Confused feelings after threesome?

My friend and her boyfriend invited me to a threesome a few weeks ago, and it went really well, it was beautiful, but now I feel confused. I want to do it again but I'm scared they're over the fantasy! What should I do?
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i want to know from the way they act, I'm too scared to ask!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You participated in a threesome but now you're scared to talk about it? Obviously your friends are open-minded, otherwise they wouldn't have approached you to be part of their threesome. Obviously, they trust you, otherwise they wouldn't have approached you to be part of their threesome. Obviously one or both of them finds you attractive, otherwise...you see where this is going?

    You don't have to come right out and say "So, hey, when's the next threesome?" But you can bring it up in a subtle way and see if they're into it again, if that's what you really want. You also want to make sure that you don't push too hard and ruin the friendship though. Just bring it up slowly and let them know that you'd be into it again - don't be scared to go for something that you want. They might be just as scared as you are to ask again, espescially if you haven't talked about it. They might think you were weirded out by it and that's why you clammed up. Just communicate with them - tell them you enjoyed being with them. You can't read someone's mind, so if you wait to find out from the way they act, you'll be waiting a long long time. Talk about it.

  • Just put it out there: "That night was reeeaaaly nice. If you guys want to call me again, then that's cool. REALLY, THAT'S COOL."

    Give them a chance to get the hint if they want, or not get the hint if they don't want.

    • lol, I think they'd get the hint with that, I might be a little more subtle! but thanks

Most Helpful Girl

  • Just wait and see if they approach you again, they're a couple remember they may be over it now.

    • i know they may be over it by now, that's what scares me. I think I might wait.

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  • hey don't need to wait

    its better you approach your friend and have a small chat on the threesome either directly or indirectly if you are much embrassed

    if you really embrasse to ask even then you gonna miss the chance

    so dare to ask not to worry

    this is not a sin okkkkk

  • kinda hint that you liked it and see what they say

  • Just ask your friend again, she will tell you if they are over it or not

    • can't put it better than that

    • im too embarrassed, if I say I want to do it again and she says they're over it, then ill feel embarrassed each time I see them

    • just ask girl, there's nothing to be embarrassed about. your friend had the guts to invite you in the first place, all you need to do is ask her this time. I doubt she will say no but even if she does there's nothing to feel embarrassed about... trust me

  • It was stupid that you agreed in the first place. Why not just find your own man?

    • because that's not what a threesome is..

    • what is it?

  • I'm a virgin and I have a chode... ='(