Why won't my boyfriend go down on me anymore?

[Anonymous]

We have been together for years and he used to go down on me all the time. For at least the past year and a half he doesn't do it anymore. I can't figure out why and I have asked him and tried letting him know that this is something I need in our sex life. He has never given me a straight answer. He is also really rough when even touching me down there to the point it hurts and I am completely turned off. What's the deal with him? Can anyone help me figure him out?

[SuperCurious]

Have you told him he is being to rough? Try putting your hand over his and guidle him, and be vocal about it, tell him what hurts and praise him and let him know how good it feels when he does it good, then reward him with the best possible bj or sex :) it works for me lol And sometimes after a while SOME guys get a little selfish and figure they don't need to do this stuff nymore because they alread have you and don't feel the need to impress you...

[Belgie]

It sounds like his emotional connection has changed.

If he liked going down on you before, maybe something has changed.



Maybe he's angry with you over something else, and this is his way of getting back at you. It's hard to say without more info. You really need to talk to him about it.

I'm assuming you still give him oral?

[Soon103]

sound to me like he can't go there because rough sex and hesitanting to oral sex is playing on his mind. Have you cheated? That's what this sounds like to me. Did he ever accuse you of Its cheating?

[crackfiend]

might be a personal hygiene thing

if he's being rough tell him rather than grin and bear it, I bet that's horrible

[Jesterface195]

Bored of you maybe