Average guys should not get with girls that had bigger?

this is about penis size average sized(or smaller) guys should not date or get with girls that had bigger if you drove a Ferrari would you ever want to go back to the Honda civic? NO in that scenario the girl would probably cheat so the guy should just not date her to begin with agree / disagree ?
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  • You girls drive us nuts. We know a big penis gives you an awesome sensation we average guys can never give. Stop saying it doesn't matter "as long as you want a relationship". It still matters! The correct wording is, I'm willing to sacrifice that awesome sex feeling if you have a good job, are fit, make me laugh, seem like you won't cheat, etc etc. That's why most girls "settle" for average guys because they know we're the guys that are much less likely to cheat since the one we're cheating with is "just a hookup" so she'll be looking for that "big guy". You assume since you put great sex way down the list once you're looking for a guy to feed your kids and fix your sink for the rest of your life that we guys do the same but the reality is our drive to sexually "fill" you is actually much stronger once we've committed to you--and yes I know you'll say use fingers tongue etc, we know and we like too but that's NOT THE POINT. We are talking specifically about big penis sensation so when you say use other things (which we plan to do anyway), you are confirming our inability to make you feel awesome with our average equipment. So, there's a mismatch going on and no good way to resolve it. God bless those who find a good man with a big penis so this conflict never occurs. The rest of us have to cope, swallow it down or maybe "take ourselves out" so eventually only big penises abound and all can finally be happy.

  • Depends on whether she's with you for your **** or for your personality. Or for your skills. It really does, and it really is that simple. If she wants you for your cock, then she probably WILL dump you or cheat. If she wants you for sexual satisfaction, then as long as you have the skills, she won't care that you're average. After all, there exist a number of large toys she could use if the urge became too much. And if she wants you for your personality, then you **** isn't the highest priority, and she won't care if your average as opposed to huge.

  • Are you talking about:

    1. her eventually dumping you because she likes bigger or

    2. you not enjoying it because she'd be loose?

    Cause if it's 1,i'm pretty sure it depends on what kinda d**k she prefers.And if you really think all girls like them big or that's a reason to break up with a guy, you've got a problem.

    If it's 2, then know that the vag tightens back up.

    • this is about 1

    • It tightens up but it opens up wider and easier, hence "loose vagina"

Most Helpful Guys

  • Although bigger guys are statistically more rare, it could be argued that they get around more. Also considering how common it is for guys to send dick pics before hooking up (especially on tinder) girls can pre-screen guys based on penis size and hookup with guys who meet her individual size preferences. Realistically most girls have experienced at least one above average sized penis ( 6.1 inches or larger) by the time they get married. So if you are a guy who is average or below average, its almost guaranteed that the girl has had bigger. Its only if you're above average yourself that its possibly that you're the biggest she's had.

    They probably care more about size for hooking up but are willing to tolerate average for a relationship, but it most likely isn't her ideal but its sufficient. Its only because she can't find a bigger guy who is also relationship material (smart financially stable, and loyal)

    • So basically if you're under 6.1" you might find someone who will tolerate your penis.

  • If you can work it, then you're fine. I refuse to believe the majority of girls care about size unless it's a medical issue (baby d***). Your analogy is bad too by the way; Ferraris suggest the bigger penis has total functionality and it pleases 100% of the time; this isn't the case with penises and you shouldn't assume that. Just like how girls with big t*ts aren't always the best in bed.

    Lol @ the girl would probably just cheat. C'mon man, don't insult women like that, assuming they're just big-d*** mongers.

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  • I don't agree. I was with this guy who had a big unit, but he was not good at sex at all. He didn't really care about how it felt for me either :S So I left him. I'm with a new guy now and he is smaller than my ex, but I like him more because he cares about how I feel :) I would never cheat on him, he is amazing :D

    • I wonder how that makes your boyfriend feel.

  • Man what kind of question is this...

    Dude look it up all penis sizes only waver by almost nothing

    This is a confedence issue... Not a size issue...

    The only thing that changes penis to penis is the tip..

    Ever heard of mushroom tips and pencil tips..

    Some girls like diffrent tips not diffrent sizes...

    And if your at this point in a meaningful relastionship..

    She could careless about it...

    • "penis sizes only waver by almost nothing"? Oh yea? Do an image search for "Coke bottle dick". That's a pretty freakin' jinormous size waver!

  • Disagree. Bigger does not equal better. Also, the bigger guy could have been too darn big. Women who cheat likely also cheat on "big" guys.

  • Love how all the girls are saying size doesn't matter yet you quickly jump on it saying "most girls do" Sounds to me like your a tad self conscious mate. My d*** is average size but trust me, I know how to please a woman...god also granted you a tongue and fingers, use em.

  • DISAGREE!

    Thats just stupid lol. You don't have a RELATIONSHIP with a guy just because his big. You have a relationship with him because of things that have nothing to do with your body or his. Anything else is a bonus.

    And if his small or average it doesn't mean the girls going to cheat because of that! Its kind of like saying a guy should never date a girl with small boobs because he has dated girls with big boobs and he will cheat because yours aren't big enough. you now? anywayz...

    • bigger penis is better bigger boobs are just for looks

    • girls don't really care about guys d*** size! Seriously!

    • which would you take? guy 1 - average penis with skills guy 2 - big penis with skills

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  • I lost my virginity to a guy who was HUGE and he was easily the worst in bed out of any guy I've ever slept with (which is kind of a lot). He was not young or inexperienced (he was a college senior with a number too high to guess) but the fact was he couldn't last long and he only cared about getting himself off... and he was bad at cuddling (the after-sex cuddle is just as important as the sex if you ask me).

    Bottom line... it's not the size that matters, it's how you use it.

    • Hiya, I am 25 years old just completed my studies and a newbie here. My stats are EL: 4.5 inches and EG: 4.2 inches, now I honestly believe that all girls out here are lying or either they didn't understand the guy's question. So basically I am extremely good looking (that's what I have heard) I mean to an extend that I get both girls and guys asking me out everytime and also I love sex very very very much, in my short span of life I have had sex with more 40 girls and few guys as well and most of the girls that I have been with have told me that I am small and when I did it with guys I saw it literally that I was small compared to them. So when you girls say that it doesn't matter, to what size it doesn't like would you not cheat on a guy with4.5 inch penis in length and 4 inches in girth.

    • Great answer with great supporting facts👍

    • Didn't mean to comment on this response. Accidentally put that comment on the wrong person's reply to tyre question.

  • Disagree completely. Guys are so hung up on size but in reality most girls agree that really large can be more pain than pleasure. After all, you only have to be 3 inches to hit the spot. You just have to know how to work it or as they say "Its not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean".

    • no in reality most girls agree that bigger is better which would you take? guy 1 - average penis with skills guy 2 - big penis with skills

    • I guess that I am not most girls and all the girls I've known are not most girls either. I would take the small-average guy any day. I would take girth over length any day as well.

    • whats a good girth?

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  • Well if I was going to marry a guy, I'd hope he'd have two weiners --- one for my muffin, the other for my mouth. Two different sizes.

    • HAHAHA funny!

    • :D

    • Always have a bigger dildo on hand and then you can have two different sizes

  • Everything you just said is Bullsh*t! DISAGREE Seriously, GO GET A CLUE

  • I dated a guy who was too big it was really painful at first. He was also very boring he wouldn't try anything different... need less to say I eventually dumped him because sex was painful and he cocky about it . When I bught it up he smiled and said that I would get used to it... so there is a such thing as too big... There is also too smal this is true but in my experience average is best .

    • Average is best you say. What is average? 5.5?

  • That is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Sexual competency isn't all based on d*** size, even though larger d***ed guys seem to want to think it is. I'm sick of it. I want a gorgeous guy who wants to please me, not some big d***ed moron. WHAT'S WITH THE CAR ANALOGY? WE'RE F***ING HUMANS. We are PEOPLE. You cannot do this to humans. I love men. Medium size d***s and up, its all good.

    • stop lying, not fooling anyone which would you take? guy 1 - average penis with skills guy 2 - big penis with skills

    • I don't want my f***ing tiny vag stretched out, so GORGEOUS guy with average d*** would be awesome. Look at it this way; Out of 100, a big d*** might win him 10 points, medium 6 or 7 points. I DON'T CARE THAT MUCH.

    • ok so bigger is better then thanks for honesty

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  • You're an asshole. That's a much bigger problem than having a small d***.

    • no there is not

    • Hahaha took the words out of my mouth. +1

    • Imagine if we lived in a world where each guy had the same size big dick as each other. There would be no more assholes, maybe even no more war.

  • its not necessarily penis size that gets girls going, its stimulation of the g-spot. so theoretically, it her g-spot is five inches in her vagina, and I have a 5 inch penis, then my penis' head would be in perfect position to make her toes curl. get it?

  • she won't leave you for a bigger d*** but she would probably still wish it was bigger. I don't think a girl would cheat because you were average but more so if your were just bad in bed.

    • how can I find out so I can dump her ahead of time?

    • you wont!

    • I won't what?

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  • The size of his penis is the last thing I care about.

  • To be honest, I'd take the civic, but that's probably another subject. Women probably cheat for a lot of reasons. The bigger penis probably entices women who are thinking about cheating and, undoubtedly, there are some women who do cheat because of a big penis, but I don't think this would be the majority of women who cheat.

    In terms of whether or not you should not date a woman who has had bigger depends are your feelings about that and what her preferences are. If she prefers bigger, it's kind of a downer to wake up to that every morning and if that's the way all women felt, then you're kind of in a bind. But not all women, do, so the women who do have that preference become less desirable.

    Depending on how important this is to you, and it sounds like it is important to you, you need to find a women who prefers what you have. Make that a top priority.

  • If there was a way for me to know, it would factor into my decision to be with her.

  • I think your cheese slid off your cracker.

  • Don't worry so much about it, you'll never truly know if they don't tell you.. They might not tell you because they think they might hurt your feelings, especially if they know how invested you are in penis size comparison. The vagina has so many beautiful surprises and spots in it that you'll likely hit a spot that someone else may not even hit & you don't have to be huge to do it. Start studying positions and figure out what feels good to her, COMMUNICATION.. Forget tryna figure out if she had a bigger penis and try to figure out as many ways to make her feel good as possible! TRUST ME!

  • That analogy is quite sh't.

    D'icks are nothing like cars.

    • Yeah, mines more like chloroform... I knock girls out with it.

    • I don't. With chloroform, if you use too much it kills them.. So I use something less archaic. If they die you're stuck with a cold body.

    • Stuck with a cold body? Not if he finishes quick enough.

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