How would you react if your husband gave you a vibrator?

[Anonymous]

How would you react to receiving a vibrator as a gift from a boyfriend or husband? What would you say? Would you make use of it? Do you take it as a sign of openness or a sign of lack of interest?

[tammymac]

As for how I would react, well I'd be fine with it, and interested in exploring if my guy brought me home something. I'd tell him how I'd like us to use it. I guess I'm lucky that way, the guy I'm with now likes my toy collection, but not all guys are as open as he is.

If you are interested in buying one for your wife, don't just spring it on her. Here baby I got you a little something ;) That would be taken as I don't want to be bothered to F!%k you, so here you go, do it yourself.

I'd suggest breaking the ice first, feeling it out a bit as to how she would react. Then maybe suggest going together (that can be fun) and picking the toy out, as a rule guys think a woman will want the biggest thickest thing on the shelf, but this is not true. I'd be more inclined to think that your woman (if she was picking it out for herself) would pick something of a more moderate size.

Remember this toy is in no way a substitute for you or your manhood. Its just a way for you both to enjoy each other a little more. Done this way, it could only be interpreted as you wanting to be open and explore your sex life with your partner, unless she's a real prude. Take yourself on down to the local sex store and go ahead have some fun, and a little adventure. Get some massage oil and anything else that interests you and make a full evening of it.

[ladygator81]

I'm not married, and I can't imagine what my sex life would be like with my husband. My reaction would be very dependent on what our sex life is like. I had a friend whose boyfriend purchased a sex swing, and she seemed cool/ excited about it, but then again, they experimented like that. I would take it as a sign of openness, but I don't see my husband and me playing like that. I really wouldn't know what to say to be honest.

[Jenni-von-Block]

I would be totally cool with it. I'd be like: bring it on. Why not? I think sex toys are viewed as things women use alone, but in reality they are a tool a couple can use to explore each others fantasies and limits.

[roten27]

Without knowing your Husband it's kinda hard to answer this but I know that If I were to give something like that to a girlfriend or wife of mine that I was being intimate with I would be giving it to her for her to use when I am not around and for US to play with when we are together and looking for some play time together.