I shouldn't have let them perform oral sex on me without knowing if they are clean and healthy.

[Louwearsthongs]

I believe oral sex is a very sensual part of the whole act. I don't offer that to anybody I offer it to somebody I like being with or careful. It's an intimate part of a relationship. It also shows how you feel about that person

[Anonymous]

You probably have a pretty pussy. Not all p**** is created equally.