Do girls like it when guys get aggressive during sex?

I don't mean abusive. But would you like it if they pin you down against the bed or hold your arms down and really give it to you hard? Or if they spanked your butt while you were having sex doggy style and slammed you hard from behind or picked you up off the ground and rough sex standing up?
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Indeed they do just as I do ;) my sexphrase is ''You've got teeth and nails so use them''

    Being thrown around, being picked up and carried to another part of the room e.g off the bed and bent over the desk, rough and tumble on the floor, if they're smaller and easily lifted hold them by the legs and pin them with thier backs agaist wall. Women aren't allowed to talk when we have sex, they shut up and take it. I love to come in thier arses, don't know why, but I do...

    After sex we have cups of tea, depending on the weather maybe a spot of gardening :)

    If it's late at night and the neighbours are in bed maybe get up to some more gardening... sex in your garden anyone? :) ? hahahaha

    • i second the sex in nature ! and a bit of pda :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • Haha, we do. It's in our nature. MOST like it 50/50 as in sometimes he's rough, sometimes he's sweet and sensual. . . well sensual has to be all the time regardless. haha, but also some women prefer to be the aggressor. Take me and my boyfriend for instance . . . Sometimes he's rough and sweet with me, and sometimes I'm rough and sweet with him. Works both ways for us perfectly. Only sometimes he gets really sweet and romantic TOO soon after roughing me up and getting me hot and bothered. Haha, I end up just having to cool my jets and go along with it. Is he teasing me? lol, I think he's just bipolar like that = )

  • depends on the mood, if I'm super horny, I LOVE IT HARD! I love being pushed down on the bed, my arms being held above my head and taken so hard and fast to the point of squirting everywhere. I love to have my hair pulled, not so much spanking. I love my t*ts getting nipped, a little bit of pain to spice it up! and I love being picked up and or pushed hard against a wall, and him taking me right there hard, fast and taking all he can take. hungry for that orgasim.

    • thats f***ing hot ;)

  • omfg YES YES YES. I LOVE being spanked and when he pulls my hair, and just goes fast and hard. damn I love it rough.

    mind you I also really really love it more sensual too.

    it just all depends on the mood you're in.

    like, say, if we're barely waking up and are in each others arms, I want that sleepy half awake, intimate love making type of sex.

    • Wow. Your guy is so lucky.

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  • I wouldn't like this being done to me..I don't see how that would feel nice to anyone but each to their own :)

  • I love this but not all the time. Sometimes soft and slow sex is better. I'd say 50:50 would be great

    • Totally agree

  • YES

  • yes? it's a turn on. one of my ex boyfriends did whatever I wanted :)

  • Yeah... but it depends on the mood. Sometimes I love being really submissive and love if he just gets behind me and bends me over the couch or something like that, or sticks his d*** in front of my face and grabs my head. a little choking during rough sex can be a turn on too.

  • I LOVE it when guys are aggressive, it turns me on way more

  • yesyesyesyesyesyesyesyes. lets try this theory out now?

  • YES YES YES please if all guys were only like this , I like my sex rough from gagging to hair pulling a bit of face slapping, choking ...yumm also if the guy can dirty talk , and I don't mean the cheesy talk .. but actual guiding like "get on your knees" stay right there " suck it " little whore" yessss a man in control

  • Yeah, I like a dominant guy who does me rough esp doggy style!

  • Yes well i mean i like it

  • my girl does :) hard and fast!

  • Yes a huge turn on when a man dominates in bed, I love being pinned down!

    • Very nice, very very nice ;)

  • Sometimes because the girl likes to feel innocent or like a victim but with a bad side.

  • YES, I LOVE THE CONTROL AND DOMINANCE MY MAN HAVE OVER AGGRESSIVE SEX. AND BEING THE FACT I'M USE TO BEING TREATED ROUGHLY BY MEN. AND I HAVE BEEN RAPED 3 TIMES IN THE PAST. THAT I'VE LEARNED TO ACCEPT ROUGH SEX... SO I BEGAN TO MAKE MYSELF ENJOY IT.. BECAUSE OF THE REPEATED MISTREATMENT I'VE EXPERIENCED IN MY LIFE. SO IT TURNS ME ON NOW.. IT'S SAD IN A WAY, BUT IT'S THE WAY I FEEL AND HOW I'VE BEEN TRAUMATIZED.

  • im going to go with a big YES I know I like it that way but I like to start off by him pushing me against the wall wile kissing then one thing leads to another and bam lol

  • i love being pinned down! lol