Want to know why girls are obsessed with penis size?

[_Karma]

Because guys are so obsessed with it! Honestly, if every guy wasn't so obsessed with comparing size to other guys, trying to figure out what's average, what's too small, etc. then most women wouldn't even think about it. Here are the two sizes women actually notice: tiny/microscopic and giant/massive. All the others are grouped in the same category. I understand that it's a cause of a lot of self-consciousness, but for no reason - guys put way too much emphasis on size. If a woman is already in bed with you, at that point, she just wants you - the last thought on her mind is your size, in inches. Only reason why some women seem to care about size is because we see guys obsessing about it. So we think, "Wow, they're putting a lot of emphasis on this - there must be something to it." That, and also that guys who are "well-endowed" tend to come off as more confident (I'm generalizing) - if a smaller-than-average guy has that the same amount of confidence, we would be more than happy to end up with him. I think I speak for women everywhere when I say, be confident about your cock, and instead of obsessing about your size, work on your personality! Girls fall in love with a guy's personality first, they don't fall in love with his d***.

[SocietysBomb]

We all have insecurities. It just happens the majority of guys are very insecure about their penis, just like the majority of girls are insecure of their weight. I agree with some of the things you said but there are superficial women out there that only want money and a big d*** (I've met some of them lol) so I see where a lot of guys get the idea that ALL girls care about a guys size, they just have to remember its all about perspective and just how not all men are the same not all women are the same. There are women out there who don't care about a guys size.

[Lilyloo]

i don't care about penis size, what so ever.

I think it'd be cruel If you found a guy,

Fell in love but then saw his penis , thought it was too small and dumped him,

Caring about penis size is just as ridiculous as caring about cup size.

It just makes you a shallow person.

A males penis doesn't determine what kind of guys he is.

A females breast size doesn't determine what kind of girl she is.

It doesn't make a difference. Penis' are for reproducing. Breasts are for the child to drink from.

[Elisha22]

I love how guys are the ones saying how much it matters to us! It matters WAY more to you guys than it does to girls. I'm not trying to not sound shallow because I know I truly don't care. Most of the time if you can please a girl she won't care either. But if you are constantly insecure about it then she will get highly annoyed at the whole subject.

[Camilus]

"Here are the two sizes women actually notice: tiny/microscopic and giant/massive. All the others are grouped in the same category."

Oh, so now you're saying that us average guys are "forgettable," huh?

[_Karma]

;)

[davet1244]

she has no response for it because you are right

[_Karma]

I had no response for it because it's a joke. Damn it, why is everyone so serious? We're talking about penises, not world hunger.

[Elisha22]

Hahaha!

[Swampwater]

lol pwnt

[sa230e]

There's nothing more unattractive to a woman than the man who wallows in self-pity.

[_Karma]

Indeed.

[Twilight_Starstorm]

Like shy-girl123 said, AMEN! :D

[HotPepper302]

A THOUSAND TIMES YES! Thank you! Haha. I completely agree.

[Channeleddan]

You make a lot of good points. Makes sense to me. It's not really a question, so there's nothing for me to answer... but I agree with what you're saying.

Thanks for sharing!

[ysheila81]

Well put girl !

[DonMichelle]

Whether your big, small, average or have a d*** that glows in the dark it's what you've been given and you need to accept it.

Lads are forever complaining about whether it's big enough, will she mind. What about the 'less attractive' lads who have 'trouser serpents' but can't get a girl to use it on... it's life!

[Barrybaby]

I think you are so right. There is far too much emphasis placed upon penis size. I would want a girl that falls in love with me for who I am on the inside.

[Billlewis]

I am absolutely obsessed with my little piglet penis, because I always want to know it's the smallest one you've ever seen:)

[AriaX]

it feels better when your stuffed with big **** but if they don't no how to use it there no point!

[shy-girl123]

AMEN

[goterec]

Ok karma I have been ask by girls how big I am. Iv been told that's just right and iv also been told to small .So please don't speak for other woman ! It seems size does matter to some woman . Why does cup size matter to a woman if your in a A cup your sad if you a D cup your happy . do woman odsess about cup size ?

[_Karma]

Girls who ask how big you are? They're whores (excuse my french) - no half-decent girl would ever straight up ask a guy about his size. Cup size is not that much of a deal, it's more the shape of the boobs/firmness that matter.

[goterec]

ok thank for clearing that up

[DonMichelle]

And whores take d*** regardless of how big it is, whether they like it or not. If they make a comment... what do you care, you've got it wet and can happily leave the scene with your small/average/who gives a f*** penis being pleased in the knowledge it's just been dipped in a tart

[DanHendo]

Don't see every guy because I am not included. I am 100% satisfied with what I have and so is my lady ;-)

[DanHendo]

I hate his phone I swear man. *say

[DanHendo]

Its done it again. This*

[dragonkong1975]

its not the size of it. its how you use it

[Pontus58]

My friends were the ones making all the fuzz about my dange dong

[KK_Michelle]

I'll be completely honest: a big, thick dick--veins and everything--is the sexiest thing in the world. And if you haven't fucked one, you're missing out. Ijs..

[Anonymous]

So true!

[Anonymous]

I swear that guy is everywhere .. "girls are liars blablabla"

Dude, it was ...POSSIBLY a tiny bit funny at first.. Now it's just lame. Stop pretending you're insecure for attention okay?

[Anonymous]

2 scenarios

S1 - Girl pulls boyfriends pants down and he is average, girl is either disappointed or doesn't care

S2 - Girl pulls boyfriends pants down and he is bigger than average, girl is excited and ecstatic

THIS is why guys feel insecure

and it is not the same with breasts, because guys already know what you are coming with when they choose you

[_Karma]

I see what you mean, but there is also: S3 - Girl pulls boyfriends pants down and he is bigger than average, girl is worried that it could be too painful. Really it can go either way, depending on the girl.

[Opinion Owner]

um no, S2 happens almost all of the times the guy is big also I have two friends and one is bigger and he always gets calls from girls wanting him, the other guy is average and he never does come on, women are shallow just admit it.. its nothing to be ashamed of

[_Karma]

Well unless these two guys are identical in every other way, I don't know how you can narrow it down to d*** size. Sorry.

[SocietysBomb]

some women are shallow not all. Just because your friend tends to attract girls who seem shallow doesn't mean all of them are like that right? .. I'm being 100% honest when I say penis size isn't that big of a deal to me a guy can't choose what size he is so why should I judge him based off of that. There are more things to a man than his penis size.

[Elisha22]

I've seen big (I mean HUGE) and it scared the sh*t out of me. I was like that's gonna hurt like a bitch and kinda rejected the guy. Anything over 8in pretty much hurts the girls I know. And as much as you wanna say we are all shallow sorry to tell you but you're wrong.

[Opinion Owner]

it does.. girls get more excited and sexual with big ones just admit it

[Elisha22]

Oh good lord! Do you not understand that 3 girls are telling you that they don't care? If we are all so shallow then give up on us and start f***ing guys, then you can compare sizes with them :P

[_Karma]

Ahahaha

[Opinion Owner]

three girls do not represent women every where and women everywhere prefer bigger

[Elisha22]

You're right 3 girls don't represent all women. Just like the girls you talk to don't represent all of us either.

[SocietysBomb]

you're right three girls don't repersent women every where, but I find it amazingly awesome how you happen to know what women every where prefer lol

[Twilight_Starstorm]

"S2 happens **almost** all of the times the guy is big" so you admit it doesn't happen like that all the time? :P Either way; my guy is around 7 inches. And I can tell you, he is big enough for me. I wouldn't want anything bigger. Sometimes it DOES hurt, and that's just 7 inches, let alone 8 or 9! Besides, (and of course I can't speak for all girls, but they are probably simular with practice) my mouth can only fit about 5 inches into it; so there's a bonus for smaller guys right there lol...

[Opinion Owner]

7 inches is above average dumb ass

[Anonymous]

Here we have another female trying to not sound shallow

Penis size does matter and girls who say it doesn't either haven't had big ones or are just trying to sound nice

[_Karma]

Do you have a vagina? If not, don't speak for us.

[Opinion Owner]

no but the majority of girls who tell it like it is do

[Elisha22]

Maybe that group of girls are the shallow bitches

[_Karma]

Or have loose vaginas.

[Opinion Owner]

no they are just honest is all

[SocietysBomb]

"no but the majority of girls who tell it like it is do" opinions vary SO girls who say that "it doesn't matter to them" are also telling it how it is. I never shy away from expressing my opinion on something I don't care about a guys penis size (I don't say it just to be nice, I don't give a f*** about being nice) I'm just saying it the way it is from my point of view.

[DonMichelle]

'Loose vagina''... aka 'Baggy pouch''

[Twilight_Starstorm]

Is 7 inches considered a "big one" in your book? That is my guy's length and I don't want anything longer, okay? I'm not saying that because I haven't had bigger or whateve; I'm saying he is big enough. Any longer and he'd run the risk of impaling me (lol). An inch or two shorter and he'd have a MUCH easier time finding my g-spot, especially in missionary. Though, I do admit that one does SOMETIMES have the urge to feel full, but a dildo easily satisfies that urge. More than 5 inch is size enough

[Hnmix]

@Twilight_Starstorm So there you go... you just said you "SOMETIMES have the urge to feel full." And a dildo does the trick. So what does that really say? How would you feel if he kept a pocket pussy or flashlight around because he sometimes "needed it feel tighter?"

[Hnmix]

I meant "fleshlight" to feel tighter