Have you noticed that men receive oral sex standing more often than women?

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Have you noticed that men receive oral sex standing more often than women?I mean most men lick their girls while in bed...Why is that?

selfishstars · Accepted Answer

MrOracle pretty much said it---it's difficult to give/receive cunnilingus when the girl is standing because her genitals are between her legs, whereas a guy's genitals stick out to the front.

I'd also add that, while I can't speak for other girls, I find it hard to receive oral sex while standing because my knees generally get weak, and I also tense up my legs a lot when I'm going to orgasm, which is harder to do when standing (which means its harder for me to orgasm while standing).

smilesgirl · Accepted Answer

Well, besides the technical reasons already mentioned, I think it goes back to the belief (either in the past or present depending on what you believe) that the woman(wife) is to be submissive to the man(husband).  Although for the most part (American)society is getting away from this idea, it is still a turn on to many men(& women).  It seems to be physically embodied in sexual acts such as a man standing while "his woman" kneels down before him to please him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I believe the sensations in the balls are better when he is standing so a guy standing and receiving oral is enjoyable.

Personally, I know if I were to receive oral standing I'd collapse because my legs turn to jelly (he hits all the right spots).

But that's just me :)

goforthegusto · Accepted Answer

I agree with much of what has been said. Once, I was giving a girl oral spontaneously when she got out of the shower and she almost fell over from knee-buckling, so we didn't do that again! The only other thing that I would add is that there is something sexy about standing while receiving oral from a girl. Not necessarily a macho thing, but there is something akin to that going on. I also think that it delays climax, so sometimes that's appealing as well.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Logistics.  Guys genitals stick out to the front when they are erect, making it easy to access them when he's standing.  Vaginas are more between the legs, so in order to have full access, the girl has to spread her legs or be bending over, neither of which are very easy when she's standing up.

38rakia38 · Answer

Not mine, we 69.

johnbits · Answer

I don't like getting oral sex while standing, it takes away from the feelings.  I would rather be in bed either on my side or on top of her or her on top of me, 69 for a quick change.   As to giving her oral sex, I have to give it a try with her standing, but I suspect that she won't like it.  She likes to lose control and if she is standing then that is a problem.

karenk93 · Answer

i can't recieve oral sex while standing up because as I feel my organism building my legs tremble and go weak so I slip and lose my climax

Littletad · Answer

You saying that giving oral sex to a woman while she's standing is better? How so?

serena7 · Answer

tried stand up once, it didn't work, my knees got weak, I nearly fell lol

dont_ask_me · Answer

It is VERY hard to eat out a woman when she is standing. It is too hard to get at the vagina. when she is laying down you can spread those legs wide to get at that beautiful p ussy.

unfortunately my wife blows me when I am laying in bed but I wished she did while I was standing. It is a super turn on when a woman is on her knees sucking your c ock.

John83 · Answer

What everyone else said about difficulty getting to the vagina while a woman is standing up is the main reason.  It is possible if she's standing with her legs spread a little apart with the guy kneeling in front of her.   I did this with my girlfriend once but her legs got weak when she started getting closer to orgasm, so she had to lay down to keep from falling over.  Since then, she hasn't wanted to receive oral standing up again.

7gnat · Answer

I walked in my x gfs store. locked the door, and grabbed her. I pushed her into the bathroom and told her to not talk. I pulled off her pants and thongs and pushed them to her ankles. mmmm she was so wet so quick but she didn't seem like she was used to or comfortable standing. at first she said that I was wasting my time and she wasn't going to come. lol I said OK quiet now- we will see. 3 minutes later she came in my mouth. I don't know why it is not done that way a lot but I love it. If I am into a girl I will get on my knees to please her anyday. hell I will do it while she is driving lol

Tanisha69 · Answer

haha most of these chicks are wimps. I love standing while he eats me. yea my legs get weak but I can control that, I have had practice and I know how to stay standing all the way through a fantastic orgasm!

trinityW · Answer

I don’t like receiving oral while standing because I’ll get weak in my knees by all of the pleasure and i might fall lol.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know about most women, but my girlfriend finds it very hard to come while standing.  I like to have sex with her standing at times, but she won't be able to come unless I lay her down, or she's at least mostly supported by a table or a couch or some other surface.  So she's never really wanted oral while standing.

Anonymous · Answer

gravity assists blood flow? guys don't want to get down on their knees? in my experience, I haven't yet given a guy a bj while he was standing up.

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