Masturbating to girlfriends pictures?

[Anonymous]

Masturbating to them wouldn't be wrong if she was okay with you keeping them.

But she isn't, and asks you to delete them.

You don't - you are lying to her and that is not okay.

But kudos for keeping them private. (But not enough kudos to save you from lying)

If she was okay with you keeping them, then I would say there is nothing wrong.

Talk to her about it, and reassure her that no one will see them and if you guys ever break up then you will delete them.

If you make this promise then you have to keep it.

No hiding them away to use against her if she is mean after you break up, not getting angry and sharing them if it ends badly. Just a promise kept by the bigger man.

I'm not saying you will - but for the sisterhood I have to attach this warning. LOL

link - I hope this posting wasn't made by your girlfriend.

Otherwise good luck.

And on a personal note, I let my boyfriend keep mine, with the agreement I suggested you make above. It works for us because I enjoy knowing I can get him off without even being there. LOL

[katiesmuff]

Not really doing anything really wrong. Even though you are keeping the pics, you are keeping them private and she would probably be somewhat comforted that you love her enough to use her when masturbating. Why don't you download the pics, make hard copy for you and delete them off the phone. Nothing embarrassing going to happen should someone get into your phone or if she should happen to find them. You would be a real man if you asked her for permission to do such.

[Anonymous]

I would straight up tell her. Say something like, "We live so far away and I barely get to see you, I love these pics - please don't ask me to delete them. I don't even want to look at p*rn when I have your pics, they're all I need, and nothing else does it that much for me." I would find it so sweet and flattering, there's no way she can say no.

[Belgie]

Yes, you're lying to her. She said delete them. You didn't.

If you break up, and it's a bad break up, what's to stop you from angrily sending them around?

If your phone gets lost or stolen, what's to stop those pics winding up on the internet?

Sure sure that sort of thing only happens to other people. There's whole WEBSITES of those unlucky "other" people out there.

[Reggie1]

Well, you're being faithful to her, so the only thing you're doing wrong is keeping the pictures and in a sense going against her wishes. I wouldn't brag about it though.

[Janedon0717]

Me and my Boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for over a year. We do the same thing, its really hard not being able to see them in person. You got to do what you got to do. :)

[dreamishobby]

until she doesn't know what you are doing...=> you are not doing anything wrong!

once she finds out what you are doing...=> all you are doing is wrong! (provided that she's already warned you to delete them!)

[Marrryyyyy]

delete them. I would print a few out to save, but the rest..delete. she's trying to protect herself in case your email gets hacked.

[Carping]

"So from both guys and girls,i wanna know if I'm really doing anything wrong overhere?"

Hell yeah man, in terms of Section 13 Paragraph 7,c,VII of the "bro-convention" you are suppose to share them with your bro's.

[hellotini]

why would she send you naked pics if she didn't want you to masturbate to them? just to compliment her? sorry but she should know, anything you put on the internet, is on the internet forever. I don't think you're in the wrong.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Nothing wrong with that at all. I wouldn't delete them either. Just don't tell her about it and everyone should be fine.

Did you tell her? How'd she take it?

[Anonymous]

No way are you doing anything wrong, it's great how attracted you are to her. I am the same about my boyfriend, even when he goes to work and I'm led in bed I can still smell his aftershave I get off ha ha that's how sexy I find him!

[toosexualcat]

No, I think that's sweet. If she gets creeped out, she's a weirdo.