Masturbating to girlfriends pictures?

[AliMan]

So me and my girlfriend have this intense but long distance relationship in which,once in a while she sends me these real hot pics of herself,particularly nude.She usually asks me to delete them after I've seen them but I usually don't like deleting anything that she gives me.Apart from the fact that she doesn't know that I don't delete those amazing pics of hers,well she doesn't even know that I masturbate to them once in a while.Its just that the way she turns me on a lot like that,and NOTHING else does it that much for me and I really love her and she loves me too...So from both guys and girls,i wanna know if I'm really doing anything wrong overhere?

[Anonymous]

Masturbating to them wouldn't be wrong if she was okay with you keeping them.

But she isn't, and asks you to delete them.

You don't - you are lying to her and that is not okay.

But kudos for keeping them private. (But not enough kudos to save you from lying)

If she was okay with you keeping them, then I would say there is nothing wrong.

Talk to her about it, and reassure her that no one will see them and if you guys ever break up then you will delete them.

If you make this promise then you have to keep it.

No hiding them away to use against her if she is mean after you break up, not getting angry and sharing them if it ends badly. Just a promise kept by the bigger man.

I'm not saying you will - but for the sisterhood I have to attach this warning. LOL

link - I hope this posting wasn't made by your girlfriend.

Otherwise good luck.

And on a personal note, I let my boyfriend keep mine, with the agreement I suggested you make above. It works for us because I enjoy knowing I can get him off without even being there. LOL

[AliMan]

Hey first of all I really appreciate wht your saying and it does make sense and nope tht wasn't my girlfriend in the link you posted.So yea I will tell her for sure within this week only,but I just wanna say that its not as strict as you may have thought of it to be,like even if I keep them,she wount really be angry,but I just don't like lieing either and she also knows tht it turns me on alot:P,she loves it:P,so I'll bring it up then,thanks a lot for your answer :)

[Opinion Owner]

Good to hear :) let us know how it goes :) the user above me has an excellent idea.

[AliMan]

Yes she really does have an amazing idea,so its like I'm getting them tomorrow lol,so I'll make the move and let you know wht happens...

[katiesmuff]

Not really doing anything really wrong. Even though you are keeping the pics, you are keeping them private and she would probably be somewhat comforted that you love her enough to use her when masturbating. Why don't you download the pics, make hard copy for you and delete them off the phone. Nothing embarrassing going to happen should someone get into your phone or if she should happen to find them. You would be a real man if you asked her for permission to do such.

[AliMan]

Yea its true and I really don't wanna put myself in tht position of asking her lol...i guess someday I'll just delete all of them together or so... And she usually emails them to me,i can't risk keeping it in my phone ever...

[Anonymous]

I would straight up tell her. Say something like, "We live so far away and I barely get to see you, I love these pics - please don't ask me to delete them. I don't even want to look at p*rn when I have your pics, they're all I need, and nothing else does it that much for me." I would find it so sweet and flattering, there's no way she can say no.

[AliMan]

I really would use the words that you mentioned :P and what your saying is very truee...i'll tell her soon:),thanks for your answer:)

[Gettinghelp]

Thats a good idea

[Belgie]

Yes, you're lying to her. She said delete them. You didn't.

If you break up, and it's a bad break up, what's to stop you from angrily sending them around?

If your phone gets lost or stolen, what's to stop those pics winding up on the internet?

Sure sure that sort of thing only happens to other people. There's whole WEBSITES of those unlucky "other" people out there.

[AliMan]

Man I'm not such a guy,that I'll do that to her ever and no matter what happens...

[Belgie]

And if its lost / stolen? Sorry, no matter how you slice it, you're still in the wrong.

[Reggie1]

Well, you're being faithful to her, so the only thing you're doing wrong is keeping the pictures and in a sense going against her wishes. I wouldn't brag about it though.

[toosexualcat]

No, I think that's sweet. If she gets creeped out, she's a weirdo.

[Carping]

"So from both guys and girls,i wanna know if I'm really doing anything wrong overhere?"

Hell yeah man, in terms of Section 13 Paragraph 7,c,VII of the "bro-convention" you are suppose to share them with your bro's.

[indian_empress_91]

any guy who would show his guy friends his gf's nude pics is a pig, doesn't love her and shouldn't have anyone who trusts them give them anything

[AliMan]

lol yea right,good one and I don't have any bro's...

[Janedon0717]

Me and my Boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for over a year. We do the same thing, its really hard not being able to see them in person. You got to do what you got to do. :)

[Marrryyyyy]

delete them. I would print a few out to save, but the rest..delete. she's trying to protect herself in case your email gets hacked.

[dreamishobby]

until she doesn't know what you are doing...=> you are not doing anything wrong!

once she finds out what you are doing...=> all you are doing is wrong! (provided that she's already warned you to delete them!)

[AliMan]

Nah man its fine...she was fine with it...i told her and stuff...now I'm not even with her lol...

[dreamishobby]

u had a break up?n stil she's 5n?

[hellotini]

why would she send you naked pics if she didn't want you to masturbate to them? just to compliment her? sorry but she should know, anything you put on the internet, is on the internet forever. I don't think you're in the wrong.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Nothing wrong with that at all. I wouldn't delete them either. Just don't tell her about it and everyone should be fine.

Did you tell her? How'd she take it?

[AliMan]

yea man I told her and she's fine with it...but with the pics thing,its like she sometimes asks me to delete them and sometimes she doesn't lol...

[Opinion Owner]

Cool. Glad she didn't freak! Just save them somewhere she won't find them. It'll be good jacking material down the road as well, whether you stay with her or not.

[Anonymous]

No way are you doing anything wrong, it's great how attracted you are to her. I am the same about my boyfriend, even when he goes to work and I'm led in bed I can still smell his aftershave I get off ha ha that's how sexy I find him!